Family & Relationships - 10 May 2007

/laundry/bill paying/chauferring, and the woman still feels that she is being treated unfairly? I suspect that when this happens, it's usually that she doesn't feel like he's romantic enough, after all that work. How often is this the case?

2007-05-10 06:27:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had to make this work for school starting with "If" so I decided to try to write a poem....... what do you think?

*If – Love’s strength*

If there was no dead,
There wouldn’t be a last word,
Nor a last kiss.
There wouldn’t be an end for everything.
We wouldn’t need to say goodbye.
So love would never end.
We would always be together,
We would always hug each other,
We could be happy forever.
But if there is dead,
It’s because everything that is born has to die,
It’s to make us take each moment as it was the last,
It’s why we don’t want to be far away from each other,
Not even for a sec.
So dead is what make us value our lives.
But it also makes us cry and suffer.
So, do not give up and fight till the end shows up,
Because each of us can change our future,
And you can change mine,
As I can change yours.
And, if you wanna, there won’t be an end or us,
Not for us.
Cause love never disappears, nor dies.
It’s always there.
Sometimes it’s only hidden inside us,
But just a sign, a touch or a simple smile can awake him
So that, we would never say goodbye to each other.
Because what love bilds,
Nobody can destroy,
Nobody can fight against it.
Because when love shows up, it never leaves.
It comes to stay.

2007-05-10 06:26:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies and gents...my boyfriend of a year was on our computer till 6 in the morning..the next day i discovered he was having cyber sex and trying to meet girls online. I freaked out. He says its no big deal and its just fun. I consider this a form of cheating..what do u think??

2007-05-10 06:23:29 · 25 answers · asked by mmm mmm good 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

weight off. a few pounds heavier than in my single days. harder to keep the hair away from the places i don't want it and harder to keep it where i want it, my energy level isn't what it used to be.
health problems start to slowly creep up on you ex. high cholesterol, high blood pressure, etc. etc.
although you love your kids, the stress of raising them wears on you. the stress of your job wears on you as well. the feeling of being less attractive than you used to be as a result of the factors i mentioned above is multiplied by the fact that your wife seems less and less interested in sex with you the longer you are married, to the point where you stop asking for it because you figure "why ruin the night with more rejection?"

are these pretty normal feelings that guys experience as they begin to approach the middle age years?

2007-05-10 06:19:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex says she hasnt has sex for nearly 2 years now and she is only 21. She says she has had only 2 serious partners one long term a 4 year relationship!!! do you think she is telling fibs ?

2007-05-10 06:19:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who yells...I never got my lisence and dont ask why...ok and he is cool with it he has no issue with me not having them but is helping me get them but yells at me loudly if i makea driving mistake... everyone else who rides with me sauys i do fine but all he can do is yell and wonder why im so nervous he yells other times to about other things how can i keep tough i dont wanna leave i love him how can i get past this and just deal with it

2007-05-10 06:17:26 · 15 answers · asked by Lilmisssassy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well i was wondering if im married and filling for fanancial aid and i dont tell them that im married would it be a problem. is it realyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy important that they know?

2007-05-10 06:16:21 · 25 answers · asked by john c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love sex and I love to masturbate. (I'm serious, this isn't some dumb joke. Real answers please!) I'm kind of kinky too. I love bieing tied up, hair pulling...dominated. I also love the adventure of using my vibrator while driving (I know, not safe!) if I'm with or with out my boyfriend. No one (unless in my car) can see, but it's just the adventure of it.

I don't cheat and I don't have multipul sex partners. My urges don't mess with every day life, but I could spend the whole day in bed masturbating if I had the free time.

Is this a problem? Or am I just a healthy young woman?

2007-05-10 06:15:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this man that held me till i slept years ago because i was upset with a mutual friend of his cheating on me, because of him being friends w/my x we never were able to pursue anything more. I have always thought of him since. I am now engaged to a wonderful man who will give me a great life, and this other man found out about the engagment and called me to express how he has felt the past few years, I am so confused now. I am still extrmemely attracted to this guy that held me and still have wonders about him, but i am also engaged and content w/this other man, what should i do?

2007-05-10 06:07:43 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I worry constantly about my wife. How can I deal with this problem?

2007-05-10 06:07:18 · 33 answers · asked by Chewy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 06:04:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 06:03:04 · 26 answers · asked by Aaron B 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known him for a few years and i have been tooling around with him and leading him on since. He no longer returns my calls and ignores me, i realize now what a great guy is was. I called him from a number he did not recognize and he answered and i was glad to hear he was alive,he told me there have been a lot of changes and he has been working like crazy and he really wants to tell me in person why he has not called me. Should i sit and wait now until he calls or send him an email apologizing for being so selfish the past couple years?

2007-05-10 06:01:32 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is marrying a bum. He thinks only of hisself and his wants and needs. She does everything for him, and what I can see he does nothing in return. He's got a good job, and does have a nice future, but I am still a worried Dad.

I have raised her on my own, and she's all I got.

2007-05-10 06:01:10 · 19 answers · asked by therednecknavyman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a mothers day gift from ur ex husband? He claims he still loves me but Im totally not in love with him anymore but part of me feels that I should accept the gift either way because of my children (it was my daughter that told me what her fathers idea was for my mothers day). What should I do?

2007-05-10 05:58:19 · 14 answers · asked by memyslf&I 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do you read more into things?
Why does a man assume a woman wants more than just a casual relationship even though the woman has assured him over and over that she doesn't want more?
Does a man think that the woman is going to become clingy? When a man pushes a woman away in this situation it's confusing especially when casual is all she wants. So then she wants to know what the heck is going on.
And why can't the man just say, "I don't want this"? Why is avoiding always the way it goes?
If you are all set and she is all set, then what is the problem? Does this ever end... do you have to be past your 30's??

2007-05-10 05:50:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

don't you find it as being insensitive? is that an addiction?

2007-05-10 05:47:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok we are seperated, he hasn't talked to me in 2 days..Told me he would talk and see me this weekend. Well I tried to call his phone and its out of minutes ( pre-paid) well he wasn't talking to me, so now I'm worried he is talking to someone else. I'm also pregnant with his child and I have asked if I could move back home..He says yes then turns around the next day and says he doesn't think its a good idea.. People have told me to not talk to him for a while and he will start to worry about what I'm doing and call me, but he told me that since we have been apart that he has drifted..so not talking to him might make him drift more..And advice?

2007-05-10 05:46:44 · 26 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend asked his wife to bear with him while he decides when to leave his mistress. He wants her to relax and wait, he promised her he will try not have sex with the mistress, but he cannot promise the wife that he will not kiss the mistress. They have two lovely kids, been married for two years, he is cheating for 10 months now. wife needs my advice what advise to give i don't know. For me i would have dump his *** already....as a matter of fact i cannot even speak with him and we were very close friends i am totally surpised at his actions

2007-05-10 05:45:21 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my wife are getting a divorce. She is trying to stay married with me as long as possible, and I'm done. She keeps pushing court dates, now is making me pay her cell phone, washer dryer she bought....ect because she has no job. I don't know how to prevent her from trying to take all my money, and i just want out. I cant support my kids and her.

2007-05-10 05:44:17 · 22 answers · asked by WMY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Lately my wife gets ill with me over trivial things. she tries to fuss sometimes and she gets smart with me too. How should a person deal with this? The silent treatment? Or "Being cool" towards her? Or something else?

2007-05-10 05:44:08 · 10 answers · asked by Chewy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know. It is not an easy answer... My wife hates photographic porno because she feels it exploits the people involved... and I kinda agree with her. If it's written or drawn it's a different story. And 99.9% of the time I stay away from photographic porno... but every now & then I look at it.

And she finds out, feels betrayed, upset (all legitimately so), demands I move out, etc. Eventually it all settles back down, to a degree, and we go on, a little more wounded than before. She feels less close to me. She is angry at herself for trusting me again.

I know better. Do I not love her? We have been together nearly 20 years... but she says if I cared I wouldn't do those things that hurt her. And that does make sense...

Is it a way of keeping her at a distance? Is it a way of feeling like she can't control me? I feel like lousy. I know I'm wrong when I am doing it. It happened again this week after 10 months of behaving. She wants me to move out again.

>>>sigh<<<

2007-05-10 05:40:58 · 18 answers · asked by aspicco 7 in Marriage & Divorce

snook out with a boy/girl when you were a teenager? and if so then what happened? did u get caught?

2007-05-10 05:40:54 · 20 answers · asked by burn baybee burn 2 in Singles & Dating

I want my wife to call me during the day and to generally show just how much she misses me sometimes. I usually call her several times a day,but lately I have thought that I would lay off and let her do the calling. My worry is that she wont call or doesnt really care or miss me that much. what should I do? Call or knock it off altogether?

2007-05-10 05:39:48 · 19 answers · asked by Chewy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to do special things with my husband and two boys. but we never have enough money to go and do those things. the zoo is cheap but how many times can you see the lions. so i just want to see if anyone has any good ideas.

2007-05-10 05:39:04 · 17 answers · asked by joseismyworld 1 in Family

if you are gonna say it doesn't , don't bother answering cause it is a proven fact that it does. if your one of the few lucky ones to dispell the myth, hoorah for you, answer a question that has to do with your marriage phenomenon.

2007-05-10 05:35:59 · 14 answers · asked by rockstarhooligan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been togather about 12 years and he has always been a cheater. Every time he said it was a mistake and I was always foolish enough to believe him. I guess that is the price you pay for love? I still love him and had to move 2 states away to make sure I won't go back again. I have our 5 year old son with me and don't know what to do with myself now. I am looking for a job in the medical feild and hope to have my son in school soon, but my problem is I am getting mixed reviews from my family and friends. Some say that I need to go out and experience new things and people because all I have known for so long is my husband. But others say I should just take time for myself and straighten out my emotions about the seperation before I start to meet any one. I guess from being with him for so long I don't know if it easier to move on with or without some one?
If any one has any GOOD advice, let me know.

2007-05-10 05:33:40 · 24 answers · asked by Boogie's Mom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I seen a person on megans law ,and the offense is LEWD OR LASCIVOUS ACTS WITH A CHILD UNDER 14 .WHAT DOES MEAN. ? HOW CAN I GET THE FULL DETAILS OF THE CHARGE,,, THANKS

2007-05-10 05:33:21 · 3 answers · asked by YVONNE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband loves it from every angle, but he has this thing about s*x from the back...He's absolutely obsessed with the *ss. For guys that cant get enough of the doggy style...whats so great about the view? or is it the power of the position?

2007-05-10 05:32:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well me and my brother were the closest growing up. Shared a room even though I could have shared with my sister. We were two of a kind, and he respected me for my knowledge and friendship. That all changed when he became an adult and I had to tell him I caught his girl cheating. He yelled at me, and quit talking to me, our relationship was never the same because I was afraid he was violent. We became closer about 2 yrs. ago again, he is chronically suicidal and depressed, and I didn't want to cut him off, so I would drop everything to be there for him, even when I had a colicky baby and was getting 1-2 hrs. of sleep a night. Well he has a new girl and she cussed out my mom and threatened her. My mom is like a cookie cutter mom, super nice, like on TV so she didn't deserve it. I told my bro that I witnessed the girl being aggressive towards my mom and wasn't going to allow it. Now its been 1 month no contact, and he missed my sons 1st bday. He doesnt want help, do i just quit trying?

2007-05-10 05:30:43 · 12 answers · asked by Sweetness 6 in Family