My wife commited adutry and i had it all on tape. During our marriage she cheated 3 freaking times that i know about but i forgave the first two. We have 2 children. During the divorce i was strongly hurt. At first i had the kids (2 girls). But i couldn't trasport them to school and back and do the regular activities due to my job requires some travel and some long hours also it's in another town. So with this and her pleading i told her she could have them back. I mean girls should be with there mother right? Anyways, I have been pretty successful through my career due to my hard work ethics and strong determination to get them everything they need plus my spouse while she worked a minumal job making just over the min wage. I paid for her to go to school which she dropped out! Now i'm finding out that basically i'm in finacial ruin. Instead of living off of 3500 a month i'm now going to have to live off of 1200 a month. With this it may cost me my job since commuting is a daily task
2007-05-10 08:27:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
of 1 hr. So, my lifestyle is going to change drasticly. How is this fair? I'm the one that pushed so hard in life to provide and get an education that i paid for just to get back to square 1. How is it that she can just go through the motion and come out with making more than i do in a year. I've always been told to work hard and earn what you have which i did and truely she didn't. I'm just about ready to write congress or whoever to express how untruely fair the differences between a women and man are! So, though she was in the wrong, i have to pay for it forever or at least until my kids get out of school! Needs some words from you all on this!! Should i hate women b/c of this! I'm starting to place them all in a catogery of gold digging tramps!!
2007-05-10 08:32:27 · update #1
Please dont place us all in that category. I for one have worked for and earned everything that I have ever had or have. I dont think that the laws about financing your ex are right. I am an ex and i didnt want anything when I left except for my clothes. And that was all I received. I think if more men would stand up and fight this it might make a difference. I understand that you need to support your children, but I dont think that it is right for a woman to basically bankrupt her ex just because she has a p*ssy. I wish you the best of luck and if you need help finding advocacy groups in your area please feel free to email me. I would love to see the laws on this changed.
2007-05-10 08:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your tale has a well-recognized ring to it. Hmmmm...... So you're assembly a man for the primary time and have become that private? Maybe that is not a well thought for the primary "date". I am no longer certain what to mention. I can proportion with you my enjoy with this. I had a web based buddy. We talked just about every day. He lived within the neighboring state. One day I informed him I used to be going to be in that state and prompt we would join up. He stated it appeared like a well thought. Then whilst it got here in the direction of whilst I used to be going to move consult with, he went on a "go back and forth" out of state and bought into an "twist of fate" . Why the fees? Because he has under no circumstances back to that state considering that and it has additionally been just about 2 years. Now my on-line lengthy distance boyfriend is meant to come back down and have fun my birthday however that is not going down. A "household" topic is going on the day earlier than my birthday. So, who demands all of those "coincidences"? Anyway, it's traditional to consider what you consider however relatively, you must do what you consider for your intestine. If anything does not consider correct, then it's not. Maybe you must be with any individual on the town.
2016-09-05 15:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you got it out of your system.
Honey, you let her do this to you. She used you and you let her. You cannot blame all women because you chose a manipulative one. Now that you have more time without the girls go get another job and pay off your debt. Then you can start your life all over again.
2007-05-10 08:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what your looking for but we all need to vent from time to time. Feel free to vent anytime. I listen well. lol. I dont blame you though. We all get frustrated from time to time. Divorce is a pain in the *** and makes a lot of changes in our lives. Hang in there though. Brighter days to come.All women are not gold diggers or tramps. There are still a few good ones out there. Please dont put us all in the same catagory.
2007-05-10 08:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by beaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dumb a$$, get the kids back.
What is costing you everything is the child support.
By trying and taking the easy road with giving the kids to your ex you have shot yourself in the foot. Plus do you really want her to morally raise your kids?
Think how hard her life would be if she had to pay you?
Now make it happen.
2007-05-10 08:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is so sad, you know most women are gold digging tramps but I think you should move on forget about her
2007-05-10 08:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by Telly-Of-War 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not leave the high stress job so u are not travelling anymore...and keep the children yourself...accept a lower paying job and have the joy of your children..also then u do not have to pay CS
2007-05-10 08:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can feel your anger. She gives all women a bad rap. Poor example/excuse for a woman. I'm sorry!
2007-05-10 08:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such is life after a bad woman ruins it. Put your kids through school, suffer miserably if you have to....it's not their fault their mother is a tramp.
2007-05-10 08:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by bardstale 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no you should not hate all women because of this, they are all not like her...she does sound like a golddigging tramp....but you will get back there, you will find someone who will help take care of you and not love your money...Good luck to you
2007-05-10 08:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋