When my husband and I got engaged, I was not aware that him and his ex-girlfriend(also mother of his first 2 kids) had only been split up for 4 months and that he'd cheated with her once in the beginning of our relationship. By the time I found out this stuff,(about a year later) I was already pregnant and planning a wedding so I went through with it. Now I can't stop wondering if I am just a rebound even though he assures me all the time he loves me and that wasn't the case. Is he just trying to spare my feelings?
2007-05-10 07:27:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, that seems too soon for him. I wonder how 'real' he is. Still, that's all in the past now, it's up to you how you make your future.
2007-05-10 11:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth did you go through with a wedding to a man you can't trust? Good grief, you are going to be another single mother statistic!
People who get married for the wrong reasons end up in divorce. You either love and trust your husband or your don't. Why question what he says?
2007-05-10 14:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doubts are normal before a wedding and maybe you are just overreacting. Find out by heading the question up head on!
I mean no matter what you have to do what is best for you. Keep in mind you are what is important to you and noone is ever going to take care of you, take care of yourself and find out where you are. If you want to work things out with him then work things out with him, if you don't then let it go.
2007-05-10 14:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Interestedinknowing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were a rebound, it doesn't matter because he fell in love with you and wants to marry you. The situation back then doesn't matter, what matters is how he feels about you now.
2007-05-10 14:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by hellolacey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying marriage is about trust
2007-05-10 14:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by Emmit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you knew before you got married and you still chose to marry him. If it bothers you, go to marriage counselling.
2007-05-10 14:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is what it is - it was yours to find out, so they are your mistakes. Hopefully the two of you can make things work.
2007-05-10 16:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, sounds like a sticky situation... maybe talk with him about it. Goodluck
2007-05-10 14:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by mk2004 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋