I'm lonely all the time , I've no girlfriend . even I'm a studint in a dental medicine college in my country Syria ( med-east) but till now I don't know how to have a girlfriend . some of my friends have and because of that I feel so stupid and i feel that i'm a loser . I've asked some of them to help me but nothing work .
maybe cuz I'm not soo much adorable like the other guys or not soo smart , I don't know .. I saw a girl who was nice and beautifull and talked to her twice only and that was a few monthes ago , but I don't know how to make her my girlfriend .
can you help me ?
by the way , i'm 175 cm long and 65 kg weight .
2007-05-10 07:25:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sad times, but keep in mind you're not a loser for being single. If you want a girlfriend just for the status, you're in for the wrong reasons. But if you must...Girls like outgoing guys. You have to take the iniative, start the conversation, the flirting, and ask! There are so many girls just waiting for you to ask them. Try it!
2007-05-10 07:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by syphongalaxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the rules are over there in Syria regarding approaching women and asking them out on a date. From your posting, your problem is a lack of self-esteem. You can't expect a woman to flip for you if you present yourself like the biggest loser that walks the face of the Earth. I can't believe Syrian chicks are that much different from American chicks in that they like a confident man (not arrogant, just confident). You need to present yourself as confident whether or not you are the best looking guy in the room.
2007-05-10 14:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt of course sweetie. you have a great personality I can tell by the way you say things. go up and talk to her. Ask what she's doing. And try making a date just as friends. Pay for whatever your doing. And take her to one of her favorite restaurants. If she's not single find out who is. And say she's a fine girl. And show her affection. Give her some time. and if she smiles lots towards you then she likes you. Then ask her when you know its the right time.
2007-05-10 14:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by heather n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just stay cool. Maybe you've been trying too hard and that shows you know. Just relax and try to get your mind off this issue for a while then maybe you can talk to girls without the thought of making them your next ex which will make you more comfortable...good luck...
2007-05-10 14:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by amphetamine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you honestly think physical attraction is that big of a deal? Even though it could be the initial impression but it isn't want guarentees you a gf. Get some female friends and soon one will click. Don't go lookings for one, just wait for it to happen.
2007-05-10 14:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should have a gf right now since you r in college in syria and you should focus on your books and if have a girl you my drift off from your books. Don't mean to sound like a mother
i'm only 14 and like i'm in high school and there are guys here but i don't guys to go b/t my life and school.
2007-05-10 14:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by nubianprincess1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have the girl you talk to 2 month ago's phone number? if you do try to talk to her and get to know her more. The important thing about a long lasting relationship is trust and knowing what the other person likes and what they hate. Its a long process but you will have fun doing it and at the end its worth it. good luck!!
2007-05-10 14:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by T-unit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok why dont you set your sights a little lower.. try for the really smart girls that look adverage..they seem to have more to offer anyway.. dont judge people by the way they look..some of my best bf .. were ugle as dirt. and my first ex husband was as handsome as a movie star.. he ran around with every female he could until he left
2007-05-10 14:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u cant make a girlfriend..and well, u dont need to stress over not haveing a gf; its not the end of the world..focus on ur schooling firstand if u have time go get one
2007-05-10 14:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jeannette A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont have one either so i need help too. the main thing if you want a girl is just relax, slow down and dont rush things, get to know her better so then you can hopefully get her something that she really likes.
2007-05-10 14:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by destructivesatan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋