I love sex and I love to masturbate. (I'm serious, this isn't some dumb joke. Real answers please!) I'm kind of kinky too. I love bieing tied up, hair pulling...dominated. I also love the adventure of using my vibrator while driving (I know, not safe!) if I'm with or with out my boyfriend. No one (unless in my car) can see, but it's just the adventure of it.
I don't cheat and I don't have multipul sex partners. My urges don't mess with every day life, but I could spend the whole day in bed masturbating if I had the free time.
Is this a problem? Or am I just a healthy young woman?
2007-05-10 06:15:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's not normal, I would wager a lot of females would be in trouble. It's completely normal. I am 22 years old and whenever I have a spare moment that's not being occupied by something more important, I am either exploring my own body or the person I am dating is. The whole "kinky" thing is normal. I truly believe a lot of people have urges to do things like that but because of how a lot of people were brought up, they don't act on those urges. A nympho is a person that is addicted to sex like a drug and will do anything to get it--even have multiple partners. So there's no question that the description does not fit you.
2007-05-10 06:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by Missy K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sex drive is higher than normal for your age. Women don't generally reach their peak level of sex drive until their 30s or so; you could simply be an early bloomer.
Another big factor in the female sex drives is how good their early sexual experiences were. If you had extremely pleasant sexual experiences in the beginning, it makes sense to have a higher sex drive than a woman who's early sexual experiences were unpleasant or just so-so.
Regardless, as long as it isn't impacting your day to day life, and you aren't engaging in risky activity (mainly meaning multiple partners, though I'd be careful with the vibe behind the wheel), theres nothing wrong with it.
And your boyfriend may half joke that you're a nympho, but I doubt he's complaining :P
2007-05-10 13:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by smashcruiserarc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with u, i think sex is very important in a relationship. My girlfriend and I used to have a great sex life and in the last couple of months she's never in the mood, its like pulling teeth to get her in bed. As long as your faithfull this isnt a problem, i wish my g/f was like you, a good sex life almost always equals a healthy relationship, and if you and your b/f break up u know my screen name
2007-05-10 13:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by migapoo1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound fairly normal.
So long as you are telling the truth about the fact that your urges don't interfere with your everyday life, then I don't see an issue.
You don't sleep around, and that's good. You sound like a smart young lady who happens to have a very active sex drive - your boyfriend should consider himself quite a lucky guy!
2007-05-10 13:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Delvala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are normal. I am the same way, basically, except I not only like guys, but I found out that I am attracted to girls too. I used to think I was abnormal, but I started seeing this guy and he told me I was normal. I didn't believe him at first, but as time has passed, he has proven to me time and again that I am not weird. I even started asking some other girls, and I have found that they are a lot like me. You asking this even proves it more. Now that I have finally come to terms with my own sexuality, I have a happy, satisfying sex life. Most people would kill for the enjoyment and satisfaction I have!!
2007-05-10 13:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by whicheverwaythewindblows 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a healthy sexual appetite, but if the act or thoughts of the act consume that much of your day, then perhaps you do have an addiction. See a therapist....they will be able to tell you if this addiction is unhealthy. If they say it isn't, then don't worry about it. It will taper off when you get a career, married, house, kids...trust me....
2007-05-10 13:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope its natural im the same way. u love sex with ur bf like u said u don't cheat or anything ur man is lucky but its a problem its healthy u no. live it up
2007-05-10 13:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're healthy except for the vibrator in the car....you need to leave that thing at home before you kill somebody.
As for the rest, no worries.
2007-05-10 13:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are just a healthy female. IT is an amazing feeling. I have been know to pull over and satisfy myself while driving. Nothing wrong the submissive female. We are just women who know what they want and are not afraid to get it!!!!
2007-05-10 13:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your healthy you just have a high sex drive. A nymphomanic is one who can't go without sex, that is they will sleep with strangers male or female. They often feel bad about their sex lifes and it damages their life.
2007-05-10 13:19:40 · answer #10 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋