don't you find it as being insensitive? is that an addiction?
2007-05-10 05:47:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
LOL.. seems my question has touched the ego of some strip bar-goers here.. didn't mean to offend you, guys, in any way.. some of the answers make me laugh so hard i think i'm... i'm....i'm gonna cry LMAO
2007-05-10 06:00:07 · update #1
i asked this question to try to understand why other men do it, not because i'm with someone who goes to stripbars.
and derekbradley4000, not all women who got nice racks are strippers. i got brains, i don't need to strip for anyone to earn money. getz? lol
2007-05-10 06:10:38 · update #2
I wouldn't go to one of those places weather I had a gf/wife or not. They don't really like you and they just want your $$$. Those places ar a waste of time and $ - especially when concidering the fact that there are prettier, smarter women out there with a lot more to offer. A mirror proves that. hehe
2007-05-10 06:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Magic Mouse 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends are you going to a strip bar by yourself...or are you going with a group of guys. Sometimes it depends if your husband is going to the bar because all his friends are and he wouldn't go any other time then there shouldn't be a big deal. if he's going to the bar every night by himself or a couple times a week then there is a problem. One it costs to much money and two if he that into looking at other girls naked then your body...then thats very insensitive, and it could even be concidered cheating...Ask him how he would feel if you had some guys come over while he was out looking them to get naked for you. If he says he doesn't, then maybe you should think about being with him still? if love isn't there anymore don't waste your life away.
2007-05-10 12:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not an addiction, it's a fantasy. That's it, nothing personal!
A dancer is not going to complain about things in your life, she's there to entertain you! She's not going to bore a man with petty details, she's not going to try and change anything. SHE WILL pay attention (as long as she's getting $$$), she will act like she's very interested in the man (even though it is not real), and she will make a man feel like he is "king of the castle".
A strip club to a man is like a cheesy romance novel to a woman. It's not real, it is just a short fantasy. A majority of the strip clubs will not allow any touching to take place. The stories you here about are the exceptions. It's not an addiction to most men, however the nightmares we hear about are addicts (that's because it makes good news stories and dramas!).
Don't take it personally, men sure don't!!!!
2007-05-10 12:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by PSU93 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are mistaken to think a girlfriend/wife has anything to do with going to a strip club. Typical female mistake.
It's not insensitive on the mans part, and is only on the women's part because she is wrong.
Are you really saying that a man going to a strip club a few times is an addiction? You might need to look up that word first.
2007-05-10 12:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are built and expected to be conquerors. Of cities, corporation and conquests.
Peelers can give men that fantasy feeling of a woman who is grinding, totally slutty and hot for them and they can imagine the conquest of that woman.
Then they go home to their "pristine" Betty Crocker wives they married.
I rarely go to the strip clubs, but I understand why some men love to go.
2007-05-10 12:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We go because not all of our friends are married or with a girl and we still want to be out with the guys and not look like wimps all the time, backing out of things because of the girlfriend or whatnot.
2007-05-10 12:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by bitchlips411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...we men are easily amused by "other" naked women here darling. It's just God's way of reminding us of what's waiting at home for us reasonably! We aren't attempting or trying to be disrespectful to you here sweetie. It's just natural for us visually and mentally impaired men to wanna look at other naked women and stuff occasionally darling...no offense to any women is intended here otherwise. We don't get to see or be with our naked girlfriends enough of the time darling...so a quick glimpse and a superficial lap dance will suffice to tied us over. We mean no harm in it to you or any of our girlfriends and wives and stuff honestly otherwise....we're just silly men sister...not mental giants discretely!
2007-05-10 12:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by scott s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's for the fun of it. It's a small bit of fantasy. I'd say it's the same as me going to them, which I have recently for a friend's birthday. My guy didn't have a problem with it. He was actually amused by the stories of the night. If my guy wanted to go to one, I'd have no problem as long as he would be willing to talk to me about it. I'd have a problem if there was something he didn't want me to know about.
2007-05-10 13:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where else can you find smelly old men, overpriced booze, cankerous 30 year old strippers in a smoke filled room these days?
2007-05-10 12:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most guys it's just a place to hang out. I haven't bothered going to one for a number of years now. It's just a big tease lol.
2007-05-10 12:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋