His idea: Have his parents ( who are decent) and his sister and brother in law ( who are not decent ) over for Mothers Day. Translation: I clean, cook and put the party on for his mommy and sister on Mothers Day. Important fact: We have 3 kids. Does this sound like the idea of an A** or a Mamma's Boy? I agreed, just to avoid the argument, and plan to enjoy my day some other time, but still..should I point out to him that he is an A** ???
2007-05-10 07:35:21 · 15 answers · asked by undone 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well if he wants to invite all these people over remind him you are a MOTHER too, this means it should be something for you as well. He wants the party he can cater it and clean for it and etc.
He has to start to appreicate you for what you are.. his wife and the mother of his kids.
2007-05-10 07:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Interestedinknowing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best solution is to hire a caterer or order take-outs to minimize the work.
Give the guy a break. He is not a mama boy. He has a living mother and he wants to be a good son celebrating Mother's Day with both his mom and his kids' mom. This is the best event a man can ever ask for.
About the only complaint you can have is he invite others to the house without consulting you.
But frankly, you pick the wrong day to put him on a guilt trip. Don't insult a man's mother or insult him for loving his mother, especially when it comes from the wife!! You don't want to know the level of resentment you are creating.
2007-05-10 14:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think neither @ss or mammas boy ... it seemed that he made plans for his mother but isnt taking the time to prepare for the special day instead he is letting u do all the preparing. Inconsideration is the word .. what u need to do is suggest that he do alot of the preparing because ur a mom too and deserve the day off or help take care of ur 3 kids while u assist him in preparing for the day.
2007-05-10 14:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's not an ****. He's just a typical man. Ask him what he and the other guys plan to do for the women on mother's day.
We did that to our guys a couple years ago and now it is a tradition that the guys cook and clean up after on mother's day.
2007-05-10 14:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I agree. BTW, he's a mama's boy. If I were you, I'd do alot more than point out how inconsiderate he was with regards to you. I'd punish him if I were you. You seem like a fairly strong gal. Why don't you change him from a mama's boy to your "b-i-t-c-h boy". Make him your b-i-t-c-h. That way instead of thinking of his mama first, he'll think of his wife first...and last. Yep, time for you to replace his mama and become priority 1 in his life...24/7. Lemme know if ya think it's a good idea.
2007-05-10 15:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a A/s/s but tell him that he need to do all the cooking and clean in order to make all the mothers in your house happy on that day . Good luck.
2007-05-10 14:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not an a** for wanting to celebrate mother's day with his family, he is an a** if he expect you to do all the work. tell him that you're more than willing to have them over but it's also your day and you'll be having fun watching them cook and clean while the mother's relax!
2007-05-10 14:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by JM 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just point it out to him - sometimes men need our help. My husband was thinking about inviting his mother & siblings over to our house for Mother's Day, and then I said "and what about MY Mother's Day?" We changed plans.
2007-05-10 14:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by molly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just ask him what HE is cooking for all of you? I mean after all it is mother's day, and you mothered his kids. you get it off too! He has dad and brother in law to help him, you put your feet up Momma!
2007-05-10 14:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by juggalizzle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A** and a Momma's boy. I hate momma's boys. Tell him it's your day to, and he needs to appreciate the fact that you have put a lot of work into preparing this for his mother, and he also needs to acknowledge the fact that it is mother's day for you too.
2007-05-10 14:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by hellolacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋