how do i tell my mom im thinking of comit suicide and goind through with it???

Question

Two days ago i tried to attemp suicide for the 8th time and i really hate life and i dont want my mom to feel like its her fault that i comited suicide, so when i finally do i dont have that guilt on my heart that my mom will think ist her fault even though my main reason is im sick of life and im a mistake and she has made that clear to me and i do not belong to this world


how do i tell my mom that im thinking of comiting suicide.....

Answer 1

If you're angry at life and the fact that you were a "mistake", according to your mom, why do you even care what your mom thinks. Sounds like she's where your problem lies...so why don't you just get away from your mom and live your life. That's the best thing you can do. There's plenty of things worth living for, so get on with living and leave this negative crap at the door. It's just an excuse.

Answer 2

There are a lot of answers here, I hope you get to mine and read it.

#1 , you don't want to commit suicide, you question indicates that you have issues and need someone to listen, and the best answer for you is to show your mother your question here, or your counsellor at school , or your doctor, Or if you are religious, your priest, but that may not be such a good thing, they will likely give you religeous hokey-pokey rather than real help. So do what i Said above .

But a story for you my friend, When I was 19 I went through a mental breakdown for 9 months and was going to commit suicide. With me, there wasn't a particular problem, I just didn't want to be a part of life. This sounds simple but it was not. I didn't sleep much, I couldn't concentrate, Psychiatrist had more problems than me, And I knew several ways that were available for suicide with no pain.

I thought of the devestation for my family, and the guilt I would impose on them and the stigma they would carry forever, But I didn't like them , so I didn't care... So why am I alive to write this answer???

I spent 3 days on a high hill under a tree thinking. I finally decided that for all intents and purposes, I had died.
I rejected the world, the people, the laws, the rules, the societal conventions, and adopted my own. I don't recognize. legal laws, moral laws, or societal rules. I have adopted a set that I can live with and in some respect are more rigid than the others. But I understand them and I won't try to make you understand them..But the up shot was, I did not committ suicide, I did not discount it, I just postponed it until I see what happens in life. I can kill my self any time and I am not afraid of dying, Maybe I will in the future, maybe I won't, but life has worked out pretty well, when I knew I could leave whenever I wanted.

So to you my Friend, your problems are probably transitory, So get the dialogue going, with your parents and other professionals. You have your whole life to pull the plug, you don't have to do it now, And Life will probably be a lot better than you see it today....I was 19...I am now 60 Stick around, the ride can be fun.

Answer 3

do not do this...
i have had this thought and many friends that have tried this and died commiting suicide. no body has ever gotten over any of that. I realize that life doesnt get better unless you make it. you need to get a new start or make things better for yourself. Don't let anything get to you. right now i really dont like life either, but who knows what will be in store in the future. you could have everything you ever want in the future, but you will never know if you end life now. You weren't brought into this world to take it away from yourself. there is a reason you are here you just probably have not experienced it yet, you need to wait for it and in the meantime just enjoy whatever you want to enjoy. IF there is something bothering you take initiative and fix it, things dont and wont fix themselves.

take my word on this. i have been through a lot and know how screwed up people have made life now. i understand, but dont give up.

Answer 4

Have no idea what "colibus4" was talking about, do you? Don't say anything to your mom, sounds like she has helped put that idea in your head. I wish you had told how old you are. Get help from a therapist , school councelar, best friend, preacher or whoever. At times I feel there is nothing to live for but I totally believe that we only die if it is our turn.Unless you have done the paticular thing that God had in mind for you, you will not die. You may injure yourself to the point that you are a vegetable for the rest of your life,you may be disabled for the rest of your life, you may just be in a lot of pain for the rest of your life, but you will not die.It is far better to just make a happier life for yourself. I still suffer with depression but I've learned to handle things that effect me better.I've learned to accept a lot of things for just what they are, BullSh--. And I've learned to ignore things that really don't concern me. Yoga is a relaxing thing that really does help.Music is GREAT>I also look at the worldf for what it is. It is Here and no matter what happens it will be here a long long time. Whatever happens, it is just a part of this world and no matter what, the world will never change. Get someone to talk to though. If you live a home with your mom and if you need to get away from her, leave. Go to any priest and they will help you find a place to stay. It's just not worth it trying to kill yourself.Don't ever do that because of or for anybody!

Answer 5

If you commit suicide you won't have any guilt on your heart since you'd be dead. If you're concerned with how she'd feel, and you actually do care, then the only option is to not do it. Also, I'd say that if your mother really thinks you're a mistake and "do not belong to this world," then you really shouldn't kill yourself over such a pitiful excuse for a mother. If you end everything now, then you'll have no more of a chance to make things better or to see how good life can really be.

Answer 6

8 times? Most people do it on the first. :S Either you're subconsciously botching your suicide attempts yourself because deep down you see some reason for living, or you've been stopped by your friends and loved ones so many times because they love you with all their hearts.

The easier thing to do would be to just tape a message to yourself explaining that it's not Mom's fault, but come on, life can't be all THAT bad, can it?

Take a look at me. I'm 22 years old, a good looking guy, a general pleasure to be with, yet I have NEVER had a girlfriend in my entire life, nor does it look like I'll be getting one in the foreseeable future. Certainly this aspect of my life has be bummed out, but I'm not going to throw in the towel this early in the game.

Whatever is tormenting you in Life, it's up to you to overcome those obstacles and kick them squarely in the teeth. If you commit suicide and take the easy way out, THEY win. You don't want THEM to win, do you??

Answer 7

you do not want to kill yourself, you want a better life. everyone does. the key is making it happen. you belong here, you just need to find where. YOU BELONG HERE BECAUSE YOU ARE HERE!!! there is a place for you, baby, you just haven't found it yet. you should tell your mom and your friends that you need a little help right now to find your way and if they could help, that would be good. no shame in taking a hand. you can even take mine if you like. there is nothing after death and here you are reaching out to the world - that's something wonderful. you are not a mistake, no child is. a child is a blessing from the universe. you are a beautiful expression of love and right now, the world needs all the beauty it can get, so please hold on. write down the things that you hate and one by one, turn them into things you love. make that your focus instead of throwing it all to the wind. watch the sun rise, listen to bach, eat some chocolate, write a poem, fall in love, let the wind blow through your hands and hair, take a deep breath and LIVE!!! email me anytime and i will remind you of your worth here.. borrow my will for a while, i don't mind. you are essential and ethereal. [e-mail]

Answer 8

plz dont do this to yourself. If you do do this, you are not only killing yourself, but your killing your family and friends. There must be something more than just hating life. is it love problems. Im pretty sure you feel like if you are just an "extra", that no one appreciates you, and that you just want to give up. If you choose to leave all this behind you, what is the worst that can happen. If you hate school, drop it. At least you will feel good for giving it your best shot. Take a time off and just give yourself a chance to relax. You are not the only one that goes trough this, but they fight it. Give it time, talk to your mom, but dont commit suicide

Answer 9

Wow! First of all, you shouldn't think of committing suicide. If you're not happy in life you need to think of ways to make your life better.....not just punk out and check out. Life is not suppose to be easy. It's not suppose to be hard all the time either. It takes time, to get to the point where your happy but it's well worth it. You should talk to someone about how you feel. Your mom, a doctor, a counselor. You need to talk to someone because killing yourself is not the answer. I hope you don't committ suicide because even though I don't know you. I know you have a purpose on this Earth.

Answer 10

omg u cant do it!!!!!!!! believe me its not the answer!!!! u r not a mistake u r a beautiful girl who has a lot going for her. all girls have tht. U CAN NOT DO IT!!!!!!!! but u should tell her so u can get help. really, u dont wanna just end it all do u??? i mean who knos, life could turn around. y waste the chance of knowing. we all our special in our own way and our faite will reach us soon enough. really tell her and then she can get u help because killing urself is not a good idea. plz dont u r better than tht we all our. just the ppl tht went through w/ it didnt hear this. plz

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