I need serious help answering this??

Question

there is this man that held me till i slept years ago because i was upset with a mutual friend of his cheating on me, because of him being friends w/my x we never were able to pursue anything more. I have always thought of him since. I am now engaged to a wonderful man who will give me a great life, and this other man found out about the engagment and called me to express how he has felt the past few years, I am so confused now. I am still extrmemely attracted to this guy that held me and still have wonders about him, but i am also engaged and content w/this other man, what should i do?

Answer 1

Just be honest with your feelings. Don't allow circumstances to force what you do, otherwise you'll always wonder and have feelings of regret. You can wait and take whatever time you need to figure out what or who is really going to bring you true happiness. In the end, it is fair to them as well. Then you can feel more settled. If this means that you need to break-off the engagement for now...then maybe it's for the best. Frankly, if your fiancee is the one, you wouldn't be asking this question. You only get one chance at life, so make the most of it. Enjoy!

Answer 2

just let your fiance know that you still need time. my real question is are u just content or do u actually love him (your fiance) and is this guy really worth giving up? if u find yourself saying no to both of these questions then why go on with a wedding when all you'll cause is pain and heartbreak to your fiance.think about it.be honest with yourself.

Answer 3

break off the engagement until you know for certain. it is the fair thing to do.

Answer 4

Try putting your shoes into your fiance's situation.

Answer 5

Don't get married!!!!! You have too many doubts in your mind!