I live with my boyfriend and i love him to death but he hits me...and hits me and hits me. oh and he calls me names, he brings me so down, to the point of not living. what do i do? how do i get out? or maybe answer me this how do i get him to love me like i love him???????
2007-05-10 12:15:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie! he is NOT worth it! dump that abuser now; you sound so much better then that.
2007-05-10 12:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Felicia<3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make police reports as soon as possible. Listen to Mary J Bligue song " Runaway " Just run out the house bring a purse with you with documents like birthcertifate anything that identifies you that you could carry in a purse. Forget the luggage. Living with marks isn't call happiness and love.Or call 585 232 7353 they accept collect calls and a safe shelter.
If you can't live today make your purse right now behind his back and hide it. So when you are ready to run just run.
2007-05-10 12:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by LIZA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probally never will, its just an illusion of love that seems to be true, like an mirrage seen through the eyes of a lovesick puppy desperate for love.
Lets just break it down in lamens terms. Is it going to hurt more if you leave him, or if you stay. I for one would rather leave him and feel the momentary pain of leaving him then staying and being bashed.
I have seen it before, its not a pritty sight. A friend of a friend of mine is being bashed and she keeps making up excuses like "oh its alright blah blah"
2007-05-10 12:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship NOW!!! over the phone. YOu dont want to b in a relationship wt him. Let ur parent know what goin on
2007-05-10 12:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may never feel that way about u untill he gets rid of his rage. Ask him to go to counceling. Or wait till he is gone for a cpl hrs and get out, b4 he really hurts u.
2007-05-10 12:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he hits you he doesnt love you! i know its going to be hard to leave but you have to! first what he is doing its not your fault. i dont know if where you live they have CAPSA but if so call them they will give you a place to stay and keep you safe. second get a domestic restraining order its stronger than a restraining order.
2007-05-10 12:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF HITS YOU FOR NO REASON TELL HIM TO STOP AND IF HURTS REALLY BAD AND MAKES YOU FEEL AS IF YOU SHOULDN'T BE ALIVE THEN TALK TO YOUR MOM ABOUT IT OR SOMETIHNG BUT IF HE SERIOUSLY HURTS YOU BAD CALL THE COPS =DD
2007-05-10 12:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Rika 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋