He and I never broke up.He went to the army,I moved away,we've losted touch,both got kids and are with someone else.After years of seperation,we've find each other and realized that we can't get enough of each other.I'm trying to do the right thing by staying away,but my heart is pain.Soldier boy is the only guy my heart and body desire.
2007-05-07 14:17:30 · 4 answers · asked by G.I jane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are still truly in love with him the best thing you can do is to stay away from him until after you talk to your current spouse and separate from him. Then, after you separate from your spouse, pursue the relationship. I don't think you can erase something like that. Cheating on your current mate will only complicate things and make things worse between you two.
2007-05-15 11:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by shepsgrrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats your preception. Realize that love is every feeling you ever felt for a person, its anger, disgust, and extansy. Its a feeling you also make for yourself, no magic hand in it. Realize also that you guys started something else, somewhere else, and you've got purposes outside the lost "romance". Do this, and feeling like this tells me that you've failed yourself these past years, and him to. It also shows that you guys still beat yourselves up about it. Three choices with infinete possiblities exsist. One is that you guys forfiet the relationships you've already made, your childern made and try to make right with each other, bad. Second one is that you realize that following this love affair can be dangerous and risky after all these years, and cut contact. Third you guys simply maintain a friendship and were it goes from there, well thats up to chance and circumstance. Just realize that nothing about this is right, that you playing love-struck this long after the fact is actually a big sign of emotional immaturity. Romantic love is great for the kiddos in highschool but theres more then just you and him in on this dance.... realize that
2007-05-11 10:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to think with your head aswell as your heart. Is it worth breaking up your family for a childhood romance? Only you know the answer to this but think long and hard.
Good luck with everything and whatever you decide, may your God go with you.
2007-05-13 05:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. Or you will experience more pain than you already have. Go on with your life. Find someone else who is willing to give you more permanency.
2007-05-15 18:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by maestra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋