I'm expected to be perfect in every way I can't ever have a bad day or ask a question. If I get up set because we were supposed to do something with someone but was not told until 20 mins. before they arrive. Then I am made out to be the bad guy. WTF.... If the house is a mess because you did not know company was invited over. Who gets talked about? The women!! She isn't a very good housekeeper. Not they aren't very good housekeepers but she isn't. The women get looked down on if they aren't beautiful and the house doesn't sparkle. I'm so sick of the lack of communication and every thing being a secret that I am half a step from walking out forever. If I have to be tested all the time then I don't make him happy. Or he isn't happy and never will be so I can't be happy either. Should I try and save it. I will not play shrink to make him understand. I don't play games never have never will. The consequences of messing with peoples heads by the unqualified is too great.
2007-05-10 16:15:52 · 1 answers · asked by whoknowswtf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not angry or hostile; I'm heart broken.
2007-05-13 22:03:22 · update #1
sounds like this has been building up for some time now. If your partner continues to play games with you...not telling you you're having guests in 20min.....if neither of you are happy anymore.......then it's time to move on~* No more games* Sit down with your partner Once more* and try to explain what you just stated on here..along with everything else that's been building up......ask him straight up*"are you happy*"? ask yourself when the last time YOU felt happiness? When was the last time you smiled? Only you can answer if you want to try to save the relationship or have you already tried over and over and nothings changed~*
BEST WISHES in whatever you choose to do*
2007-05-10 16:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋