Family & Relationships - 10 May 2007

The bride said the wedding is casual and to wear something like a sundress - I have shopped till I dropped, and I can't find a sundress that looks good on me. The only dress that I have is black (very cute), and the wedding is on Saturday on a yacht off the coast of Cali. If I dressed it up with a turqoise handbag and pumps, would I be okay?

2007-05-10 17:09:08 · 30 answers · asked by missylit 3 in Weddings

I'm having a hard time forgiving the person who shot my cousin five months ago. First of all, it was his daughter, and they are doing her trials around this time. She is only looking forward to like 3 years. I just want to be able to forgive her, even though what she did was horrible. I'm just struggling to cope with everything. Any suggestions?

2007-05-10 17:05:01 · 5 answers · asked by **Amanda** 3 in Family

have to do the majority of calling you in a relationship. we also would like to know that you women are insterested in us as well. we both should pull our own weight. takin turns at least.

2007-05-10 17:03:28 · 19 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 in Singles & Dating

i was basically in love with this guy. so i spent a year getting over him because i know it isnt going to happen. What i just don't get is that he is all over this other girl and i guess im jealous. i mean, she isn't anything special, if anything she's just fake and a b****...so what does she have that i dont? i have been torturing myself with this and i just want to let go of this jealousy issue but have no idea how....please help!?

2007-05-10 16:58:37 · 13 answers · asked by Ellen 4 in Singles & Dating

please im new HELP!!!

2007-05-10 16:53:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

exchanged a few emails with this girl on match.com, about 5. we seemed to get along, but this girl said she was shy at first...and so i couldn't tell if she was attracted/into me. she said she enjoyed reading my profile since i sound down to earth and a fmaily type guy....but she never added me on myspace when gave her my llink. she said she talks to her sis on aim now and then..but never exchanged our sns. and we were going on the 6th email...
anyway she replied to me a week ago and ive yet to respond back, and she hasnt contacted me since either.
should i take that as a sign she isnt into me, doesnt notice im gone, w/e, or should i try emailing her back?

the thing is, i tried making the first move (the myspace thing) and she didnt acknowledge. so what do i do now to make the first move? in person its easy, invite for soem coffee, movie, etc...but on match? esp when the girl is so shy... ? what shouldi do?

2007-05-10 16:51:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my mom have a awesome relationship, like really good; bestfriends. we are allways cracking up and making jokes with eachother and i love her so much and i know she loves me. but my sister goes to college and when she comes back for maybee 2 days, a week or the summer i feel that my mom and her spend alot of time together. and im 13 but my sisters 20 so she is more mature and they have more ot laugh about. my mom always takes me shopping but when im at school and my sisters at home they go shopping all day then pick me up at 3. and i got home today with my mom and sister and at about 6 o clock they left to got o the cell phone store and i had a friend over so i didnt want to bore my friend so i told them i didnt want to go 3 hours later they come back and they said they went to the mall because the cell phone store was closed. my mom never even called me to say im going shopping ill be home at nine. i dont know if im over reacthing because she missed her. i think im jealous?

2007-05-10 16:49:46 · 15 answers · asked by annabanana_x0 1 in Family

Cause my ex-boyfriend bought me the cutest puppy today but has told me in the past he doesnt want a relationship.

2007-05-10 16:47:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 16:45:01 · 17 answers · asked by cali*girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like a daughter and I dont want to have sex w/her anymore. I miss older women who share the same history I do and have heard of Fonzie,and have seen Saturday Night Fever. What do I do? You know what I mean nothin, in common .

2007-05-10 16:42:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do [you] guys find attractive in girls? What personality traits, what features etc.. Thanks a lot!

2007-05-10 16:38:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wish to have a Pagan wedding. My family is christian. His family is Pagan and atheist. Is there anyway of doing this without totalling hiding my beliefs? Should the wedding make the couple happy or the guests happy?

2007-05-10 16:37:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

she wants a list of stuff that i would like...i have no idea what is ok to ask for?

2007-05-10 16:36:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Mid twenties girls...1. no hair down there 2. Hitler stache 3.Landing strip? Vote!

2007-05-10 16:36:19 · 9 answers · asked by Lindsay W 3 in Singles & Dating

I have no money at all and Mother's Day is in 3 days. I live with my mom and grandmother. Wat Can I give them? My grandmother has been all upset saying nobody has planned anything for her.

P.S. I am not creative at all so im not good at making things

2007-05-10 16:33:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you suggest to a girl that you just want to hook up (and I mean no strings attached) and she agrees. Would you be turned off by this???

2007-05-10 16:32:58 · 11 answers · asked by iamnotme 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy who is only 23 at business school. I am in my early 30s and very attractive and young looking. The guy claims to love me and be very protective of me. Sometime, I feel there is a strong bond between us. He is sleeping with several women right now. He claims to others that I don't want to sleep with us and so he has to get sex some where else. Since he is not serious with any of them so he has to sleep with several at the same time.

2007-05-10 16:30:28 · 3 answers · asked by prettyinpink 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy but he doesnt call for a long time and when he does it's really late. what does it mean if he NEVER calls but SAYS he likes you???

2007-05-10 16:29:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can u tell the penis size by looking at their pants when the guy is walking? cause i was walking past this grade 9er and i am grade 10 and he was right infront of me walking opposite from where i am going and he was like(probably talking to a friend) "his is smaller than mine and he is older than me too",, but he wasn't looking at my croch he was walking,,, so was he talking about me or what,,,confusing me,

2007-05-10 16:26:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should we or shouldnt we have a lavish vow renewal ceremony and reception???? i would like to get some other opinions on this...a few people i have spoken too have tried to persuade us not to,saying we should just be happy with with what we had and get over it.........

my husband and i were married 3 years ago in las vegas,alone no family or friends, after our dreams to wed in a big lavish ceremony were dashed by my parents and by other so called loved ones,and a few other circumstances.......

we always said we would have an actual wedding and even though the one we had in vegas was special it would mean alot to us to celebrate with our friends and family....in the way we had planned to originally

i have researched the etiquette online regarding vow renewals....and so far i cant find anything that says that they are weird or just not done!i dont plan on wearing an actual wedding dress...its a white coktail dress with a hot pink sash,and we would have a small ceremony at our church with only family and close friends(about 25 or so),no attendants,flowers girls..etc,a small reception at my aunts house...something simple but elegant.no gifts,or anything like that.......



i would like to have some actual photos of us taken and have our daughter be part of it.



so anyway.....sorry to ramble on....i just wanted to see what others thought about our plans.....either way i guess i will go ahead with my plans but i wanted to see if anyone else had done something like this...or even knew someone who has and could maybe offer some tips!!!

2007-05-10 16:24:21 · 18 answers · asked by callalily07 4 in Weddings

I've liked this guy all school year. We're in the same spanish class and have the same lunches. School is almost over and I have a class with him on the last day of school. I really want to keep in touch with him and also maybe get a relationship started (maybe). I'm pretty sure he doesn't know I like him. Should I give him my cell number? P.S. if this is of any importance he's a year older.

2007-05-10 16:22:31 · 8 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

all my friends have been in pretty long relationships and throughout college or before have ended them done there partying stage where they dated a lot and found new relationships and seem happy. only i haven't gone crazy and done the partying stage and been in multiple relationships. should i? i love my BF of 4 years i'm happy i can't and don't want to think of my life without him in it but should i will i regret it later?

2007-05-10 16:21:18 · 4 answers · asked by johni5d 1 in Singles & Dating

Which do you find more attractive or fun on a man - briefs or boxers. And...why?

2007-05-10 16:18:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm expected to be perfect in every way I can't ever have a bad day or ask a question. If I get up set because we were supposed to do something with someone but was not told until 20 mins. before they arrive. Then I am made out to be the bad guy. WTF.... If the house is a mess because you did not know company was invited over. Who gets talked about? The women!! She isn't a very good housekeeper. Not they aren't very good housekeepers but she isn't. The women get looked down on if they aren't beautiful and the house doesn't sparkle. I'm so sick of the lack of communication and every thing being a secret that I am half a step from walking out forever. If I have to be tested all the time then I don't make him happy. Or he isn't happy and never will be so I can't be happy either. Should I try and save it. I will not play shrink to make him understand. I don't play games never have never will. The consequences of messing with peoples heads by the unqualified is too great.

2007-05-10 16:15:52 · 1 answers · asked by whoknowswtf 1 in Singles & Dating

a kid at my school has a hit list. and he told some people that he's bringing a gun to school and was going to shoot evryone on the list. well it ended up getting to my Best Friend. she told me. so then i told one of my other friend, who e-mailed her teacher who it was and what L.A, Social studies, and Reading class he's in. and he mother is calling the school tomorrow morning. did we do the right thing? what is the kid was just joking?

2007-05-10 16:15:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What's really having a nice butt(when girls look at guys butt), like i see in the movies that sayin that guys had a nice butt or someone sayin that like " chris has a nice butt" like when a girl judges guy's butt what shape is really a nice butt? (bomb), like big or small or poped out or what,,

this question might seem weird, but i am just curious,,

girls , so what shape of butt is really nice butt , when u girls

look at gus but,,,

2007-05-10 16:14:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is presently a Senior in College and she is preparing to become a Doctor. She has one year of undergrad and then four years of medical school. She is trying to decide whether she should marry before she completes medical school or complete medical school first before marriage. This is a perplexing decision to make. What do you think is the best course of action?

2007-05-10 16:11:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm planning on telling this one girl that I like her. The only problem is that it's hard to talk to her alone (other than on the phone) because she's usually always talking with her friends whenever I want to talk to her. That was fine for just day-to-day conversations, but tomorrow I plan on telling her and I can't seem to find a way that isn't rude or something that makes my intentions obvious before I even speak to be able to talk to her alone (or at least without her friends within a 10 meter radius). If there is really no way, then would it really matter if I were to tell her over the phone where I don't have to worry about it? Or what would be the best way to tell her? The hours are quickly passing by so please answer quickly! Thanks

2007-05-10 16:06:52 · 7 answers · asked by Marty 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 16:04:33 · 37 answers · asked by chriswalsh575 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i was talking to her in general and she said "your cute" i didnt know what to say back so i just smiled. I suck at this dating game what move should i make

2007-05-10 16:03:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating