Should i let loose at a party or not?(Details below)?

Question

I go to a lot of parties and a lot of guys ask me to go to a quiet place with them. I usually say no but i have been looking for some new, interesting things to do. Do i accept the offers? And if so what do i do when we are alone?

Answer 1

If you don't know what to do when you're alone in a quiet place with a guy, then you DEFINITELY shouldn't do with them. Just smile and say "no thank you."

He will start out by saying he "just wants to talk." You'll sit a dark quiet room and talk. Then he'll kiss you. Then he'll try to feel you up - you'll freak out and say no, he'll say okay and go back to just kissing... then he'll try again and again. Then he might try forcing you. He might not let you out of the room. He might rape you. He might bring in a few friends to rape you too. It happens far more often than you think, by guys who "seemed so nice."
Was this the "new and interesting thing" you wanted to try?
Play it safe and stay in the public area. If he really wants to get to know you, he'll ask you out on a real date.

Answer 2

Generally guys are asking you this because they think you have had enough to drink to have a easy lay with you. If this is not something you want do not except any offers from these so called nice guys they just want in your pants. Have a few drinks but do not have enough where you can't remember what happened the next day.

Answer 3

Yes I know I like to go to partys too. But it is good to go to quit place and have a few drinks and just talk. Its relaxing to do things like that sometimes. Try it out. You might just like it.

Answer 4

You pretty much have to be careful these days.You never know what's really on these guys mind especially at parties.So be careful stay where people can see you and you can see them.

Answer 5

It would probably be to make out or maybe more. What you do w/yourself & others is up to you.

Answer 6

just go wit the boys