My fiance and I decided to send mothers day cards and flowers as a couple. He said sending seperate cards seperated/divided us and that we were now getting married and should be doing things jointly, which I agree with.
Just wanted some others opinions, is it ok that I sent flowers to my future MIL and my mother from both my fiance and I? Or should I have waited until I am officially her DIL and he is my moms SIL?
2007-05-10 04:24:24 · 14 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sending flowers is a wonderful jester and I agree with your fiance. Your a couple committed to each other so it's perfectly ok to send flowers together. It's never to early to build stronger bonds with your families.
2007-05-10 04:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Orion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give your mother in law the flowers with a note saying that they are from YOU. Keep it simple and honest right from the beginning with your mother in law. If you do this now from the start you will be grateful as the years go by that you did
2016-05-19 22:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your fiance had a great idea that saved you a little expense and showed unity of the two of you. I think it's great that your future MIL got flowers and a card from you as well as her son.
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!
2007-05-10 04:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never a bad thing to do something that you mean from the heart.
If it was done to win "points" with either mom then no it should not have been done.
If it was done because you both truly just wanted to do something nice and kind for the women that love you it is not wrong!
2007-05-10 04:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh definitely send as a couple. He wants to with his mom and unless you think your mother would find it odd, then it shouldn't be a problem. It's nice to receive a mother's day sentiment from someone even if their not related to you and your pretty much already there.
2007-05-10 04:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not.....I think its a great idea for the both of you to send Flowers to both your moms as a couple.....You are already together and engaged so you shouldn't feel werid about it. I know both your mom's will be very happy so go for it....
Best wishes....Happy's Mother's Day to Both your Mom's...
Good Luck on your wedding as well.........
2007-05-10 05:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the soon to be husband...why not...I don't see how this could be a "bad thing"...You sound like a great dil already...
2007-05-10 04:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good idea. I wish I had thought of it. Now I feel like I should have done the samething.
2007-05-10 04:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a wonderful idea. Plus it will show everyone that you 2 are serious about getting married.
2007-05-10 04:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, wait til you are officially her DIL.
2007-05-10 04:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋