What is your opinion?

Question

What is wrong if a woman has lost her chastity before he marriage to somebody before marriage and she wants to have relationship some other guy since she is not all satisfied with her marriage as her husband is not upto her satisfaction

Answer 1

Forget what happenned before marriage. But people get married, they make promises to each other that they would dedicate their life to their partners, that they would be faithfulk to their partners,and few more. If one cannot respect one's own words, one can respect neither himself/herself nor anyone else. After marriage, both the partners are supposed to stay committed no matter what happens.

If her marriage is not upto her satisfaction, she can always opt out for divorce. Why can't she do that? Why does she have to take a chance with a sinful act that would disturb everyone's life? If she can gather enough courage to indulge into those sinful acts, why can't she gather courage to make up her marriage?

That's what I call hypocrisy. People blame others to find reasons to indulge themselves into their sinful desires.

All the best...

:-)

Answer 2

well if the woman has lost her chastity b4 marriage and the husband is aware this is the case i would not see any problem with this, most men these days also have lost their chastity prior to marriage ,double standards are unfair,though having relationships once married is quite different altogether i believe in being faithful within a relationship though others may be quite happy with an open relationship ,though i cant stess on the open aspect enough as looking for further gratification ouside of her marriage without her husbands knowledge i believe shows extremely low morals to say the least and also no respect for her husband or marriage

Answer 3

I think there is some psychological problem between the two. Because the husband knows the past fact of the wife he is not able to digest the truth and behaving accordingly. And the wife is suffering from the guilt hence she is not adjusting with her husband. I think they need a counselling.

Answer 4

I don't have any specific opinion, since the situation doesn't deserve, as it could be mutually adjusted between the two easily no outside help or support is needed and hence undesired. She being an experienced could very well educate her husband so as to get satisfied.

Answer 5

I think the husband and wife need to try out new ways for satisfaction because if she goes onto another man she might as well leave her husband..

Answer 6

A female as an individual has to decide with her own wisdom and judicious mind waht is best and what is not. How can others who were never been in the situations can comments on this.

So let the female who is in this situation decide why other bothred.

Answer 7

try to solve it personally with husband and it's not a solution to have relationship with others after marriage. So be practical and discuss about the problem you had to your husband and try to solve them. It will work better..... Good Luck

Answer 8

Then she should educate her husband on what she likes and does not like, men don't "automatically know" what a woman likes, if you don't tell him then how can you expect him to know? Show him what you like and what you want, you'll have a lot more fun that carrying around the guilt of an affair.

Answer 9

There is nothing wrong or right in any thing one does. So it is your own desires and opinion that matter most.

Secondly evry thing deopends wht u want and how u do that ?
else every thing is bakwas and sheer faltu lecture so take a lambi saans and tell that women what she really want and then just do it.

Answer 10

I do not tail about what happened before marriage.It is past and buried.both will have such stories,some times.

but after marriage both wife and husband should be loyal to each other and shall not betray one another.If she is betraying him truly and he is honest, separation is the solution.