to love someone but treat them like complete garbage, and not know why or be able to control it?
2007-05-10 08:43:43 · 11 answers · asked by juggalizzle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sure anything is possible
2007-05-10 08:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is called emotional abuse and it leaves deeper and longer-lasting scars than most physical abuse. I've been there. If you are in this situation, you need to get out. This is not love. The person might feel a passing affection for you, but does not appreciate you. You deserve better; you can find someone who will truly love you and appreciate the wonderful person that you are, without treating you like garbage. Please don't do this to yourself-be strong and get out.
2007-05-10 15:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by Saiph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible, it maybe have alot to do with how a person is raised up though. It sounds like you or the person you are discribing is doing exactly what their parents did to each other. What it takes is the person that is treating the other person horribly to sit down and examine why they are doing what their doing, this might be the only way they know how to love and its a learned trait from someone else.
2007-05-10 15:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Nate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible that to love someone and treat them like garbage. No its not called loved
loved supposed to be kind, peaceful,caring,lovely
2007-05-10 15:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible. However, this is not your REAL question. That is most likely something like: "Why do I treat those I love so badly?" That is a tough question because you have to ask yourself those tough questions that none of us ever feel comfortable asking ... Am I happy with myself? Do I try and destroy everything that is precious? What did I inherit from my parents? How do I really feel about myself? Am I worth this guy? or any guy?
2007-05-10 15:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By the definition of love I use, no, it's not possible:
Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
2007-05-10 15:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yup, wives do it all the time. Okay, some husbands do it too. Heck, everyone has mistreated someone they care about at one time or another.
2007-05-10 16:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. There is anger that can make a person respond to others that way, even people they love....but something has to be done. It doesn't make it right.
2007-05-10 15:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by caraanne2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess so.
I have never been able to do that personally.
Good Luck
2007-05-10 16:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kimm Heard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible...not good or healthy..but possible
2007-05-10 15:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋