if ur dating someone with a great personality and u are not attracted to them can they become attractive to u. lets say you were dateing someone who looked like freddie cougar but had a great personality could u be attracted to them if there personality is great
2007-05-10 08:30:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, at least for me... personality is all that's important. I've gotten lots of comments in the past by so-called friends saying that I could do so much better, but they never realized what awesome personalities guys I dated had!
I can't believe I'm the only person like this out there.
2007-05-10 08:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sangria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
There is more to attraction than just physical looks. I've dated some freddie cougar looking girls but had awesome personalities, and I was still attracted to them.
2007-05-10 08:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by brandonb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. People become more endearing to you as you become more attatched. My ex-bf was not attractive to me but his personality was stellar. Now ironically, he's skewed my taste and I'm attracted to people that resemble him, as weird as that is.
*Be prepared for other people to butt in and tell you that one is more attractive than the other. This can drive a wedge in the relationship so just be happy, do your own thing and turn a deaf ear.
2007-05-10 08:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I could. The other way round I could not. Wonderful body but a horrible personality would not attract me. I would stay unattracted...
2007-05-10 08:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!!!! I dated the ugliest guy ever for five years. I thought he was sick the first time I met him, then he grew on me and then I didn't want to let him go. LOL!!! Definitly can happen.
2007-05-10 08:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you can be attracted to someone ugly... it may take awhile but you'll find yourself liking them more and more.
2007-05-10 08:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Micha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's that's deep attraction, not just superficial, they really like YOU
2007-05-10 08:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by Svetlana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are superficial. Beauty fades. so yup, personality wins!
2007-05-10 08:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by linda h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not - you either are or you aren't (unless you just have superficial relationships).
2007-05-10 08:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by chatting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex is ugly and balding even though hes only 24...lol
2007-05-10 08:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋