It alsways seemed that she liked him and i know that my dad doesnt like him either
I love him i know that he is a difficult one to understand but i know how he is towards me and he loving and caring
And believe me i know love is blind but i can see
How do i deal with this?
2007-05-07 22:38:59 · 12 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No one will ever be good enough for you in your parents eyes but keep in mind they will quickly sniff out the bad eggs. Listen to them even if makes you mad or isn't what you want to hear. They do not want you to live with them forever but they also do not want to you run off with an idiot. Step back and look at your situation from an objective point of view. Maybe ask a friend. Remember, no matter what happens, you will one day look back at this as just another day.
2007-05-07 22:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by sirdouglas527 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been with your bf? maybe your parents noticed something that you didnt? they should tell you exactly why they dislike him. Also, if you've only been going out for a little bit , you might be in the infatuation phase where he can do no wrong. Your parents probably have a little more experience with relationships and know what all the signs of a bad bf are. OR, your bf might just be shy and unable to really show what a good guy he is. Maybe he can talk to your parents and that way they can see that he really is serious about you and wants to try hard to be accepted by your parents. Thats always a good idea. go out to dinner..but make it sound like it is his idea so he can talk to your mom.
2007-05-07 22:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probable nevertheless mourning the shortcoming of his mom. supply him your time, I propose, it really is his mom, for cryin' in a bucket. everybody needs to artwork by grief at their very personal %.. If he isn't any longer waiting to attempt doing some thing, enable it pass. tell him to allow you to understand even as he's waiting to do some thing relaxing which includes going out to eat or a movie. That places the administration in his fingers and could make him experience a lot less compelled. If it really is been more effective than some months and he nevertheless hasn't began to come back round, you may propose he get some help. in the different case supply him his area and be supportive.
2016-11-26 02:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by keetan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually like my daughter's last boyfriend and she hates him now. Go figure. I liked him because he treated her with respect. She said that she didn't love him any more because the "romance" wasn't there for her.
You're the one who has to live with him, not your parents. I'm sure they have your best interest at heart. There's probably something about his manner that doesn't set well with them. Young men (some) seem to have this thing about them, like a chip on their shoulder. They want to be grown up and respected without having to earn it. I bet that's what your parents see.
2007-05-08 06:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to resolve it it would probably be best to sit them down and find out why exactly they don't like him. Maybe it's a silly reason and you can help sort it out. Otherwise, they may have some points which you have not considered before. Like I always say: "open, honest communication."
2007-05-08 03:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Rabble Rouser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mabie u should talk to your parents and ask them why they feel that way . the truth is no one can make anyone like anyone if they dont want to . so if u love him thats really your decision but i suggest u talk to them and find out why do they have problems with him . mabie they see something u dont i dont know . how long have u been going together ?
2007-05-07 22:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents are old enough to work out who is a bad character etc.
they been through more and will recognise who is good and who is bad. Most of the time they right.
afterall they want the best for their children
2007-05-07 23:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Rosy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps talking to your mum and your dad about why they both seem to dislike your b/f would give you some insight into thier reasoning , though untimately if this persons loves you treats you well and with respect time in itself will bring them to see the kind of person he is
2007-05-07 22:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by mathew j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who really cares if your parents dont like your boyfriend. Its not their choice who you date is it? You dont see them picking up boys for you lol... Just stay with him. His parents might not like you either.
2007-05-07 22:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the one that's going to sleep with him, eventually, so, who cares.
2007-05-07 23:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋