i am very close to this male friend.
for about 3 months we have been calling each other everyday, chatting at least one hour to even 4 hours at a go.
we have feelings for each other.
but we always shun away from the topic of being together or admitting our feelings because we're shy.
we flirt a lot(: even to the extend of dirty talking and holding hands. we share alot of secrets. and i feel very comfortable with him.
yesterday he finally admitted his feelings for me and wants to be with me.
today, i agreed over the phone but everything was so awkward.. things just feel wierd. so he suggested we be friends for the time being and think over it again.
i really want to be with him. what should i do?
should i SMS him instead so it'll be less awkward for the both of us?
thanks and hope you'll answer my question(:
2007-05-07 23:31:49 · 7 answers · asked by apple-licious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you everyone who have answered my question(: i am now together with him(:
2007-05-08 02:27:24 · update #1
You may be throwing away a good thing. The best relationships begin as friends. It is easier to be in a loving relationship when you actually like the person you are with. Take your time, it will come naturally.
2007-05-07 23:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being friends first. It sounds like that is what the two of you need. Develop a deeper friendship and the relationship will work. Good Luck
2007-05-08 06:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by mundo808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is much in this. If there were, you would have had sex a long time ago, and this would have been spontaneous, without a word being spoken.
2007-05-08 06:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it...you have a connection you just both continue to scare each other away when you do talk about your feelings...its obvious, one of you needs to be steadfast in your honesty about your feelings.
2007-05-08 06:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by roncho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you must ask him to forgive you if you hurt him and just be yourself ,you said you have feeling for him if you can't tell it to him face to face just write a poem for him telling about your feelng .don't complcate thing by asking too much from him.
2007-05-08 06:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get drunk with each other and everything will take care of itself.
2007-05-08 06:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to him face to face and forget about using the phone.
2007-05-08 06:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋