ok so i like this guy we have kissed 5 times now and we were gonna again but then i got the flu and have been gone from school for like 2 weeks anyway yesterday he said if i wasnt there to day then no more kisses and that he would stop talking to me he hasnt returned any of my calls and i didnt go to school today because i still dont feel good what should i do!!!!
2007-05-10 08:12:24 · 14 answers · asked by girly_girlhh 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to grow up! You cant help it if you are sick! At least you werent trying to get him sick.
2007-05-10 08:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by kissbutnevertell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what grade you're in but be glad you got the flu. Anyone who would give ultimatums like he did is not worth your effort. He needs to grow up and you need to move on and concentrate on your studies.
What do you think would happen if you continue to see him and more intimacy develops? You'd have sex, of course, maybe get a disease and/or get pregnant, and then he'd eventually decide you weren't what HE needs and you'd be right where you are now.
I was where you are a few years back and now I can see that it was the best thing. You may not think so now, but time heals all things.
Remember that you are like a piece of metal that goes through the fire to strengthen it and when the process is done, it is a strong and beautiful piece of gold.
2007-05-10 15:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Light'ninbug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably just kidding, trying to be playful. If he knows you're sick, then he cannot possibly be mad at you for not being at school, plus he knows he could get just as ill.
I am sure he was just messing with you.
Regardless, I would worry about getting healthy, and not about what to do if this guy doesn't kiss you again.
If he does happen to be serious, then that is a pretty jerky thing to say to someone who is home due to an illness, and tells me he actually doesn't care about you, but cares only about himself and what he can get out of it.
Again though, I would guess he is just giving you a hard time.
2007-05-10 15:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's all it takes for him to be gone, then let it be. Let this be a leson in the future. If a guy only likes you for a kiss in the dark, Drop him girl. There is so much more to a woman than her body. Don't ever let a boy forget that! If you try a new food and you don't like it, Should you order it again? NO
2007-05-10 15:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jo-C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about the loser!
I wish i knew then, what i know now, because I wouldn't have wasted anytime on punk school boys!! I ended up marring the one boy that was there for me as a friend and i never dated during high school.. He was my best friend all through school and we ended up dating a year after we graduated and got married in 1999. Still happily married today..
2007-05-10 15:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over tht jerk honey...you deserve better kisses than from him. Hes not worth your kisses...bcoz hes least concerned about your health. dont you see how selfish he really is?? he might be cute or a good kisser but is he worth your emotions and love. think about it....you arent well so wont blame you if u cant think clearly now. take some rest and sincerely wish for you to get better. get well soon honey!!
2007-05-10 15:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ray of sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes scum. he isnt worth your time at all. i dont even know why you want to put yourself in that position with a total loser.
i mean youre sick! how could he expect you to show up? and why would he want to kiss you with the flu anyway?
2007-05-10 15:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to him back because obviously he is a little user in the making.
2007-05-10 15:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes using you...he feels if he can get you to kiss him more then he can get you to have sex with you more.......dont bother with him find some one that wont brake your heart
2007-05-10 15:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa dude how old are you its one kiss no big deal and if he wont kiss you cuz you wont come to school and your sick then screw him
2007-05-10 15:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋