Was visiting french city met this guy who plays for top rugby club he brought me back to apartment where he lives with girlfriend of 5 years ,she was on holiday at time though he told me she was his friend and not girlfriend and he was single !only the next morning did he tell me the truth!am returning to this city next week and the chances of seeing this girl are pretty high as i am irish and so is she and the irish pub we will be going to is her local should i tell her if i see her that her boyfriend is cheating on her as since they are living together they could get engaged and i think she should know the truth!
2007-05-10 21:09:30 · 18 answers · asked by rose18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you do it or not he will get caught at some point. he cant get away with that forever.
2007-05-10 21:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is really not your place to tell her, however I do realize your concern. Is there some way to get the info to her without getting involved yourself?
If not, try this--next time you see the two of them together, go up to him and say something like this, " Is this your sister? You told me the other night that you did not have a girlfriend, or I would never have gone home with you!" and walk away as if you are angry.
2007-05-10 21:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no! don't tell her. just keep the secret between u and the guy.u will be glad u kept it a secret in the long run...(who is this girl 2u anyway??? she isn't your friend thats for sure..so why tell her?)
i have done the same thing. i messed with a guy who has a GF (while she was away)
i can honestly say that it feels much more better to keep what u had a secret..then to cause alot of drama!! u will regret it forever if u tell her...let her find out on her own! thats what life is all about..to live and learn.
2007-05-10 21:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds very much that you care a lot for this guy, and all you want to do, is revenge, as means for calling his attention...
What is the gain for all this fuzz? will he go back to your arms to cry and ask for advice? will he go to you and say "look I am sorry"? I doubt it seriously..
He had an affair...hadnt you ever had one?
Its quite bad going to bed with a man you barely know, and very especially when you are supposed to be a catholic, as you describe yourself....
Are you pure as didtilled water?
What if her girlfriend does not care nor believe you?
You are headingfor being a big oser here girl....nothing to gain
The damage is already done...
2007-05-10 21:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sehr_Klug 50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not really your place to but only you can decide if you think its the right thing for you to do, would you want someone that you didn't know to tell you the truth ? someone who had actually slept with him? once you have answered your own questions about it then only can you make a decision
xx
2007-05-10 21:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do that?...you shouldn't have been so quick to sleep with him...he sounds like he has done this before and she will find out in time but why would you want to be the one to hurt her..you should be upset with the guy for using you like he did and she is innocent in all this..
she wont see it like it is and you will be the one looking worse off.
you need to be more careful of your actions.
2007-05-10 21:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what you think is the right thing to do just please don't get in a fight with her-you know about the temper thing! She probably already knows he is a cheater or else she is lying to herself. I believe you honestly feel you want the best for her-you will have to decide for yourself. Try to put yourself in her place.
2007-05-10 21:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to tell her. You're the one he cheated with and that says alot about you. I din't even think she will believe you, let sleeping dogs lie and let her be. Go on with your life and forget the whole thing. Don't be selfish.
2007-05-10 21:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have some proof that he cheated on her she won't believe you and she will run it by him and he will lie himself out of it. I am sure that she has a suspicion and that someone else might even tell her. Don't let it be your duty. Just make sure that you don't do it again.
2007-05-10 21:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her the truth.
Tell her you slept with him AND you are a pre-operative transsexual and you thought she should know that he isn't certain if he likes girls.
That will put twice the stink on him.
2007-05-10 21:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could u know whether he's cheating just bcoz u had one night stand with him.
wat if they already know and accepted each other's little adventures.
when you go tell her , if she replies " i know , so what's your problem with it ?" wont u be lookin like a jackass in front of her?
2007-05-10 21:18:38 · answer #11 · answered by a dangerous mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋