Family & Relationships - 10 May 2007

her job at the daycare center. She's always carrying other men's and women's kids. They don't pay squat, and I think she'd make more money elsewhere.

2007-05-10 04:44:01 · 18 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ta!

2007-05-10 04:41:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband won't touch me. We have become more pals than anything. I am just wondering what makes men lose interest? I am attractive & am told this by friends also, that has not been a problem. I however don't feel that way around him. I feel awful & like I am nothing. If I lean one foot/leg on him on the couch he moves away, like I repulse him. Nothing has happened that I can think of that could have caused this. I am pretty sure he would never cheat..I also have resources to check on this. He won't spend much time with me either...would rather work constantly. When I bring it up, he denys it. I ask him if he is attracted to me & he laughs & says: Come on..you know you are beautiful! Umm...no I really don't since he doesn't even sit near me. Kissing(pecks) is nearly out the door now too. My quesiton is...what makes men act this way? And is there anything to be done to change it? It's very hurtful & upsetting. Men please feel free to answer this one as well as anyone else!

2007-05-10 04:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by purple 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so I've been hanging out with this guy for three weeks...he's cooked me dinner several times and taken me out, he's met quite a few of my friends and I've even stayed over at his house...haven't slept together yet but we've fooled around. He's told me that he likes me and he definately acts like he does, but last night I said to him 'I really like you' and he said 'I don't want to rush'...I wasn't sure if he was talking physically since we were making out so I asked him what he meant and he said 'I like us hanging out'. So does this mean we aren't dating?
He just got out of a relationship earlier this year that was pretty long so could he just be wanting to get to know me better before committing?

2007-05-10 04:38:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

With Mother's Day this weekend, my boyfriend is contemplating what to get his daughter's mother. (She is not even three yet, so obviously can't do the shopping herself.) What is appropriate? Last night he was looking at spa treatments at some posh resort. I thought that might be too much, but he thinks that whatever he spends for Mother's Day, she'll reciprocate for Father's Day a month later.

What do you think?

2007-05-10 04:37:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been married for 3 yrs, my daughter is 8,my husband is not her biological dad.My husband has left to go stay with his family for a while b/c we had a disagreement.I have talked to him to see where the problem lies.He stated that he can not live in a house where he is disrespected by an 8 yr old.He doesnt feel that I discipline properly & feels like I am against him and take her side.I try to tell him that that I am not choosing sides, however I often feel that his military background causes him to nit pick over things and sometimes the punishments that he chooses are too severe for her actions.That is not the only prob, I feel that he emotionally neglects me and my child. Our sex life is dissapating, he makes me feel undesired, unattractive,& unimportant. I dont know how to fix our problems,everytime we argue he leaves for days and then comes back and I am so glad hes home that the prob doesnt get fixed but I cant continue this cycle.I am mentally, physically,&emotionally exhausted

2007-05-10 04:37:45 · 13 answers · asked by Slugger#4 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband would rather hang with friends and play poker than spend time with me. ( wife of 5 yrs together 8 yrs) I told him I had a sitter and wanted to go to the movies, it was saterday at 12 noon, he said there might be a poker game that night,so I said that my friends are all busy and I want to spend the time with him. I left it up to him to decide his plans that evening. He chose poker, and didn't even invite me to come hang with him and buddies. I sat at home alone all night with our 1st babysitter in a long time.
I told him the next day I was mad and expected him to chose to spend the time with me. I have given up trying to spend time with him. I now joke and tell everyone that we are not friends just married. Any ideas?

2007-05-10 04:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by Marge 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 04:28:45 · 12 answers · asked by E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Trying to find an idea of what to do. My mom probably doesn't want us going to her place because she doesn't want to clean, which is the same reason I don't want my family coming to my place. Eating out is expensive... Not sure what to do. For every occasion it seems my family ends up at my place?! My father suggested I have a BBQ, looks like showers and chilly outside for Sunday.

2007-05-10 04:24:36 · 2 answers · asked by hello 6 in Family

My fiance and I decided to send mothers day cards and flowers as a couple. He said sending seperate cards seperated/divided us and that we were now getting married and should be doing things jointly, which I agree with.

Just wanted some others opinions, is it ok that I sent flowers to my future MIL and my mother from both my fiance and I? Or should I have waited until I am officially her DIL and he is my moms SIL?

2007-05-10 04:24:24 · 14 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner of 6 years started an affair which I wasn't supposed to find out about. She then openly admitted it and refused to stop seeing this guy. Things got worse and now she has kicked me out and is moving him in. She says she is sorry, feels ashamed and feels guilty. It's still raw for both of us (it's only 6 weeks old). She has mental health issues but is extremally intelligent most of the time. She has some drink related problems. She is not faithful at best of times but I still love her, she loves me, but is IN love with this other guy. She has a long track record of broken relationships and returning to the previous partner. If I openly try to stop the affair she WILL resent me and I lose everything, she still wants us to stay freinds and have contact. He is very jealous and she is very gregarious. I have just got him a job with late finishing times to try to separate them as much as possibl(she hates being alone). Their relationship is already stormy. how do I get her back?

2007-05-10 04:23:38 · 29 answers · asked by dumped_on 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 04:15:43 · 25 answers · asked by stella 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OK see my boyfriend called me up last night and was like look I am taking you out on a date, So I said ok I will get ready and be over at your house in an hour. Then he told me to where someting nice but made me look like a whore. So I didnt say anything. Well when I get over to his house he was like we are taking my car come on lets go. Then I asked him where we were going and he wouldnt tell me. So we get to his friends house and there is like 15 guys over there. They where all drinking and smoking and having a good time. So I was like what are we doing over here and he was like this is our date. So we sat at his friends me be n the only girl in sight for miles and he was telling his friends all this stories about me and how I was good in bed and that I give the best head and I could get any guy off in less then 2 mins. So then his friends where all like he man I will give you $20 if you let your girl give me head. And I got up and left. So guys how should I take this?

2007-05-10 04:12:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my husband is best friends with his ex-girlfriend and she has already admitted to her husband that she still loves my husband, Well we're moving back to GA week after next (which of course is where she lives) and she wanted to throw HIM a welcome home party, not even acknowledging that he has a wife and baby coming home too. I've told him that there is something about her I don't like but he says there's nothing to worry about. I trust him with all my heart, I just don't trust her. Am I just being paranoid or could my instincts be right?

2007-05-10 04:10:22 · 8 answers · asked by Heather C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got my mid terms yesterday, and I was gonna wait until 8:15 which is 5 min before we go to school... should I show her them right now or wait till then? Btw, my grades are bad.

2007-05-10 04:08:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I moved in with my gf, who has three kids that arent mine. Should I pay 50% of everything, rent, food, utilities, etc, or should I get a break, and if so how much would be fair? She gets child support and food stamps and tanf, and the rent goes to her mother, who hates me. Im more than happy to pay a quarter, since i do live there and use her things, but I dont see paying half, especially since she will see much of that back again one way or the other.

2007-05-10 04:03:48 · 27 answers · asked by tomhale138 6 in Marriage & Divorce

He knows i like him,i've been very obvious and not just him but everyone knows it. We have never really spoken before but i look at him all of the time and he looks back. Or sometimes he'll look at me first. I have been told that he is a very talkative person,just like myself,but whenever i'm around he goes quiet. From far away it's like a staring competition but up close we can barely look at eachother and sometimes i get the feeling he wants to say something but doesn't. I didn't know this but i found out he is married. Is this why he's avoiding me?

2007-05-10 04:00:20 · 16 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

If it was raining outside

2007-05-10 03:56:56 · 33 answers · asked by Daizy 1 in Weddings

My very best friend got sent to juvie and , his parent say that it where he belongs and they dont want him out! But he is a really good person just got cught up in the wrong think ya know. Well his grandma can get him out but left town and i cant write or visit! this guy has helped me thru allot and he is my rock whta should i do?

2007-05-10 03:51:19 · 7 answers · asked by JAY 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay this guy i did well i think he has a g/f and well i feel realy nasty and i don't know if i should confront him bout it or just leave it but i like him and well i dont think he liked me cause we did it and he just told me not to tell no one and i fill sad and mad and confused......

2007-05-10 03:39:20 · 17 answers · asked by erika 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so our one year anniversary is comming up and im not too sure what i should plan. my girlfriend has always said that she wants like a date from one of those romantic movies, something special like that. im not really into romantic movies but i love to do romantic stuff. she dosent really have a fav. romantic movie that i know of so if any of you have any ideas or want to tell me bout a date from a cute movie or something that would be greatly appriciated. (oh yea, and i dont have too much money so try not to go overboard, be realistic)

thanks!!

2007-05-10 03:38:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl on a church website and we've talked alot on IMs and stuff---and I kinda like her--I'm supposed to see her at summer camp--should I tell her how I feel now or wait and see just in case I change my mind about her in person...

2007-05-10 03:34:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 03:33:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I was wondering when the best time to get me and my soon to be husband 's passport, we can not seem to agree becuase I think we need to get it now and he thinks at the end of august, the wedding is in december and we leave for our curise the day after on the 16th...please help????

2007-05-10 03:30:42 · 22 answers · asked by MICHELLE WILLIS 2 in Weddings

Do most mothers just spend it on themselves ? I never got a dime from my mother growing up yet she recieved payments from my father. I never even got an Allowance !

2007-05-10 03:24:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i've been with my bf for about 8 months but its like now thats all we do is fight and fight... what should i do???

2007-05-10 03:24:16 · 27 answers · asked by Tiffany 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 03:23:04 · 20 answers · asked by orange c 4 in Weddings

I just got engaged a week ago!! Anyway, I need help. If you wanted to do a beach wedding on a Florida beach, which beach woudl you pick? So far, I am thinking about Key West, Destin, and Siesta Key. Any other suggestions/opinions?

2007-05-10 03:22:48 · 15 answers · asked by jrhod263 3 in Weddings

he seems to be unhappy in his relationship. i cant stop thinking about him, and I know its the same for him. but i dont want to be a homewrecker!!! what should i do? probably nothing huh?

2007-05-10 03:20:18 · 34 answers · asked by Steph 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 03:13:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family