How do you know for sure that your man is cheating without snooping through his things? And if you cant prove he is cheating then what grounds do you have for the break up?
2007-05-10 02:53:47 · 8 answers · asked by stacey_moser2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm...that is a hard one, because that was the only way I got proof if I snooped. I know it's wrong to do, but you also have the urgent need to know the truth. Well, the thing is there are usually signs that you can look for if the two of you live together. It would be harder if you didn't. But if he starts making excuses all the time to stay out late or not come home. Seems more distant and doesn't treat you the same. He is less interested in having sex with you. That could be signs, even though its not concrete evidence either. If he is not treating you as good as you should be because he might be cheating, then that is your excuse for breaking up with him without your evidence.
2007-05-10 03:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him anymore - that is a good reason for the break up. Dont go looking for something that is not there, because if you do you will only hurt yourself in the long term. You will then use that same excuse when you want to break up with your next BF.
2007-05-10 02:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by Feline05 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feeling. Tell him, "I feel something is wrong, what do you think?". See what his reaction is. If he is quick to defend himself, you might want to start keeping a closer eye on him. Ultimately, if you are in a relationship where 100% trust is not being displayed or used, then maybe you need to be honest with him and simply say "I don't feel that our relationship is 100% honest, not really sure why....I just feel that way". Then just let nature take it's course. If it's meant to be...great! If not, then you spared yourself a future broken heart.
2007-05-10 03:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by jaygonzo76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And if you cant prove he is cheating then what grounds do you have for the break up? u can break up with anyone you want anytime u want to do it no one can make you stay with them if you dont want to!
2007-05-10 02:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by lita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't know for certain that he is cheating, but since you suspect he is there's clearly no trust. Without trust, there's no relationship. About time you're moving on, I'd say...
2007-05-10 03:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that when a guy don't want to stay at home a lot and they leave a lot or when they do get to see you they don't want to stay around for long.adn it won't hurt to snop around just a little or follow him around when he leaves. that's how I caught my ex-boyfriend. Believe me the snopping around works.
2007-05-10 03:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by Bambi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to make sure, is to catch him in the act. he is good, so you wont catch him in the act. while he sleep, try to give him oral and listen to what name he calls out. bd
2007-05-10 02:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know --- the problem is --- suspicion is a self fulfilling prophecy --- trust him --- if you dont have trust in the relationship it is in for a rocky time anyway
2007-05-10 03:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋