Family & Relationships - 10 May 2007

she treats me like dirt yet i cant stop loving her. I tell myself i dont but i cant get her out of my head. Why wont she have me? I could be everything shes ever wanted

2007-05-10 22:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

accept me and love me the same?

2007-05-10 22:09:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 22:07:09 · 9 answers · asked by fiza 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a 5 month relationship and I cancel my plans to see her because she cant tell me what her schedule would be like. she has a tough mom, and doesnt let her schedule her life as she would like. So that means when friday comes around, I have to tell my friends "Sorry i cant come out" because Im waiting to know what time I'd see my gf. Either because of school work she didnt do or mom issues she can never give me concrete schedeuls. So this weekend she makes plans with her friends, and makes time to see me. But she made plans with her friends first before making them with me. She said she wants the independence to do that. But i tell her that I feel like I didnt matter, she didnt ask me if our plans would get in the way of what we wanted to do. She made plans with her friends first. But the thing is she rarely sees her friends. Maybe once in 3 months. Yet i have to cancel my friends every week just to keep myself open in case she is free. What am i doing wrong?

2007-05-10 22:03:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please, looking beyond the difference in age and whether it is illegal or not. Do you think it's possible for a 21 yr. old guy to like a 15yr. old. Like for real, and not just for sex. Honest opinions, thanks!!

2007-05-10 22:03:28 · 25 answers · asked by Me nutrit Me destruit 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 22:02:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a girl .She comes from France.I was kind of infactuated with her.Now she went back home.She wants me to come and visit her.We communicate via e-mail.I really like her , and she likes me as well , but I live in South Africa and she is in France.
I always measure all the positives and negatives of every single situation that I find myself in , but at the moment I can not get the idea of travelling to France , to go and visit her out of my head.I am not a guy that meets a girl and then falls in love with her just like that , but this girl blew me away.Do you think I must just go with the feeling and klimb on an aeroplane?
Or should I do risk assesment on this , like I do with everything else in my life?

2007-05-10 22:02:24 · 1 answers · asked by Quenten Havenga 1 in Singles & Dating

Before we got married we always talked about having kids but now that we are married (4years) my husband says he doesn't want children.We use to fight about this a lot but the last few months it got so emotionaly tiering that i just kept my mouth even though I'm deing inside. My husbund went so far to tell me last night his going for a vasectomy om monday. i creid myself to sleep last night!!! what should I do? Do I leave him. I do love him lots but I so badly want a baby!!! what made him change his mind. Maybe its my fault

2007-05-10 21:58:19 · 8 answers · asked by KELLY ANN L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friends said that they kiss, roll and have sex . but i dont know what really happens

2007-05-10 21:58:07 · 12 answers · asked by dandelion_25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live with my grandmother and she's the most horrible person you could ever meet in your life. She lies about everything to make me look bad and is unbelieveably spiteful. She ruined my art coursework and threw out a file of work just before my A-level exams so I had to quit school. I've been trying to re-sit some a-levels in college to try and get to uni but she's been moving my papers and throwing them all over the floor. My mothers car is broken and so I rely on my grandmother to give me lifts to my part time job, she'll wait until im ready to go then tell me she wont take me so I have to call into work to say I'll be late. I keep getting into trouble becuase of this. She spent the money my mother had in a savings account for me to learn to drive because she rekons she put more money into it than my mother (lies) and it was in her name. My belongings are in her house because my mother is selling her own house to live with her boyfriend. She isnt old (56)

2007-05-10 21:50:11 · 19 answers · asked by Rainbow-Taster 2 in Family

You see, one of my friends took advantage of me, and my other friend said straight up to my face that "You're not my Friend!" and then just suddenly came up to me and told me that Common, you're my friend so just tell me that important secret of yours! I was just wondering, should I still let them in my Life? Or should I just leave them in an Ocean full of Sharks only to be torn apart? Do they deserve to be forgiven?

2007-05-10 21:48:40 · 6 answers · asked by Light 3 in Friends

the last world is brothers.

2007-05-10 21:48:18 · 2 answers · asked by R K g 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been told I have a stunning face and am really photogenic. People always compliment my figure and fashion sense etc and yet I can go out with my girlfriends and it seems all the blokes talk to them and I just get a nod?? I've been told some guys are afraid of rejection but this answer doesn't satisfy my need!! So come on guys whats a girl to do?

2007-05-10 21:40:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been w/ my g/f going on 9months. I'm a good guy w/ goals, determination & motivation. I drink occasionally. She is content w/ the job she has. Doesn't want to pursue a college edu. She procrastinates and drinks excessively & other Bad habbits. She is a diff religion than myself. She is understanding, beautiful smile, & makes me happy :) . I'm faithful & devote plenty of attention to her. I feel as if I'm not being appreciated :( . Wat do u do when u know deep down inside your investing so much time with someone you won't spend the rest of your life with. They don't have certain attributes you want from a spouse. At 21 yrs, (she's 22)... I came to the conclusion that I would probably want to be friends w/her. She says I'm the her first real relationship. Her first real Love. The only guy that has treated her like a "princess". Is it possible to just have a friendship from a woman that says this. To sit bck & just chill and sip a brew. Does this exist or is it a fairy tale.Adviceplz

2007-05-10 21:37:59 · 3 answers · asked by Giovanni 1 in Singles & Dating

alright why do girls find me un attractive before they meet me, but when they get to know me, and hang out with me, they really like me and find me cute? same thing happens when i talk on phones with girls, they dont like me, i talk on the phone with them they fall for me?(i'm really not an attractive guy, for girls questions)

2007-05-10 21:36:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do i always let my mother talked me into things i dont wanna do or when i decide to do something she always convince me that it is wrong and i end up not doing it even if it breaks my heart and i feel misrable like now she has done it again and she let me feel so stupid for even thinking of doing it

2007-05-10 21:36:42 · 2 answers · asked by ANGEL234 2 in Singles & Dating

I like a guy I like everything about him, I think hes handsome, clever, funny, beautiful, kind, caring, witty just perfect! But im not attracted to him hes just my favourite person in the whole world and Im not attracted to him enough to be with him.
what does this mean? Will I eventually like him? Do i just see him as a friend? My friend told me that I definately like him because I want to be around him all the time and get jealous when other girls talk to him.
im confused!

2007-05-10 21:34:18 · 5 answers · asked by klara c 1 in Singles & Dating

recently my girlfriend and Ihave been arguing and stuff a lot. She has told me that I am smothering her, and that she needs her space. This all started when we were about to move in together. Our habits as far as seeing each other has not chance in 4 months, but all of a sudden now she feels like im around her too much. She will invite me over to her place, and then get mad at me because i "make a move" or just because im there. I have tried giving her some space, but it seems like the more space I give the more she wants me to stay away. I have tried talking to her about it, buying her flowers, and giving her a card. I called off us moving in together indefinately, and told her that we can slow things down. It still doesnt seem to help. She tells me that she doesnt want to break up with me, but at the same time she doesnt seem to want to be with me. What do I do? I really love her, and I know some of this is my fault, i just dont know what to do to make it better, please help!

2007-05-10 21:31:21 · 12 answers · asked by Keith T 2 in Singles & Dating

Thinks like, I called her on morning, and her bestfriends husband was there, she didn't answer the phone, but called right back. She said she was brushing her teeth, she went to work, I brought her coffee, kissed her, tasted fowl!

2007-05-10 21:23:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Usually my bf calls me to say good night but last night he sent a message to say goodn'ght, i love you. I then called him... after all was said, i said i love you expecting him to say i love you too as usual but he said thank you. When i asked him to say it he refused, saying he had said it in the message. Now i dont want to pick up his calls, am i being childish

2007-05-10 21:23:36 · 18 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Singles & Dating

alrighty, so, there was a boy i liked and he seemed to like me too. but i was always too nervous to hang out with him cuz he looked eerily like my ex and i just wasn't sure about him. so i cancelled plans like 2 or 3 times. and then one day he just like stopped talking to me all of the sudden. so i commented him on myspace and he didn't answer so i deleted him.. and he still didn't do anything so it was like he didn't care. i was kind of upset.. so today my friend imed him but didn't say she was friends with me or anything but she was jus tlike why are you such an asshole, like why do you like to play girls? and he was saying stuff like "yeah i just like to mess with ppls heads" and like such mean stuff i was like.. OMG, he really is an asshole! lol. well then somehow it was brought up that she was my friend and he was like "well now i actually had feelings for her.. but she kept cancelling plans which is something i hate, and she deleted me from myspace so i thought that meant she...

2007-05-10 21:18:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He says my eyes are small and slanted and I am petite...with flat chest...
He always criticise how ugly I am...
Do you guys find Chinese girls very ugly and unattractive?

2007-05-10 21:14:56 · 15 answers · asked by Wot Shines Like Diamonds?Ruby =P 2 in Singles & Dating

When you have'nt been talking much with your girlfriend for a week and you finally ask her, "if she still want's to be together, or not." when she says "that's something we need to talk about" You ask "when can we" and never get a response... Does that mean what I think, or is it possible she's debating and answer, or needs time.

2007-05-10 21:14:13 · 10 answers · asked by zelin 4 in Singles & Dating

Im getting married in less than a month and I'm starting to get annoyed by everything my man does..i push him away alot were not as "intimite" as we used to be and i enjoy the time apart. Is there something wrong with the way i feel? Should i call off my wedding? i am i making a big mistake?

2007-05-10 21:11:04 · 19 answers · asked by Angela F 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Was visiting french city met this guy who plays for top rugby club he brought me back to apartment where he lives with girlfriend of 5 years ,she was on holiday at time though he told me she was his friend and not girlfriend and he was single !only the next morning did he tell me the truth!am returning to this city next week and the chances of seeing this girl are pretty high as i am irish and so is she and the irish pub we will be going to is her local should i tell her if i see her that her boyfriend is cheating on her as since they are living together they could get engaged and i think she should know the truth!

2007-05-10 21:09:30 · 18 answers · asked by rose18 1 in Singles & Dating

knowledgeable and not ignorant in life?

2007-05-10 21:05:03 · 12 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

both of us are broke.

2007-05-10 21:04:18 · 19 answers · asked by walawala 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 21:02:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner initiated a split from me (im 42 yrs old) to be with her new "boyfriend" who is 62. Im still strugling to see what she sees in him. Both have Epilipsy. my 2 children by her now reside with them as she moved him in on the same day i left the home, even though she had known him for about 6 weeks.
with the exception of his house which he inherited from his mother what is the attraction?

2007-05-10 21:01:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me n my girlfriend going quite stedy for last 3 months but hv never kissed anything like that till date. But recently i have developed a feeling for sleeping (sex) with her . How do i talk to her abt this.

2007-05-10 20:55:47 · 12 answers · asked by gaurav m 1 in Singles & Dating