I have this great guy but I am 6'1 in high heels next to his 5'5 height. When I stand next to him and looked down it becomes a huge turn-off. I literally bend down to kiss him. He seem fine with but lately it's become more unappealing. HELP!
2007-05-10 08:02:39 · 7 answers · asked by Carinangel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't wear high heels when you're with him, save the high heels for when you go out with your female friends or for other activities. Wear shorter heels or flats when you're with him. Don't be insecure cause tall women are beautiful.
2007-05-11 02:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by possessed Regan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you prefer tall men to short men. According to Western Reserve University sociologist Saul D. Feldman, women notoriously prefer tall over short men.
Don't write short people off completely, most of the big business tycoons of the late-nineteenth century (e.g., Jay Gould and John D. Rockefeller, Sr.) were very short.
I remember a quotation from the late United States Senator John Tower, who said, "Height only matters from the neck up."
Treat a short guy with the same kind of respect you might have for somebody who is a tall person. And remember, some short guys really look up to tall women and consider them to be goddesses. If you wear high heels and it doesn't bother him, continue to wear them. BE YOURSELF.
2007-05-12 13:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mark 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, funny cause i went thru the same thing for a while until my love for him made it alot better. I'm 5'7 and my husband is 5'4....so i hardly were heels...but when i do it doesnt matter because he's a cutie and a good man. We love eachother no matter what...And what makes it easier is that we joke around about our height and just laugh it off...My line is" want me to get that for you babe?'' funny huh. also he complements me when I wear shorts or mini skirts, guys love long sexy legs.....:)
Keep your head held high, being tall is a great advantage in soooooooo many ways...
2007-05-10 15:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by truthgrl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's actually fun in bed....he can suck your nipples while he is on top of you missionary position.... ;-)
Also, as long as he is not really 'short' in the other department, then have fun....try it out, maybe you'll love the sex and get over the rest!
2007-05-10 15:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't date him if you can't get past it. i dated a shorter guy.. i'm 5'9 he was 5'6. he was SO sweet, but i couldn't get past the height.. its shallow. but i want a man to hold me, and he just didn't do it for me.
2007-05-10 15:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of wasting his time and leading him on, dump him and find someone more appropriate.
2007-05-13 17:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buy him some stilts.
2007-05-10 15:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by Corty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋