I,m a father of 4 kids and having seen or heard from them in14 yrs. I don,t own any childsupport, also disable. I love my kids, and do whatever just to see a pictures of them. Barbara O,connor is Evil, and she got the DEVIL inside her. WHY?
2007-05-10 07:57:43 · 8 answers · asked by riccibigm47 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Darling you should get a lawyer and fight her. I dont know if you have paid up your child support or not, but you havent seen your kids? They dont even know you anymore!!
Yours isnt the only one. My husbands ex wife kept the kids away for over 7 years, they are now teenagers with minds of their own, they found there dad and he is thrilled. Granted we were never far away. He spoke to the family services department recently and found out that he can take her back to court to have the child support returned for those 7 years because of her lack of ability to allow him access to the kids. I dont know what the laws are where you are from but wouldnt it be worth checking into. Not only would it help you financially, but you could stick it to her a bit at the same time. Granted it still wont make up for the 14 years you have been without the kids and it wont bring them any closer. They will come around, all kids do eventually.
2007-05-10 09:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's suffering hurt and is being contemptible. Leave her and stop bothering. No matter how long it takes, ur kids will come round to looking for you. It's only normal.
If a lie is going on for years, the day the truth starts its journey, it'll catch up with the lie. This is to say that no matter evil their mother has planted in them, your kids will come to know the true colour she's made of and also know how much u care.
2007-05-10 08:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by sholly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say pay backs are hell. What goes around comes around. Your children are now old enough to contact you if they wanted too.
You say you are disabled. My ex says he is disabled too, he has fooled the government for years. He is capable of riding a motorcycle across the whole US , yet gets disablity. He is so disabled he had an affair (too much time on his hands)
He built a shed for his girl friend, wired her house, cuts his grass and hers and all the shubbery. Washers her car and his on a weekly basis .Paints her house and his inside and out. Did not do that at his own home. He parties all night long.
So, don't cry the blues. If you really wanted to see your kids you would have went thur the court system to get and see them. If you really want contact with you kids the courts will enforce your right. It has been 14 years where have you been trying to get to see them. Kids are work , now you want to see them so they can take care of you. Where were you when they were little and needed you.
You are reaping what you sowed.
2007-05-10 08:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Simply to cause hurt on the ex-husband. It's really sick isn't it? It hurts the kids too.
2007-05-10 08:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The kids is the only CONTROL he has over you. You have rights, fight for them.
2007-05-10 08:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is bitter. Some women are just like that.
2007-05-10 08:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's angry and using the kids against you.
2007-05-10 08:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by shawneeee77 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's getting you back for all the sh*t you piled on her, pal. Real or imagined.
Payback is a b*tch, isn't it?
2007-05-10 08:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋