I have been with my boyriend nearly 3 years. Last night I saw a bloke that I went to school with years ago. There had always been chemistry between us for years while we went to college together. I later texted him to tell him i had always liked him. What do I do, I feel like I have betrayed my boyfriend or is it perfectly innocent texting this bloke?
2007-05-07 22:35:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are leading up to a betrayal! Texting that to the old friend is basically going to be interpreted as, "I still like you, so let's do something about it and not miss the chance this time." It is up to you how you wanna go...if you are thinking about meeting this guy, then you are not in love with your boyfriend and you should dump him before you 'misbehave.' And if you decide to stay with your boyfriend, you can't really hang out with that other guy because he knows how you feel about him and will only try to take it up a notch. Hmm...in your position, you gotta pick one or the other. You shouldn't have both. Make your mind and stick with it.
2007-05-07 22:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not perfectly innocent. How would you feel if your boyfriend texted another girl to tell her that he always liked her?I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and we got engaged 6weeks ago.before we got engaged, i had met another man and started falling for him.he said things that were true,that i didnt even realise, he said things i wanted to hear, and i was loving it.but my boyfriend found out and by then, this other new crush had manipulated my mind and made me hate my boyfriend. after talking things through with my boyfriend, i came back to my senses and apologised to my boyfriend. i didnt know what i was doing,i guess i was at my lowest point where anybody could say anything and i would fall for it.but i learnt better the devil you know than the one you dont. im sure you and your boyfriend have come pretty far in three years. do you really think its worth it go give up what you made for yourself just for someone you had feelings for, who probably didnt have feelings for you?if he d\had feelings for you,dont you think he would have made a move back in school?the choice of who you want to be with,is yours.but remember choices have consequences. what's important is that you should be with the man that you are happy with. you've been doing fine without the school crush for three years,why do you suddenly want to fall for him?
2007-05-07 22:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by Goldilocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
texting a former flame saying you had always liked him is in itself not cheating though to follow up any further would be,if your interested in seeing if thier is still something their with the former school friend i suggest my taking a break with your current b/f as the saying goes honesty is the best policy , and it wouldnt make for a nice situation for anyone involved should you take things further than you have , i guess to if your wondering of the maybe's then mayb in your heart the current b/f is not the one for you ... just a thought
2007-05-07 22:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by mathew j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pass on your loved. it would not count how a ideas or how close you're in miles. It concerns how a ideas or how close you're in relationship. i'm no longer attempting to make you experience undesirable. merely sharing my evaluations. in case you imagine about the 2d one, than pass for him! Love wouldn't have some thing to do with actual stuff. it really is whats interior your coronary heart. Your emotions. desire you want my recommend! good success!
2016-11-26 02:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by keetan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you are pulling away from the man you been with for three years..Flip the issue on the other side..? How would you feel about that..if it was your boy friend having feelings about another girl..?
2007-05-07 22:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by K_LOVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every body however got someone from school whom he /she liked .but after school when both got their own life that past history should be forget.you're wth your b/f since 3 yrs now don't break thing you've been building by your own ,you don't know how your school mate is .is he someone sincere?does he keep he's promises?you must know that relationship with someone is not someyhing we can command some may be sincere , some oters not.good luck.
2007-05-07 22:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a commented relationship, then you have no business texting another man.
2007-05-07 22:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by oncexbittenx2xshy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not okay if you are developing feelings for him again. Best to end on relationship before you begin another.
2007-05-07 22:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing now is only in the mind, soon it will be physical. Then you will decide if he is still suitable for you! Go for it
2007-05-07 23:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel guilty you did betray him.
How would you feel??
Shame on you Hannah, shame on you.
:(
2007-05-07 23:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋