ok i've been with my bf for about 8 months but its like now thats all we do is fight and fight... what should i do???
2007-05-10 03:24:16 · 27 answers · asked by Tiffany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just have to resolve what is causing all of the fighting is it bad communication or disagreement on a certain issue. Get to the root of the problem and talk it out.
2007-05-10 03:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is weird...My name is Tiffany also and I just got out of that same problem. My relationship lasted for a little over 13 months and for about the last five all we did was fight. We tried to work things out but we finally came to the realization that we would never work .We broke up and we are great friends. But the best part is we don't fight any more.
The best thing I can tell you is try to spend some time apart and give each other a little space. You would be amazed about how much stress will disappear when you are away from one another for a while.
Try talking to him and find out where all the source for the fighting is coming form. Don't hide you feelings form each other. And what ever you do do not loose trust in each other. The will make the fighting become a battle that will never end until you split up.
I hope this helps and if you need to talk more, feel free to e-mail me.
2007-05-10 10:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the natural progression of a relationship. As long as the fights aren't getting out of hand, of course. If it is at all violent then it's time to call it quits. If not, then I suggest just taking some time off. Still be bf/gf and have all the same rules, but just take some time away from each other. Be with your other friends and take some time just to be by yourself. Go a whole week without being together at all or even talking. If you don't miss him or don't have any positive thoughts about him, it's time to move on. Good luck to you.
2007-05-10 10:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Raja_Nala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to fight all the time. Seek counseling to stop the fighting or break up with him. If you two fight now, you probably always will. Do you want to have children with him and fight in front of them? Fighting can become a life style and family affair.
2007-05-10 10:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you fight over? Is it something that he does to make you mad or vise versa? I've been with my girlfriend for 17 months now, we have our differences, but we sit and talk about it and come up with a compromise. I'm not always happy with her desicion and she's not always happy with mine, but thats what it takes, in my opinion, to make a relationship work. Relationships are not based on sex alone, you need to talk about the pros and cons in your relationship, make a compromise, and stick to it. Then if it doesn't work out, you should part ways, the relationship was never meant to be.
2007-05-10 10:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by pakeplay7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you are fighting for and about
Talk to him and if you cant do that without fighting write to him
Could be time to cut your losses or just learn a new way to communicate
Depends if the fighting hurts you both or not sometimes relationships are firery
2007-05-10 10:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by bbwbabe74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him,duh!! What else would you do, marry the guy and fight the rest of your life? That's what dating is for,to find out those things! 8 months is nothing!! Move on.
2007-05-10 10:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by dog8it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me in my last relationship. All we did was fight and get into petty arguments and it ended up being way too much for me to take, so I said, you know what, we're done. It's not worth your stress, so I would say break it off. Or take a break and talk things through.
2007-05-10 10:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by a_stefaniak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something nice and refuse to be bated into a fight.
If you refuse to fight, then he won't have anyone to fight with. I would do that for a little bit and if you aren't happy, then you know the relationship might not be right for you.
But if he stops fighting for the sake of fighting then you know its worth it.
2007-05-10 10:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by Gishman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first thing is to grow up and stop the bickering at each other,, either you want to be with each other or you don't ,,, fighting never solves anything all it does is make things worse.you need to give 100 percent from you in this relationship as well as him ,,you need to talk in order to work at things,,,,, tell him to sit down and discuss your issues with out yelling or fighting,if that doesn't help seek help like counseling
2007-05-10 10:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by cassie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋