Ok my husband is best friends with his ex-girlfriend and she has already admitted to her husband that she still loves my husband, Well we're moving back to GA week after next (which of course is where she lives) and she wanted to throw HIM a welcome home party, not even acknowledging that he has a wife and baby coming home too. I've told him that there is something about her I don't like but he says there's nothing to worry about. I trust him with all my heart, I just don't trust her. Am I just being paranoid or could my instincts be right?
2007-05-10 04:10:22 · 8 answers · asked by Heather C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't say "instincts". I think in this case it's just throwing up defenses and keeping your eyes peeled at the same time. Seems pretty stupid to move right back to where the possible problem is. What the heck precipitated that??
If you trust him that's great. Once again you can make it known that he is your husband and that you do not take kindly to her making all of this fuss over him (You're to tell him that...not her). If he betrays your confidence by telling her what you said, this could be the start of a future disaster.
You're not out of line thinking that this whole thing could possibily lead to something more than what it appears on face value. If she knows that it eats at you...she sounds precisely like the type who'll do anything to get him into a situation that puts them both in bed. know what else she'll do? If that happens, she'll either tell you or find someone to deliver that message. You see, this way you'll toss him out and then she can bring him back into her bed.
Now this isn't to say it will happen...but you're astutue enough to see that her behavior is strange for an "ex".
know what this will be? A real test of his fidelity. Lets see if your trust in him is merited.
I wish you luck my dear. She has a master plan and is clearly putting it into effect. Tell him you have implicit faith in him however none in her. If he says "Don't worry"....just let him know that you won't...and hold him to his promise.
2007-05-10 04:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how women can trust their man, but not other women.
It doesn't matter what another woman does, ultimately your man is the one who is going to stick his hard d ck inside of her. Or are you saying that your man has no control over his d ck?
Sounds like you want to blame the fact that your husband is going to f ck his ex, on his ex, after all he won't be involved in the sex act, because you trust him with all your heart.
Wake up!!!!!!!!!!!!! Who the f ck you kidding?
2007-05-10 11:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by you know who 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts they will lead you to the truth every time She sounds a little too friendly and you should keep a close eye on the situation
2007-05-10 11:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by chameleon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you dont trust her and she still loves him, she wont have a thought about her own marriage, so why would she think about his? I would voice my concerns, and if he loves and respects you then he will hear you and the two of you will have to come to terms with how to deal with it.
2007-05-10 12:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't like it. I think you are right about your instincts, and I would certainly set some ground rules with him concerning her. She may come on strong at some point. How strong will he be?
2007-05-10 11:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by Maria 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are right to NEVER trust another woman.
2007-05-10 11:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are sooooooo right she needs to be out of the picture if u feel it about her trust your gut
2007-05-10 11:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let him know your concerns. He should value and respect your wishes.
2007-05-10 11:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋