Family & Relationships - 10 May 2007

i had ask a question early and someone posted a question about my fiance and if he does anything .i have been with him since 96 when my ex walked out on me.he has been here for my sons more then my ex ever has,he would take my sons to practices and doctors apptments with me and he took the boys hiking camping etc ...so he does play a big part in my sons lives. then the person asked why i didnt remarry i lived on my own with my sons for 9 1/2 yrs after the ex left cause i felt it was the right thing to do for it to be the boys and i and not move a man in cause i didnt want the boys to feel uncomfortable i felt i was doing the right thing spending my time with my boys at our home with just us ,yes my fiance took us to games and practices and shopping all that but i lived with just my sons and i then when my fiance asked about us buying a home together i made sure it was ok with my sons their opinion and how they feel about things is a big part

2007-05-10 03:13:05 · 2 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

HELP ME.

2007-05-10 03:11:37 · 9 answers · asked by Kuruhh. 2 in Friends

What is the total meaning for you whisiling at girls?

2007-05-10 03:07:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

d instructions & we would decide which option u should use,d next day when he called and offered his choice,I had another option from his,he got angry & an argument ensuied,d next day he came over & was stll angry,eventually I used d method he sugested because I was convinced it was better,but I told him even if he thinks his idea is better than mine, I would always still say my bit and unless I am convinced I retain d right to do things as I wish, and I would appreciate he understands that, he says he hates when I argue with him,& he dosent have time for that,we bandied words back and fort 4 a while,he asked,are u done almost thrice & made to leave,I didnt stop him,he hesistated at d door & even if he knew how to work it,he asked I come open the door,I did,he left still angry.He hasnt called me its day 3 today & I havent called him either,I got turned off cos he spoke to in a disrespecting tone,does this man really care about me or he's just a controlling man.Do I call or 4get him ?

2007-05-10 03:06:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 02:56:01 · 26 answers · asked by foodgelove 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My MOH's not throwing me a shower 'cuz she said that's not part of her cultural tradition. When she had her shower, they threw it themselves. I'm a little bother by this. Am I being selfish for feeling hurt or cheated?

2007-05-10 02:55:32 · 27 answers · asked by Shrimpboat 3 in Weddings

Unfortunately, during my fiance's previous marriage, he co-signed on an auto loan for his then-wife. He made every payment on the account for several years, and maintained insurance on it for her. When he left, he continued this for almost a year. He told her she would have to take over, and warned her five or six times over a three month period that the insurance was going to expire and she needed to renew it in her name. Well, she didn't, and then she totaled the car. The car was repossessed and sold.

From what I understand (and I won't go into all the details), I highly doubt they are going to come after my fiance with any gusto. It would basically cost them too much money. However, if we get married, and they then decide to come after him, can they take my income into consideration in settlement proceedings? We do not live in a commonwealth state. I ask because Jay looked into bankrupcy, and the lawyer wanted my income too because we live together. Thanks for your time

2007-05-10 02:54:59 · 3 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you know for sure that your man is cheating without snooping through his things? And if you cant prove he is cheating then what grounds do you have for the break up?

2007-05-10 02:53:47 · 8 answers · asked by stacey_moser2000 2 in Singles & Dating

you see, i have no feelings for this cute guy..
save some grace..
i dun want to waste my time..
I dun wanna break his heart..

i'm not desperate for a love like this.. i can live wtihout.. i am not being silly... i'm just doing wat my heart wants me to do..

2007-05-10 02:47:57 · 21 answers · asked by W L 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 02:47:48 · 16 answers · asked by johnson109864 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is in the Army and i only get to see him on the weekends. Durring the week, he works until 5 and then he calls me around 10:30 at night. I have college classes and high school, so i need to go to bed early. in the past when he has called me, I usually talk to him until midnight/1 o' clock. Here lately, I just tell him I am tired and i say goodbye and hang up. he sounds really sad when he says bye too. I was wondering if this is bad for my relationship, because i haven't had a full out conversation with him in like 4 days. Am i hurting us??

2007-05-10 02:45:29 · 21 answers · asked by **Q-T-Pi** 3 in Singles & Dating

I met my fiance over the internet in 2005. He just got out of a 6 year relationship and was going thru a divorce. He has a little girl who is 3 from that relationship. She lives in CO and we live in kansas city. We still get to see her. Anyways heres my problem. We met and after 3 months of talking we moved in together. He moved here from CO to be with me. Were engaged and have been for about 10 months. We dont have a "BED" relationship hardly ever maybe once every other week. I feel that I may not be that attracted to him. I know he loves me, but I dont think im in love with him. Some days I do and some I dont. Hes very good to me and this is the first man i have ever trusted in every way possible. BUT ive put off the wedding twice. Am i just scared to be alone? I dont know if i want him here or if i want him to leave. I dont want to hurt him. BUT what IF he is THE ONE for me and he leaves. So confused please give advice and soon.hewantstoknownowifIdontwanttobewithhimsohecanleave!

2007-05-10 02:44:57 · 11 answers · asked by ask alotta ?s..lol 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you be friends with a girl you was pursuing that lead you on for some months, and then rejected you harshly to push you back into the lonely life with hardly any friends and anyone to talk to?

2007-05-10 02:33:05 · 6 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

its been eight months now that we have broken up and we still talk every day and he still tells me he loves me and that he wants to be with me but he has a girlfriend he say that he dont know which one to choose im confused becuz he dont wnat me talking to other boys and its kind of hard becuz im inlove with him and i cant find myself with another boy even though alot of boys want to talk to me im still stuck on my ex some body please tell me what to do i need helppppppppp!!!

2007-05-10 02:30:56 · 19 answers · asked by Portia s 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey!
Last night while she was out her mobile was making odd noises and turned out it was a miss call from a person who I knew (a woman she works with) but by accident I deleted the miss call, so then I delted the miss call log so she wouldnt know I had been on her phone, but as I did that it popped up saying you have a voicemail and I knew it was this same woman but she doesnt have voicemail set up so I deleted the message in the inbox saying you have a voice mail and the next text scared me! It was from this turkish guy (he left his name&you can tell by the mobile) (I must explain we have an apartement in turkey) & I felt so sick reading it, it was "hope your well I miss you, I care about you, I love you xxxx" & I felt awful so I skipped on and found a load more text (about 8-10 more dating back to mid-october last year) & some of them were asking her for money (£1500)& one gave some bank details where to send money & another was about "how he had not recieved any post from (my mum)"

2007-05-10 02:30:45 · 19 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Family

I jus want 2 noe which 1 hurts more...
1st time sex or Break-up
Thx

2007-05-10 02:26:02 · 21 answers · asked by Maya 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello All,

I'm 26, and I'm marrying a 43 yr. old man with two daughters. The girls have been part of my life for the past two years now...they are with us every other weekend.

We are including them in the ceremony, they will be part of our "Unity Sand ceremony" (instead of a unity candle), and at some point during the wedding, I'm going to give them each a piece of jewelry (The 13 yr old is getting a necklace, the 11 yr old is getting a charm with a charm bracelet).

As part of giving the jewelry to the girls, I intend on explaining why we picked those pieces of jewelry. I also want to give some sort of vows/promises to the kids..but I have no idea what to say.

I want to recognize the fact that I'm not just marrying their Dad...I'm becoming part of their family. They will be the only children I'll ever have.

I need suggestions on vows...ideas on what to say...or tell me if you have done this in your own wedding..

2007-05-10 02:25:46 · 5 answers · asked by Kat 5 in Weddings

when i was younger i had a family member molest me when i told her the only comment was ill tell his mom he was 20 for cring out loud ,another who would get drunk and beat me as a child and she wouldnt act like shed seen a thing , my mom also had a boyfriend that tried to kiss me and look in on me when i was was changing etc when i told her she made the comment well he was drunk he didnt mean it he was probly just jokin we had a very strained relashionship for years ive always wanted to ask her why!im grown now with kids that love her alot and weve been gettin along for quite some time how do i bring this up or should i just leave it alone i dont want to hurt our relashionship but i wanna know why she didnt do anything

2007-05-10 02:20:22 · 15 answers · asked by lifesucksforreal2000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And why is it use when people get married. I looked it up on the internet and the last part a sixpence in her shoe finished it and i just want to know what it means. Because i want my wedding to cover most of the traditional things with a taste of my flavor to finish it off.

2007-05-10 02:17:38 · 6 answers · asked by tasheema22 3 in Weddings

Tell me in your own opinion.

2007-05-10 02:15:12 · 22 answers · asked by NAESHA 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so heres the deal ... my friend is dateing this guy and we ment and we now love each other, hes still dateing her but its a long distance thing and she might be pregent with his kid ... he wants to be with me but if she is pregant what should i do and if shes not how should we tell her???

2007-05-10 02:11:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really need to learn when to keep my mouth shut, what are some ways I can stop myself from blurting out crap all the time?

2007-05-10 02:07:50 · 12 answers · asked by Pepper 3 in Friends

but they'll sure as hell call a man all the names under the sun. I just growl at a woman now to drown out the whinging

2007-05-10 02:06:13 · 21 answers · asked by TJ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am almost 40 and I have had one bad relationship after the other. I am not rich and thats all that the women that I have dated want is someone with money.

2007-05-10 02:03:12 · 10 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

I got invited to a wedding that's farm formal....what kind of attire is that?

2007-05-10 02:02:25 · 14 answers · asked by Nick Name 1 in Weddings

2007-05-10 02:00:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm definatly going to wait for him, and I'd never cheat on him, but does anyone have some advise on good ways to get through this?

2007-05-10 01:57:20 · 17 answers · asked by ~*~Fuzzie~*~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Desperately seeking help !?
This is unbelievable he has been cheating our entire relationship he has been going to a online sex site and asking women out .I don't know if he's ever follow through and met any of them but I know he has been doing this according to his emails for a long time . I am so shocked I don't know what to do I need someone to talk to someone to help maybe I can see counselor .............I guess I should have realized it when he started treating me very abusive calling me names tell me I'm never satisfied denying me love I think this is been an ongoing problem for him in every relationship he's ever had he's never been loyal or honest With anyone . What do I do now tried to make this work. I think it always will be in my mind that for three and a half years he has been disloyal and I didn't even see it ............when they say love is blind I know what they mean now. I was so dedicated to him and I am definitely destroyed by this .is there no trust does it not exist

2007-05-10 01:54:10 · 11 answers · asked by Just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What happend if i can ask ? im bored and must b nosey.

2007-05-10 01:51:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There’s this guy at my college who hasn’t slept or eaten for about 4 days now
I asked him why he hasn’t slept and he says because he’s been working.

Later on in the day at lunch a class mate offered him some hot crispy scrumptious chips and he yelled “get that way from me, I haven’t eaten in 4 days”.

I looked at him and said “what you haven’t eaten or slept in 4 days and you drive to work, do you want to have an accident”
And he said “yer I feel so tired and hungry” (maybe he was delusional)

So I said “why you don’t eat” but says he doesn’t want too.

I then asked if he was a Muslim because they do that sort of thing
And but he says he’s not.
A different peer asked where he works and why so many hours but instead of answering the question he says he’s been working on his car

I was confused now either is making all this stuff up just so others will say
“What you haven’t eaten or slept in 4 Days….Well done here’s a medal “
I mean the guy is kind of chubby so unless he’s on some freaky weight loss plan then I don’t know why else he’s doing this to himself ,not like I care.. More chips to go around

But anyway my question is how long can a person go without food or sleep.

Thanks

2007-05-10 01:41:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating