i found out that my beautiful wife is a stripper and hooker after 15 years of our marriage. she told me that she has been a prostitute since before we met and our daughter suddenly wants to be like her. i want to leave her, but i love her so much and i care for her... i thought about adjusting to her lifestyle but i've been having second thoughts. i really really love her to death...what do i do?
2007-05-10 07:07:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you love her for what she does or who she is to you? If you love her for what she does then leave her. If you love her because of who she is a human being then stay with her. Fight for your love.
2007-05-10 07:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by steph's_joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wasn't making enough money to support the family and she lied and hid it from him cause he would beat her if he knew the truth. Also maybe he is super controlling and won't let her leave the house or get a real job. Maybe she was only doing it while he was at work . Gotta see it from both sides! Wouldn't let my daughter be involved in anything like that though!
2014-04-27 05:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by BECKI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what you think is best for you. If you want to be with someone that is a prostitute then you might be risking getting something. You could find a lot better than her. You have to be the person you are, you can't adjust to her lifestyle. Do you know that her daughter is your daughter too??
2007-05-10 07:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you were married for 15 years and never wondered why your wife went out at night and had a lot of money and costumes? But, at any rate, any self respecting man would not put up with that. You should forgive her, provided she changes her lifestyle and talks to your daughter. If she doesn't, it won't bode well for you. Also, ask yourself if you can trust her after this. If you can't, it may be a sign you need to move on.
2007-05-10 07:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by syphongalaxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not totally particular relating to the question yet i think of i understand what you're getting at. My female pal while i became placed up grad became an "unique dancer" additionally doing a grasp's in Psychology. She made 3 hundred pounds on a solid nighttime and did not ought to take any loans for her degree. I trusted that she does not sleep with any of her purpose audience because of the fact I enjoyed her and respected the undeniable fact that she ought to apply the attractive physique God gave her to furnish exhilaration to others and make money on a similar time. maximum folk seem to have a ethical issue with this besides the undeniable fact that that is utter hypocrisy. each and every guy has used his actual superiority to his benefit at one time or yet another and each woman has used her sexuality to her benefit. human beings ought to stay and enable stay and end judging others. Viking xxx
2017-01-09 14:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eeerrr....a better question would be why your daughter knows about this and wants to replicate it. She is obviously very young. And a better question still....how do you not know where your wife is getting all of this money from, or where she is for hours at a time while she is "working".
This questions is surely a sick joke.
2007-05-10 07:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that messed up 15 year and your never new that she was a stripper and and a hooker . Something wrong with that.
2007-05-10 07:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boy, it took you long enough to find out!! Do you work out of town? It's your choice, but too bad she's the role model for your daughter. Most prostitutes are mentally ill, aren't they?
2007-05-10 07:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing first i would go get checked for diseases. thats nasty. if she lyed and hid this for that long i wouldnt stay with her. beleive me you will get over her in time. it would kind of make me wonder what else is she hiding. who knows maybe your daughter isnt even your daughter after all. you didnt know about the double life so you had no reason to not know if she is. ofcourse deep down she is yours because you raised her and love her. thats ruff
2007-05-10 07:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by rebelyankeelove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry Springer.
2007-05-10 07:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you love her knowing that she's screwing other men and for money?! Now your daughter wants to be like her!! Are you okay with your daughter growing up like her?! You need to leave her and take your daughter with you.
2007-05-10 07:13:08 · answer #11 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋