i've been going out/dating with for about 3 months. i can kinda tell that he's into me. we have lots of fun going out together (we live not too close and it takes him 2 hours to come to my house to pick me up). the thing is the fisrt time i went out with him he tried to kiss me on the lips and hugged me but i got scarred. i tilted my head and ended up just hugged him instead. so till now he still hasn't kissed me yet. i thought he would be turned down by me from that but then he still keep asking me out. he even told his mom that he was going out with me. so here is my question. 1)is he really into me or i'm imagining things? 2)if he likes me why he doesn't get the strength to try to kiss me again? 3)if he tells his mom that he's going out with me/dating me does that mean he's serious about me and consider long term thing?
2007-05-07 22:42:08 · 11 answers · asked by My Dear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you got scared, then you were not ready for his kiss, if you tilted your head, then body language tells me you still are not ready you wanted to "pull" away from him.
If he still keeps you asking you out, then he is still interested and he is being patient and sensative to your feelings.
You are not imagining things, he is still into you, he hasn't got the strength to kiss you again, because you tilted your head and pulled away from him, he does not want that to happen again, he would like to give you a real kiss, but you are not ready.
He is serious about you, but before you lose him, you have to tell him that you are not ready for the kissing part of your relationship, honesty is the best policy, and if you are uncomfortable with anything, let him know.
Men are not mind readers, you have to communicate with them they like that when you are honest and up front with them, it shows them respect also.
2007-05-07 22:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he is seriously in to u and might consider long term thing with u.
Any man with some high esteems will never again try to kiss when turned down. But as this guy drives all the way just to pick u up, he is surely after u., may b just to teach u a lesson too! lol.. like wait till u kiss him on ur own and then dump u with a winning note!!
Anyway, u dont hav much to loose
Just kiss him on the next date. Poor guy he deserves it!
2007-05-07 22:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sanjeev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you put up the red flag with the kissing issue. (2) it is not imagining things. (3) if you want to kiss him Then Give him the kiss when the moment is right. If you like going out with him and he is fun tobe around have fun enjoy, but take you time.. all he is doing is respecting you.
2007-05-07 22:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by K_LOVE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1)you are not imagining stuff girl he is really into you. 2)that's because you resisted the first time,he is just getting over it soon enough he would come kissing you again.
3)no guy ever tells his mum about a girl unless he really likes her and is seriously wishing for a long term thing.
2007-05-07 22:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it sounds like he's into you so why not make the next move and shock him out of his skin and kiss him. He'll love it and be so happy.
2007-05-07 22:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by golden tigress 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is waiting for you to make the move, since you turned your head last time. Kiss him darn it!! He is in to you if he is driving that far to pick you up for a date!!!
2007-05-07 22:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he's not trying again it's because the first time you refuse to be kissed and he don't want to force you if you're ready just tell it to him cause it seems he relly like you.
2007-05-07 23:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u try kissing him? i think he is very serious about u, but if he tries to kiss u again what if u reject him again maybe he is scared off this..
2007-05-07 22:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y don't u kiss him, since he made the first move
2007-05-07 22:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kai 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry
2007-05-07 22:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋