I found a tab for match.com under it. so then i looked on match.com for his profile and he doesn't have one. should i confront him? if so, how should i do it without revealing i was being a snoop?
2007-05-10 07:44:17 · 38 answers · asked by eboogie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont confront him. He couldve seen a commercial and been curious, or he couldve meant to go to another website. If you reveal you are being a snoop, he'll start hiding things. Trust me, men are stupid creatures. If hes doing something it will fall in your lap. You need not waste time and energy on trivial matters. But think to yourself, why are you snooping? A man cannot make you insecure-only you can.
2007-05-10 07:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ask me n e thing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything. I would keep an eye out to see if he posts a profile. If he does post a profile i still wouldn't say anything. Most likely he'll have an excuse such as he made the profile for fun to see who would reply. Which could be true. What you should do instead is create a fake profile. Make it to suit his tastes then send him a message. Go from there see if he is just innocently playing around or trying to a little action on the side. If you handle it this way then he can't lie and say he wasn't talking to other women. You obviously will have the proof. Good luck
2007-05-10 07:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by THEMURPHSTER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could've just gone on match.com for interests sake ( I know I do) or sometimes when there's a flashy advert or a pop-up advert then he could've just clicked on it for the sake of it. If you notice that he actually browsed the website and searched for profiles and stuff, then you should confront him. DON'T lie and say that you friends or whatever ran across his profile cos just now he really was just doing it for fun then he's know you're lying and that won't end well. He won't think you were being a snoop, you just want the best for the relationship.
2007-05-10 07:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you went to a website the other day and you couldn't remember what it was, so you went into the history so that you could find it. When you did, you noticed that match.com was on the history. In a non-confrontational way, ask him why. He probably still wouldn't fess up to it, but you never know. Maybe he listened to the match.com commercial that says "it's ok to look"...let him know that it isn't.
2007-05-10 07:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it just show the main page as being looked at on the history? I don't feel that there is a problem here unless he is actively searching profiles alot. If he is looking at profiles, casually mention what you came across. It may be idle curiousity. I am in a loving committed relationship and look at profiles on different sites. It is more out of boredom at the time then the desire to look for someone else.
2007-05-10 07:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by CdnGirl_26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all comes down to how close your relationship is in regards to sharing problems and talking. Is he approachable or does he get annoyed with what he might deem as petty problems? If this is really bothering you then sit down and kindly tell him your concerns, try to not to seem mad at him (unless you are) and try not to make him feel ashamed of himself. The fact is pretty much all guys look at porn or check out girls or some other form of viewing women (yeah men are pigs, it's just the way we are). The best thing to do is to have a mature conversation and the two of you come up with the best solution to the problem.
2016-05-19 23:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if there is a tab for it he has a profile. And if you do confront him, he will deny it and call you a snoop. However since it is fairly evident that he is not being totally honest with you do you care what he thinks?
2007-05-10 07:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt have a profile dont worry yourself! If there is the slightest chance one of your friends has been on the computer and used it to go there then dont ask! You dont want to lose your boyfriends trust with you! But if you have any other suspisions that you've got good evidence on then go for it ask him. Or until he gets a profile then just ignore it. And I would advise giving your boyfriend a little more trust. But if u have to snoop around dont let him catch you! Good Luck!
2007-05-10 07:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by luckiestgirlintheworld3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't have a profile let it drop. i know some people who have probably never cleared their history so you have no idea when it could be from and maybe he was on a site and accidentally clicked on one of those advertisments and it sent him to match.com. don't confront him unless you have more info or proof then that because there's so many reasons that could be in his history besides cheating
2007-05-10 07:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by JM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he doesn't have a profile. I don't think that you should be together if you don't trust him, but as for the history, do you have any idea how many porn sites I have in my computer because of popups? Also his friend(s) could have a profile and wanted him to check it out to see if it looks good. After all, that's what us women do!
2007-05-10 07:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by rothe_jabbuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋