2007-05-10 07:43:39 · 23 answers · asked by flowerskelsey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HELLO! That is what you call unethical practices and behavior, and stop sleeping with a married man! Have some respect for yourself.
2007-05-10 07:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by tika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets put it like this. You are a career women and he is a career man. If you don't care about your integrity or his family then think about it like this, you just ruin his career right along with yours at that company. If someone higher in the company finds out it will become serious! If y'all get fired there isn't a single right minded company in the world that would love to hire someone who got fired for sleep with co-workers! Not only did you ruin his and your career if his wife finds out his marriage could very well be ruined and lets hope there is no children involved because if there was you just screwed them over for life too! There isn't anything more painful to a child then to have a divorced set of parents! Take it from a child who's parents were divorced! I'm not putting it all on you because he played an important role in it too. Evidently he cares nothing about anyone but himself to be running around behind his wife's back and definitely on an employee and he thinks nothing about you or of you if he sleeps with you! You need to step up and get your act together and notice that you are too good for him to just run all over you! You need to quit, find a new job and never do that again!
2007-05-11 01:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but you did what is probably the stupidest thing you will ever do. He will never leave his wife for you, and if he tells you he will, he is lying. His wife will get half of everything he owns, and will leave him penniless because of legal fees. He slept with you because you are probable younger and more attractive than his wife, or else because you are easier and there are no strings attached. He will keep it going purely for the sex, until his wife finds out. There is no love involved on his part, no matter what you might want to believe. you are simply an available sex object that he is using for physical pleasure.
That may not be what you want to hear, but it is the truth. Don't get caught up in a fantasy in your mind! If you like older men, then find a nice divorced one. There are plenty out here that would appreciate you for more than a toy.
2007-05-10 07:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young lady..there is a word for people like you. Being a gentleman I will not divuldge just what that is. However you can bet you're bottom dollar it's what you are referred to by your peers at work.
Also...don't be so niaeve as to think they don't know you're doing this. Your reputaion has been damaged and damaged badly.
perhaps you may wish to seek employment elsewhere. If the bosses wife finds out..think he'll have any problems letting you go for whatever reason he can come up with because the wife demands it?
I can tell you he won't care. There's always another woman out there whose just as willing as you to spread her legs for him and trash her scruples and reputation as well.
2007-05-10 08:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I don't sleep with my boss... I never dated anyone in my workplace, single or married.... affairs in an office are train wrecks.....What ARE you thinking?
This kind of thing will prohibit your moving up in the company... you get to be the gossip,and all the rest of that stuff...and your career stagnates.... Always be careful of your reputation... I did, and I got to retire, hon, at 48, rich. Because I moved up quickly, and could then get out. As a result, I married a nice guy, and we have been travelling all over the world, have anything we want, yadadyadya...
2007-05-10 07:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh trouble trouble trouble. First of all you don't keep your honey where you make your money! Second how would you feel if your husband was sleeping around on you? If you are remotely friends with this woman, think of how you would feel if someone you knew did it to you. I know we are all human but you also need to think of how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot. I am by no means judging you but at least place your self in her shoes. Good luck!
2007-05-10 07:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by stefanibrown74 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop the affair immediately. Married affairs are complicated enough without him being your boss. Even if the two of you have real feelings for each other, the situation now will not end well. Once everything comes out, it will only hurt both of you. I hope you get out ok.
2007-05-10 07:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You consider it a stupid mistake and you don't make it again. Find another job if you have to, but don't do it again. Have an adult conversation with him and tell him that you realize that you don't want to be a mistress and that's not the life for you, so while it was fun, the one time was it and that you two can go back to employer and employee. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-05-10 07:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by tersey562 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Next time you do this, you and he can call the wife on the speaker phone so she knows what is going on. Webcam would be even better. Then you won't feel too guilty. It's all about communication.
2007-05-10 07:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you sleep with your boss, you set yourself up for too much drama. Now there are personal issues that will affect your professional relationship.
You didn't do anything to his wife, he did. He should feel guilty.
2007-05-10 07:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋