okay this guy i did well i think he has a g/f and well i feel realy nasty and i don't know if i should confront him bout it or just leave it but i like him and well i dont think he liked me cause we did it and he just told me not to tell no one and i fill sad and mad and confused......
2007-05-10 03:39:20 · 17 answers · asked by erika 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know me and you go to school together he want to talk to you but you just look over him. People make bad choose in life!!! I think he like you tho......
2007-05-11 03:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is some advise, men think of sex differently than women. Men can have sex to relieve tension or because maybe what he is getting from a possible girlfriend isnt what he wants. If you two do not have a relationship and you just met and had sex, you have to let it go. A man that is completely all about you would never say anything like do not tell anyone because that means he is hiding something or hiding from someone. Sorry to say, you just have to chalk this one up to a life lesson and leave that guy alone.
2007-05-10 03:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by acey5654 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what?? He is an a**. I wouldn't be afraid to tell anyone about you banging him. You should go up to his gf and tell her. You like him?? Good Big & Capital G! You need to get your common sense back on track. This guy would be no good for you...and he has no intention of leaving his gf for anyone, unless she were to find out. He would cheat on YOU if you started being his gf. Why? Because you started the relationship with banging him while he had a gf, behind his gf's back. Plain and simple. He should be publicly humiliated. "Don't tell no one." You can feel sad, but you should be angry...both at this a** and at yourself for putting yourself in that position. Look--been there. I will NOT do it again. I hope you have learned from this. You will feel better, I promise.
2007-05-10 03:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never speak to him again, and put the whole thing out of your mind. You have done nothing wrong, but maybe learned a tough lesson about which men to get into bed with.
2007-05-10 03:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by dorothy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds like he just used you.....and you should be mad and confused.....I would forget all about him....maybe just ignore him from this point on......you could tell the girlfriend what type of guy he is or maybe just let it go and eventuallu she'll find out for herself.....( cuz i don't know if she is a crazy chic who might blame you and fight you over this)
2007-05-10 03:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by uz2bafrk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that God has given you freedom, which is so sublime. Yet, it is very easy to abuse it due to our inordinate human nature. Be moderate in your relationship with him and with any opposite sex. It is never good or advisable to allow 'advances' before settling ones partner in life. Take care of yourself and leave him to settle his case with his other g/f.
2007-05-10 03:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Binnus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be as scaired as you are . but if he ask you not to tell any one the he donsnt want ppl to no yall did it so get over him and find a guy who likes you and not keep you in the dark
2007-05-11 03:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by jesika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got used here, nothing to do but chalk it up to experience and move on. Next time don't move so fast.
2007-05-10 03:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and find someone who really appreciates you
and treats you with respect.
2007-05-10 03:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by chmar11 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you get yourself into? I hope you have learned a lesson from this! It's a mess!!!
Good luck! :)
2007-05-10 03:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by searching_please 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋