Family & Relationships - 10 May 2007

My husband and i seperated for 6 months, in the first months end, i ran into an ex/friend of mine. We had rekindled our friendship, and then pursued more of a relationship come Valentines Day. We both decided we could be adults about it and have fun while it lasted. Well, we both decided to end it when it became too intense. We still remained friends as we had before time and again, however just put the romance on the shelf. 3 weeks ago my husband wanted to have a chat so we talked and wedecided to give us a go. I thought marriage counseling would be my last step to making this marriage work. For the first few days it was amazing as if I felt like we did in teh begining. However, after the 5th day.. i remember sittin in my living room thinking.WHAT THE HECK AM I DOING? Then I knew i didnt belong there anyore. SO now, we are seperated again but living in the same house, has anyone been n the position before and care to share your experiences, advice? Thanks.

2007-05-10 08:47:05 · 6 answers · asked by Jen J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know i love him so much....
he cares for me, i know he loves me also..
but theres something missing from him...
like when were together we never have fun.
i want to dance, and watch movies, and do other stuff
but he seem to only like to eat and sleep.And the worst thing is that he gets mad when we dont have sex..... i hate that because i want to get married first,i think is just wrong.
i always end up leaving mad from his house,i am afraid that when we get married is going to be a boring and i am going to be stuck with him for the rest of my life.what do you guys think........

2007-05-10 08:44:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to love someone but treat them like complete garbage, and not know why or be able to control it?

2007-05-10 08:43:43 · 11 answers · asked by juggalizzle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When people say we have a love hate relationship do they mean:
a) lets say he loves her and she hates him OR
b) they really annoy each other and feel like they hate each other sometimes but part of them really loves the other at the same time????

2007-05-10 08:39:05 · 16 answers · asked by Summer84 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean like in public not in the bedroom

2007-05-10 08:35:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if ur dating someone with a great personality and u are not attracted to them can they become attractive to u. lets say you were dateing someone who looked like freddie cougar but had a great personality could u be attracted to them if there personality is great

2007-05-10 08:30:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you two men were put in front of you, and they looked equally good but the only difference between them was that one is black and one is white. Which guy would you pick if you were a white woman or black woman? It's ok if you pick someone of your race. it's not being racist. It's just your preference.

Which one would you be more attracted to?

2007-05-10 08:28:17 · 19 answers · asked by I'M GONNA GO PLACES 5 in Singles & Dating

My wife commited adutry and i had it all on tape. During our marriage she cheated 3 freaking times that i know about but i forgave the first two. We have 2 children. During the divorce i was strongly hurt. At first i had the kids (2 girls). But i couldn't trasport them to school and back and do the regular activities due to my job requires some travel and some long hours also it's in another town. So with this and her pleading i told her she could have them back. I mean girls should be with there mother right? Anyways, I have been pretty successful through my career due to my hard work ethics and strong determination to get them everything they need plus my spouse while she worked a minumal job making just over the min wage. I paid for her to go to school which she dropped out! Now i'm finding out that basically i'm in finacial ruin. Instead of living off of 3500 a month i'm now going to have to live off of 1200 a month. With this it may cost me my job since commuting is a daily task

2007-05-10 08:27:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl alot. she liked me 2 weeks ago and that was the last time I talked to her. after I talked to her I blew her and her friends off at the mall( I truly regret blowing them off). she has acted distant from me since. should I invite her to play soccer with some friends today after school. me and her played soccer season last month and we drifted apart since. is this a good idea

2007-05-10 08:24:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 08:16:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy we have kissed 5 times now and we were gonna again but then i got the flu and have been gone from school for like 2 weeks anyway yesterday he said if i wasnt there to day then no more kisses and that he would stop talking to me he hasnt returned any of my calls and i didnt go to school today because i still dont feel good what should i do!!!!

2007-05-10 08:12:24 · 14 answers · asked by girly_girlhh 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 08:05:34 · 12 answers · asked by gabi l 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this great guy but I am 6'1 in high heels next to his 5'5 height. When I stand next to him and looked down it becomes a huge turn-off. I literally bend down to kiss him. He seem fine with but lately it's become more unappealing. HELP!

2007-05-10 08:02:39 · 7 answers · asked by Carinangel 2 in Singles & Dating

am currently having marital problems. I am 30 and my wife for 7 yrs. is 34. We have 2 kids 6 & 4. My wife told me she was not in love with me any longer. She had been feeling this way for some time but never revealed her true feelings to me until now. To her, our marriage is over and there is no chance for recovery. She is determined to find her "happiness" somewhere else. All this time I thought I was providing her with all the happiness she wanted -- emotionally, mentally and physically. I don't drink, smoke, and I'm not abusive to her or the children. But for some reason I'm not worth a second chance. She wants to continue to stay here until we can financially afford to separate. But I'm living an emotional roller coaster. I never thought she would stop loving me. What can I do to save my marriage when she is so determined to be by herself. She tells me she wants to find her happiness with herself. What can I do? I will always love her and do not want to lose her.

2007-05-10 08:02:08 · 60 answers · asked by Angelboy00 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I,m a father of 4 kids and having seen or heard from them in14 yrs. I don,t own any childsupport, also disable. I love my kids, and do whatever just to see a pictures of them. Barbara O,connor is Evil, and she got the DEVIL inside her. WHY?

2007-05-10 07:57:43 · 8 answers · asked by riccibigm47 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 07:57:09 · 36 answers · asked by Pretty blacindian 2 in Friends

We are not married just celebrating two years together.

2007-05-10 07:56:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a) Skinny
b) Average
c) Built/Muscular
d) A Little Chubby
e) Fat

2007-05-10 07:55:56 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been with this guy for 1 year. Everything ok for 9 mths then we start arguing a lot. He has moved out 3 times in the last 3 months. Always moves out when I'm at work. Doesn't call me for 3 days to a week then either calls or shows up unexpectedly and tells me he loves me and moves back in. Then we argue and it happens again. He is driving me crazy. What would be the best thing to do for myself?

2007-05-10 07:55:54 · 22 answers · asked by babydoll 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I please my parents? I am sixteen years olds, and a teen age girl. I am normal, I just liek this guy who doesn't liek to meet parents quickly, and quickly for him is two months into us, and our relationship he finaly said I love you to me, and I am afraid that tehy will ruin it, and now they are telling me that he can not ever see me again unless he comes over to meet every one on Saturday[[we aren't dating]]he said that after he graduates it will be easier for us to date

-BobbiLynn May

2007-05-10 07:53:18 · 16 answers · asked by BobbiLynn 2 in Singles & Dating

Two of my kids are over 18. The oldest wants nothing to do with his sex offender/abusive father. My 18 year old daughter started a my space page and my ex found her. She went behind my back and asked him to meet her at a concert we were performing at. She wants to have a relationship with her father and did not want to hear me freak out. This man likes to have sex with 12 year old girls and blames them saying he was raped, when he was over 30. I don't want this person near us. Yet, she thinks she wants a chance.
I can't get her to understand. I had the phone disconnected and internet turned off at the house. But, I worry he may find our house. I had protection through Friend of the Court and Sole custody. He was not to find us from them.
I need to know what to do. I have a 12 year old I share custody with from a later relationship. Her dad is going to flip out and may deny me my visitation when he finds out.
No I can't kick the older daughter out, just not what I can do.

2007-05-10 07:51:39 · 14 answers · asked by MaryJean 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't ask me why I ask, just answer the question.

Basically I am just curious how many white people today have whether it was discreetly or not.

2007-05-10 07:50:36 · 15 answers · asked by Momma K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, the girl and I have been going out for 1.6mnths she stuck thru me thru my divorce. Thru the 1.6mnth we broke up a couple times, cuz the divorce was a lot of pressure. But there were alot of gooddtimes. She finally broke it off with me a couple months ago and her reason was that it was a lot of stress for her. I didn't treat her very well, but I was going thru stress of the divorce aswell. But when she cut it off, I realized that how much she meant to me. I have tried to get back together with her, but she is happy now, but at the same time she thinks about me. I know if you take the divorce stress out of the mix we had a great relationship. She still wants to be my friend and but I can't stop thinking about her. I I have made major changes in my life to show her that I have change for hte better and she told me see them. I feel we have left a book that has not finished and she still has feelings for me. I have stop calling her, but she calls me.So I don't step my boundries.

2007-05-10 07:47:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is the best way to recover some of the investment into the ring. Want to avoid the pawn shop if I can. We were engaged for about a year so it has some user wear on the ring itself. Some one even suggested turning it into a pinky ring for myself lol.

2007-05-10 07:47:01 · 10 answers · asked by newburg_2_fine 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am so jealous it is going to hurt my marriage. i get upset with everything my husband does i am too the point were i almost want him to quit his job cause of the girls he works with. i don't know why i am like i am. but i don't know how to control it either. it just hurts me so bad watching him look at other girls even if it is on tv. does anyone have any ideas how to control it. cause it is hurting me deep inside and hurting my marriage. i am always asking him if he is cheating and why was he talking to her. so on so on. i know down deep he would never cheat, but i always feel like he is or wants too.

2007-05-10 07:46:19 · 12 answers · asked by joseismyworld 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I found a tab for match.com under it. so then i looked on match.com for his profile and he doesn't have one. should i confront him? if so, how should i do it without revealing i was being a snoop?

2007-05-10 07:44:17 · 38 answers · asked by eboogie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 07:43:58 · 15 answers · asked by spoilt 3 in Family

2007-05-10 07:43:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 07:43:39 · 23 answers · asked by flowerskelsey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 07:41:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce