Desperately seeking help !?
This is unbelievable he has been cheating our entire relationship he has been going to a online sex site and asking women out .I don't know if he's ever follow through and met any of them but I know he has been doing this according to his emails for a long time . I am so shocked I don't know what to do I need someone to talk to someone to help maybe I can see counselor .............I guess I should have realized it when he started treating me very abusive calling me names tell me I'm never satisfied denying me love I think this is been an ongoing problem for him in every relationship he's ever had he's never been loyal or honest With anyone . What do I do now tried to make this work. I think it always will be in my mind that for three and a half years he has been disloyal and I didn't even see it ............when they say love is blind I know what they mean now. I was so dedicated to him and I am definitely destroyed by this .is there no trust does it not exist
2007-05-10 01:54:10 · 11 answers · asked by Just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I"m so sorry, that sounds like a pretty crappy guy to be with. Just know, no matter what he says or does, you don't deserve to be treated like that. My advice to you, if you don't have kids together, just pack up and hit the road immediatly!!! I know it's hard to leave someone after you've been with them so long, but it's only going to get harder to leave the longer you're with him, and the abuse will only get worse the longer you're together. Don't listen to any excuses, just get the heck out of there!!
2007-05-10 02:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're having this trouble. If you're not married to this man, it might be for the best if you walked out and left the relationship for good. If he decides to change his ways and regain your trust and love, it'd be his call to make the first step toward a reconciliation. If you''re married, maybe you need to consult a marriage councelor (preferably together), and if that fails, proceed as above.
2007-05-10 02:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by BlackSea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad news,if he has a history of this behavior why do you feel he will change?A counselor may help,but if you do not have children move on.You deserve better than him,there are men our there that will treat you well and not cheat on you,find one of them.Trust is huge in a relationship and if you do not have it the relationship will never grow.Move on,sorry but that may not be the answer you were looking for.
2007-05-10 02:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, get out of there.Go to a safe place.You need more help than anyone can give you here.Stay safe, find help and forget him.He is a major jerk and does not deserve a nice girl like you.Good Luck sweetie.
2007-05-10 02:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by waterlover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try giving him more attention & try to please him. It's probably all your fault. What have you done or changed since he fell for you? Have you become overweight? Self absorbed? do you sit aroud all day and watch soaps? do you contribute financially to your relationship or just spend his hard earned money? Are you clean or do you stink? Do you run around in sweats all the time? Do you nag constantly? Ever tell him how wonderful he is? Do you satisfy him in bed or say Oh my! I dont do that! ???? You need lots of work girl!
2007-05-10 02:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by Tha Fade 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im really sorry about the sito your in. it does hurt i know, from experience. it does break your heart when you think about how long he may have been doing this and how many women there may have been. however you are a very honest woman and you'll find your happiness with someone who does deserve you.
2007-05-10 02:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by Dylangirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will not change, if he is treating you this way more than likely the relationship is over, at least for him.I would
chalk it up to life experience and move on.
2007-05-10 02:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by Maria b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but the guy has problems you have got to walk away and dont look back...your love has been blind but finally you have realized that he is not worthy of your love...just walk away babe you deserve better..good luck and find strength wherever you can to do what is best for you
2007-05-10 02:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a friggin' counselor! OMG, this is terrible! I feel so bad for you, just walk out on him, it's the easist thing to do.
2007-05-10 02:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by Wolfmother_fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his *a#$*, especially since you dont trust him and he just a dogg anyway trying to hook up with women he barely know on the internet?!
2007-05-15 05:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by Cutie Pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋