Family & Relationships - 10 May 2007

and what puts you off them?

2007-05-10 07:40:41 · 18 answers · asked by gez 1 in Singles & Dating

Out there, in strange places,
nowhere to hide,
dont know where my space is.

Out there, you walk alone
miles between us
i cant come home.

Some day, who knows when
if fate allows,
we'll weet again!
2nd poem

In one week, a lifetime can pass
In one day, families shatter like glass
In one hour, time still moves to fast
In one second,we make choices that last

2007-05-10 07:40:38 · 15 answers · asked by iluv_rock_n_roll2 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok this is not short but i will try. My Grandad has been married to my grandma for over 40 years (in their 60s) He has been really faithful and a pastor for 30 years. The last 2 years (only the last 2) he has been very sneaky and we found out he was cheating with another woman of the church. When confronted he tries to make us feel guilty for finding out. recently we found out his has been renting another place for 3 months now where they can meet up. My Grandma does not know everything yet. How would you deal with something like this because we have a big family (i have around 30 cousins and like many many aunts/uncles) just on my moms side alone. Its affecting the whole family and many have looked up to him for so long they dont know how to handle this.. What should they do? Tell my grandma who is having bad medical problems? How do you grieve with something like this? In my heart he is not a bad man even though my mind sees him as one. Any advice? please serious ones only. Thanks

2007-05-10 07:39:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

His idea: Have his parents ( who are decent) and his sister and brother in law ( who are not decent ) over for Mothers Day. Translation: I clean, cook and put the party on for his mommy and sister on Mothers Day. Important fact: We have 3 kids. Does this sound like the idea of an A** or a Mamma's Boy? I agreed, just to avoid the argument, and plan to enjoy my day some other time, but still..should I point out to him that he is an A** ???

2007-05-10 07:35:21 · 15 answers · asked by undone 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I tell him no all the time, but he never listens to me. He always tells me "i love you" or "i miss you" or "i want you" or even "you're hot"
The guy is not even that attractive at all. He like not my type, not at all.
What am i gonna do??

*I can't even have a normal convo with him, he keeps bugging me...i hate it, im not even attracted to him, he's NOT cute, and he is desperate, all he ever talks about is losing his virginity and he is 26, plus he always talks about dating and girls*

I feel as if im getting stalked. But im getting creeped out everytime. It's creepy.

How can i get rid of him???

2007-05-10 07:34:29 · 10 answers · asked by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

long hair or short hair on a girl?

2007-05-10 07:34:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 07:33:07 · 47 answers · asked by andrew b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 07:31:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 07:31:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The thought of my girlfriend leaving me kills me inside. I've never met anyone like her. It is more than just a physical attraction. I would love her even if she had chipped teeth because she is a great caring person that deserves the best.

I want her to be happy even if it's not with me. I loved it when she told me I am not just her boyfriend but her friend too. She is my friend too, she is so much my friend and I care about her so much that I would still want to hang out with her and be friends with her even if we broke up and I don't think I can say I felt that way about past relationships. Even though the thought of her being withsomeone else makes me want to die.

How much do I love her? This can't be healthy for me, because our relationship is really complex due to her deep spiritual/religious convictions. But that is part of the reason I love her so much. I am just worried that things won't work out between us....

2007-05-10 07:28:17 · 9 answers · asked by ben b 1 in Singles & Dating

When my husband and I got engaged, I was not aware that him and his ex-girlfriend(also mother of his first 2 kids) had only been split up for 4 months and that he'd cheated with her once in the beginning of our relationship. By the time I found out this stuff,(about a year later) I was already pregnant and planning a wedding so I went through with it. Now I can't stop wondering if I am just a rebound even though he assures me all the time he loves me and that wasn't the case. Is he just trying to spare my feelings?

2007-05-10 07:27:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 07:26:04 · 10 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm lonely all the time , I've no girlfriend . even I'm a studint in a dental medicine college in my country Syria ( med-east) but till now I don't know how to have a girlfriend . some of my friends have and because of that I feel so stupid and i feel that i'm a loser . I've asked some of them to help me but nothing work .
maybe cuz I'm not soo much adorable like the other guys or not soo smart , I don't know .. I saw a girl who was nice and beautifull and talked to her twice only and that was a few monthes ago , but I don't know how to make her my girlfriend .
can you help me ?
by the way , i'm 175 cm long and 65 kg weight .

2007-05-10 07:25:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do guys like to ask girls out?

2007-05-10 07:21:54 · 17 answers · asked by hollygolightly 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 07:20:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the papers from court say she has mother day, she is telling her daughter it is a legal holiday week-end, that starts friday- till monday. I don't think this is so.

2007-05-10 07:19:49 · 9 answers · asked by ds1075 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've just turned 13 and it was time for me to get my 1st bra. I live w/ mom, she and dad are divorced and he lives with another woman. Mom and his partner hate each other. I spent last saturday with them, I like her, though mom hates. She helped me choose my fisrt bra. When I got back home my mom was kinda hurt, threw a tantrum because it was dad's partner and not her who took me to get my 1st bra. She had called mom and said something like?See? It was me not you who helped Virginia to get her 1st bra! She loves me more than you! I didn't realize getting my 1st bra with her could hurt mom so much. She said things like you're not my daughter, you don't love me, you deprived me from one of the most beautiful moments of a mom. You stabbed me in my back. I got devastared, never intended to hurt her, I cried, hugged her, apologized, but she's stil kinda hurt, said I betrayed her, keeps saying things like I thought I had a daughter. I'm hurt too, I've always treted my mom with love.

2007-05-10 07:19:27 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't enjoy my Mother-in-law's company at all, but we're very civil, and I do spend holidays at her house. But I'm a mother of four, and my husband expects us to spend the day at his Mom's house- isn't it my day too? Last year there was a huge fight when I tried to stay home instead of going- but I had no problem with him going on his own. My gift would've been not having to go to his Mom's. My Mother has passed on, and I do not want to spend another Mother's Day unhappy.

2007-05-10 07:19:13 · 7 answers · asked by rabbitsrabid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone that I think likes me called me beautiful today, what should I make of it?

2007-05-10 07:18:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm near the end of a divorce, but I filed this years taxes as single, and my payroll still says married, can I change that or do I have to wait until the divorce is officially finalized?

2007-05-10 07:17:28 · 3 answers · asked by walkinbyfaith7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

does your avatar actually look like u or did u make 1 up cuz u thought it was cute?..mine looks like me ...anyways i was just wondering

2007-05-10 07:15:29 · 16 answers · asked by Jay-C 1 in Singles & Dating

girls will lie in bed with you and watch porn? Or do guys think it's kind of weird?

2007-05-10 07:14:57 · 25 answers · asked by Monica 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 07:13:41 · 19 answers · asked by harley_davidson_cowgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

girl 1: shes a lil over weight, but she always knows the right thing to say. she loves u with all her heart, and she would be willing to do anything for u. she is a lil sloppy, but she is also a lil bit of a neat freak. she never drags u to stupid balletts, or to anything u dont like. shes good in bed but not great and ur the first guy she said "i love you" to.
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girl 2: shes really thin, but she hates sports. she never lets u pick what to watch on tv, or what movie to watch. she makes u clean the house every day, and she never helps. she complains when u wont take her to see her fav musical and she gives u guilt trips all the time. but shes "great in bed"

2007-05-10 07:13:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is 19 yrs old & has been married to a man 8 yrs older than her since 2003. They have 3 kids all under 3 yrs old. Back in 2005 they were both unfaithful to each other. She cheated w/ a stranger she met on the phone & he cheated on her w/ one of her good friends (not me).

Anyway they stayed together despite that, but all the trust is gone. She's never had a cell phone & now she can't get one because he thinks she's going to cheat on her. Well she can't leave the house for more than 15 mins without him calling her obsessively from work and accusing her of having an affair.

Currently she's talking to two guys because she's tired of her husband & his domineering ways.

Is there any adivce you can give me so that I can help my friend because she admits to being lost and confused about this relationship. BTW I'm 19 yrs old also.

2007-05-10 07:12:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 37 year old male i've been married to my wife for 8 years,i've never cheated on her,but she did on me once.But for the past year i've had shoulder trouble,due from work and stress,i've been going to a massage therapist that seems to help.i hate taking pain pills,so i lean torwards natural healing if possible.but the therapist seems to be really nice and caring and has never said or done anything out of the way to me.but my wife is extemely jealous of this lady.once the therapist gave me a hour and a half massage and i only paid for 30min.She just seems like a concerned,and caring person.Am i missing somthing?Or is my wife just being crazy?My wife thinks she's got the hots for me,because she has gave me free massages before,i think she is just being really nice.

2007-05-10 07:12:21 · 27 answers · asked by 8seconds 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We were walking out of class(where in the same class) and this girl asked me if I had a class. I told her at twelve. She said she had a class also at 12(it was 11:15am when she asked). She also said that she was going to buy something from the cafeteria and then go and eat outside since it was pretty warm outside. I said that was a pretty good idea and said good-bye. I only realized the mistake I made in that case. Tell me what you think is my mistake cause I want to be sure I’m right. I have her number and her email. this happened 2 weeks ago and
yesterday was the last class

2007-05-10 07:10:38 · 9 answers · asked by ticko 1 in Singles & Dating

I've started hanging out with this guy I met at school (college) and it looks like it's starting to head more toward a relationship type thing. However I just found out that he's 28 years old, but I'm only 18. I mean, i've finally met someone whos at the same maturity level as me and we have a ton of stuff in common, but it just seems a little weird to me now. i mean, when he was 18 i was only 8. Also, i don't think he knows i'm only 18.

2007-05-10 07:10:23 · 36 answers · asked by the_littlest_weasley 2 in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend didn't know anything about my past until he started hearing rumors about things i've done some true some not.. so he asked about my past and i told him everything and now he says he can't trust me because its like i lied to him and its like he looks at me differently now. i just thought it didn't matter since it was the past!..was i wrong?

2007-05-10 07:08:41 · 15 answers · asked by XGlaMkiLLedHerX 2 in Singles & Dating

i found out that my beautiful wife is a stripper and hooker after 15 years of our marriage. she told me that she has been a prostitute since before we met and our daughter suddenly wants to be like her. i want to leave her, but i love her so much and i care for her... i thought about adjusting to her lifestyle but i've been having second thoughts. i really really love her to death...what do i do?

2007-05-10 07:07:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce