I wanna know- is it wrong to steal someones man???

Question

he seems to be unhappy in his relationship. i cant stop thinking about him, and I know its the same for him. but i dont want to be a homewrecker!!! what should i do? probably nothing huh?

just to add a detail- i know its wrong- i just had a moment of weakness. i have not fooled around with him, or any touching or anything else! i wont be doing anything about this - except staying away. if its supposed to happen- it will.
THANKS!!!

HES NOT MARRIED!! they live together!

Answer 1

I have to say, if he's willing to leave the lady he's with for you, don't you think he's just as likely to leave you for someone else? Sit back and wait. If you're meant to be with him, he'll come to you after he's free. You'll feel better on all counts. Good luck.

Answer 2

YAH ITS WRONG, NO MATTER HOW UNHAPPY WHO IS. Go get your own man. God, I just hate women like you. If only women like you could be a fly on the wall, for a week, in the home of a family who has dealt with infidelity, you would all think twice before considering getting involved with a married man. My freaking house is a 'poster child' for what I would want women like you to see. LEAVE THIS MAN ALONE. I know it takes two, but , yah, thats just it, it does take two, remove one from the equation, and there is no longer two. Be the better stronger person, as a matter of fact, tell this man to either get his sh*t together at home and leave you alone, or leave his wife if he's that damn unhappy and then call you. Sometimes us women just have to think for the men, but above all, WE should stick together and not do that to each other, cuz i can gurantee you that if the shoe were on the other foot, you wouldnt want some homewrecking whore sinking her claws into your man. Think about that before making any decisions.

Answer 3

It is wrong to steal someones man. Let whatever happens to them take place because of them. And if he is married then you need to leave him alone til he chooses what he needs to do. Just you talking to him may cause you to be a homewrecker and that might be where some of the problems are coming from. You may just need to move on and find someone that is single. My sister was married and her husband started talking to another women just as friends, and then she found out that he had been sleeping with her, and it devestated my sister. So, take things like that into consideration to. Trust me you will feel better about yourself if you did.

Answer 4

Okay im not going to directly answer that all I will say is put yourself in the girlfriend/wifes shoes and think about how you would feel if someone was trying to interfere in your relationship! You obviously have never been cheated on and/or left for someone else b/c if so you wouldnt be able to ask such a question. It is immoral, distasteful, and shows a lack of self respect and self esteem on your part. You need to walk away from the situation completely.

Answer 5

you answered your own question. Do nothing. If your friends relationship doesn't work out and it was meant to be later with her man then that's o.k. But to steal her man is wrong and it will only come back to bite you later. If he can be pulled away by you, he can be pulled away by someone else too! Besides, you could loose both ways in this game. You will lose your friend and her man in the end if you play this game! Find your own man and stay out of her business.

Answer 6

First off you cannot steal a man..slavery is over. The man either will stay true in his present relationship or he wont. Does it make it okay for you to try to interfere in his relationship? No, it doesnt. Do I love it when situations come back to haunt someone..Yes I do. Get your own single man and find your way my dear. If dude is unhappy in his present relationship..he needs to find his balls and get out of it and stop acting like a chump!!!

Answer 7

You don't own another person, so you can't steal something that doesn't belong to anyone..

If the guy is willing, then all you are doing is saving the other girl from a mistake you are about to enter in.. After all if he looks around while he is with her he will do the same to you.. Thats not stealing thats simply borrowing him til the next one comes along!

Answer 8

I'm not condoning taking someone away from someone else. but here is a story.

but there is a couple that i know and when they met she was dating someone else. He was able to convince her to give him a go and she left the guy that she was dating. They ended up getting married a few years later.

Also it's very different if they are married or living together. In the story above she was just dating the guy.

Answer 9

If he is as unhappy as you say he is then its up to him to make the move - out of his current relationship before beginning another one. That way you have had nothing to do with the situation. You cant "steal" a person from someone, you can tempt them but its their choice to cheat... I hope this all works out for everyone involved.

Answer 10

you should perhaps wait for the break to happen.just because he is unhappy doesn't mean that he doesn't want her still.date him a little to see what happens from there.if you know the female that he is with, you really should move on .it could cause drama between the both of you later.he has to be sure it over too before getting in a relationship.if not you will end up with a broken heart as well.

Answer 11

people sometimes lie about their relationships...Like saying that they are very unhappy with their partner...So maybe you will fall for it and then get in your pants...So how come that person been unhappy still with the one that makes them unhappy...
And yes is SO wrong to steal...Don't matter what you steal.
I say if you ever in you life want to have a good partner...Don't go around and lie to yourself for start...Think a million times about wrong and good. And pick the right choice....