Family & Relationships - 10 May 2007

I like this guy named austin R he's cute but like a brother. Today he asked me out im not ready but i want to say yes!out loud i really want to but he didn't ask me his friends had to ask for him i don't know what to do or say can someone help?

2007-05-10 12:47:57 · 13 answers · asked by Shyness 2 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to make a CD for my mom. In the past year I recovered from a drug addiction and she saved my life and was always there for me. I want to make a CD for her, I need some songs that are about that kind of thing, thanking her, her being there, helping me through recovery, letting her know I love her. Anything but country music. Thanks so much-

2007-05-10 12:47:20 · 1 answers · asked by esro 2 in Family

Two years ago, my husband was deployed to Iraq. While he was gone, my mother-in-law (who I used to get along with for the most part - we had our differences but they were few), anyway she acussed me of having an affair and getting pregnant (which I was not) while my husband was gone. Also, I have been told she would prefer I not be part of her family. On numerous occassions she has pointed out that I am not the person she would have picked for her son. Now that he has returned home, she is realizing that her negative attitude toward me is causing less interaction with her son & she wants us to get along. My husband did not witness any of these instances with his mother, therefore he is asking me to let it all go. He does not believe that his mother acted this way or feels any ill will towards me. I am not sure what to do.

2007-05-10 12:47:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm very close with my sister, as we are twins, so we have a special bond. We're 14, and i was wondering how far do things go from it being playful brother-sister to incest? Because we hold hands, hug, wrestle in bed, and we've seen each other naked a lot, so im becoming very scared that we're doing something wrong.
How far is too far?

2007-05-10 12:45:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

By long hair, i mean hair that could be tied back, kinda like how Antonio Banderas has his hair. I have long hair

2007-05-10 12:42:26 · 43 answers · asked by Release Anwar Al-Awlaki NOW 1 in Singles & Dating

They all give you hugs
They all send you notes
At first you walk with me
Get caught up in the moment
Take a wrong turn
And end up in their arms
So I keep walking
Eyeing the wing
Making sure you weren't walking towards me
I'm sick and tired of this last goodbye
Wake up, go to school
And everythings fine
So, at last I have this one chance
Goodbye

2007-05-10 12:41:25 · 22 answers · asked by !~CoNvErSe~! 3 in Friends

OK, so I'm the MOH in my friends wedding back home ( I live very far from there now) I'm super excited!!! but here's my question. I havent been home in over a year, and i got engaged not too long before my friend did. Our wedding is planned for Sept. '07. so you know when you've moved away and then come home---EVERYONE wants to hang out and see ya, buy you a beer....u get the picture. How do I keep the focus on my friend and HER day? We both have a lot of friends and none of them have seen my engagement ring and part of me wants to be able to flaunt it a little bit (of course not at her wedding or anthing i'm not that dumb) but i dont want to take any of the spotlight from her even if we go out for a bit and run into people i havent seen in a long time. (know what i mean?)
Also, since i live so far away i wasnt able to do all the planning stuff with her. Any idea of a nice gift i could get her? or something special I could do for her prior to the wedding or on that day?

2007-05-10 12:41:16 · 7 answers · asked by legends_chick 3 in Weddings

My dad beats every day for somthing new; i must say im not a bad student, and i ussually help in my house; painting, cleaning, cooking etc... This day though, they went too far. They took my room door, they took my computer speakers, both my guitars (my passion), my iPod and everything i really valued. What do you think would be a good way to get revenge; now, i said REVENGE i dont want to come to an agreement with them, THEY ARE FREAKING CRAZY! i want/need revenge.

2007-05-10 12:40:11 · 5 answers · asked by HIM 2 in Family

Two days ago i tried to attemp suicide for the 8th time and i really hate life and i dont want my mom to feel like its her fault that i comited suicide, so when i finally do i dont have that guilt on my heart that my mom will think ist her fault even though my main reason is im sick of life and im a mistake and she has made that clear to me and i do not belong to this world


how do i tell my mom that im thinking of comiting suicide.....

2007-05-10 12:38:33 · 31 answers · asked by soccer_chick9971 2 in Family

This guy likes me, and asked me out. Turns out one of my friends last year (we only say hi about once a month now in the halls) has been liking him for six months, and she's best friends with one of my best friends.

Now they both hate me, but I really like this guy, and my best friend is trying to get me not to go out with him. We were just talking on MySpace about it and she said her friend is crying and really upset right now about the guy.

I don't know what to do =[

2007-05-10 12:35:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've heard of matriarchal societys in anthropology class.
If you're not familiar, the jist is, a women's duty is to stay with her family; her mother and siblings.
When she is ready to have children she doesn't marry, or live with her lover and his only responsibility is to pay for the mid wife. The male role model in the childs life is her brother, whom she shares a home with.
This society makes sense to me. She would always have the support of her family, and the romance with her lover would last so much longer. I don't think the man is sloughing off his fatherly duties, because he is taking care of his sisters kids.
What do you think?

2007-05-10 12:30:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal for 6th graders to be makin out with each other? I mean, they hug, and kiss, and stuff like that. they are both in 6th grade, the GF and i went out and now we're good friends. BTW THEY BROKE UP TODAY. She told me she broke up with him cuz she caught him out with his friends doing drugs (pot, crack, etc.). Is it normal for 6th graders to be making out and stuff? and should i believe her that he was out doing drugs and drinking and stuff?

2007-05-10 12:26:47 · 26 answers · asked by Rover 4 in Singles & Dating

I go to a lot of parties and a lot of guys ask me to go to a quiet place with them. I usually say no but i have been looking for some new, interesting things to do. Do i accept the offers? And if so what do i do when we are alone?

2007-05-10 12:23:21 · 6 answers · asked by actress4life 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 12:22:50 · 1 answers · asked by melissa b 1 in Singles & Dating

im overweight, and i get bullied all day, everyday in school, to the point where i feel that nobody likes me, i walk into school everyday and get picked on almost immediatly, and it dosent stop until i get on the bus. i hav ignored them for years, but its not workin anymore, i am getting really mad an am afraid im gonna blow afuse someday, i want to fight back, but im a nice guy, what should i do??

2007-05-10 12:22:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

22?

2007-05-10 12:21:15 · 14 answers · asked by mistressjenna86 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 12:21:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have this friend he is a guy. He has a girlfriend but he always says he loves me and flirts with me all the time..my friends call it a secret love...im not so sure..he always talks about his girlfriend around me because he knows it bothers me...and whenever i bring up another guy he starts saying how perfect his girlfriend is and its really weird and he always asks me who i like... i dunno what does this mean??? Does he really like me??

2007-05-10 12:19:46 · 11 answers · asked by chauntel c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I told this guy that I like and that i have been seeing that iam going out with my friends and I invited him.It is not too definite though as I haven't told him what bar or anything.Anyway if he does come I don't want him to stay with me and my girls the whole night.Hopefully he will just come for a drink with his friends and not tag along the whole night.What do you think will happen?How do I tell him only to stay for a bit?It's kinda a girls night out xx

2007-05-10 12:18:54 · 23 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Singles & Dating

this weekend having a 4th b-day party for my son. also been dealing with heavy duty cancer and cancer treatments last 3 years. haven't seem my husbands family in last 3 years cuz it seemed they didn't care or were to busy to help, care or call me. to a point, my husband does need his family too i guess or he will go nuts. dealing with cancer is not easy. his family i feel are very immature and very vain with looks. when they see me after 3 years, they will be shocked how i look. the chemo and meds have made me gain alot of weight and i'm also bald. how can i deal with this when they come over for my son's b-day party. it will be my in-laws, his single sister and his other married sister with her husband and 2 kids which one is a teen now. i know i shouldn't feel and think this way but so nervous and embrassed what they will think of me, especially how i look.

2007-05-10 12:18:45 · 11 answers · asked by havingfun 4 in Marriage & Divorce

she wasn't home yet and her husband told me to wait for her. While I was waiting, he made a pass at me! I don't know what to do now. I tried to blow it off but he tried to kiss me and he wasn't even drunk or anything. He didn't even try to apologize either. We have all been friends for 2 years and socialize together often. So I left and went home. And right before I walked out the door, he said "You'd want me if I was single, right?". I said "no, we are just friends, why mess things up?". My friend just called and I told her I left because I felt sick but where do I go from here??? I still want to be friends with her but not with him. Do I tell her what happened?

2007-05-10 12:16:26 · 27 answers · asked by cat 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I live with my boyfriend and i love him to death but he hits me...and hits me and hits me. oh and he calls me names, he brings me so down, to the point of not living. what do i do? how do i get out? or maybe answer me this how do i get him to love me like i love him???????

2007-05-10 12:15:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I know I have asked this 2 times but I have gotten a total of 2 answers!!! So plz answer this if you can. I like this guy but he has a girlfriend!! Also he is a good friend of mine and I don't want to ruin our friendship. I might want to tell him I like him but I'm not sure! What should I do!!!!!!!!!! Any tips welcome.

2007-05-10 12:08:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Supposedly they didnt have sex. ? Two wrongs dont make a right, however I think my bro still in love w/her. They fight more often and during the fights she says a lot of hurtfu things but 2-3 hrs later apologizes and says she said it out of anger. Staying 2gether bc of their 2 kids is not an option I agree with. I think ppl should stay married bc of their love 4 1 another. I know childsupport is going to a nightmare 4 him =(. I think they should try to work it out bc of what he did 2 her way back when. Am I wrong?

2007-05-10 12:06:39 · 18 answers · asked by iotaprincess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He told me he no longer hangs out at strip clubs, but had me pay his credit card for him and the statement pops up immediately. The top listed transaction is a strip club. I am not totally opposed to them but think maybe it should be done together... not in the middle of the work day. I told him early on that I didn't think he was right for me because of his reputation as a party-boy that hangs out in strip clubs all day. I think it's fine for us to visit to spice up our sex life a bit, but for the most part, I think they are degrading to women. His brother hangs out with strippers all the time and has a horrible view of women. I don't know why my boyfriend (father of 2 girls) wants to be associated with that. It really bothers me that he lies about this type of activity.

Am I totally wrong for not wanting him to go? Am I being too controlling? Should I just dump him since he & I obviously don't see eye-to-eye on this sorta thing? It's been a problem for a while now.

2007-05-10 12:01:53 · 16 answers · asked by brassinpocket 3 in Singles & Dating

l mean- loves great- but you cant eat it- or what if they are filthy rich,do everything you ever dreamed of- what would DO IT for you??????

2007-05-10 12:01:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You know...it!

2007-05-10 12:01:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't think I'm so great, I mean I am handsome, smart, powerful, rich, and legendary in bed, but I get so much action and attention from the hottest women that I barely have time for anything else! I am always tired at work (I'm a high powered CEO) because of all the women I get! What can I do?

2007-05-10 12:01:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex has moved back to my state and wants to get back together i have strong feeling for him but i'm married with 2 kids.

2007-05-10 11:59:42 · 7 answers · asked by jessica c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Whether it's Canada, USA, Australia, or Britain, most women from these parts of the world never seem satisfied. They want more romance, more vacations, less "laziness" on the part of their bread winning husbands. Even when they're with a very suitable man, the woman is usually the one to find something to be unsatisfied with. Is it the media, the women's movement, or what?

2007-05-10 11:56:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce