I like this guy named austin R he's cute but like a brother. Today he asked me out im not ready but i want to say yes!out loud i really want to but he didn't ask me his friends had to ask for him i don't know what to do or say can someone help?
2007-05-10 12:47:57 · 13 answers · asked by Shyness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok today I took all u guyz advice.....but then his friend told him I said yes then he didn't believe him so he told me to tell him then I said Why would I tell him if he couldn't ask me himself then he's like just hug him i said no! and he said its only a 1 second hug i said no! then he kept trying and told me to kiss Austin so I said u know never mind tell him I said NO! I was soo mad I wasn't thinnking now what do i do?
2007-05-11 13:02:48 · update #1
just say that you won't respond unless he asks you in person.
2007-05-10 12:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Casey S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going to quote the question then get you to answer it. Pretend you are not yourself and this is someone elses problem
I like this guy named austin R he's cute but like a brother. Today he asked me out im not ready but i want to say yes!out loud i really want to but he didn't ask me his friends had to ask for him i don't know what to do or say can someone help?
You see where im coming from now, say yes silly
2007-05-10 19:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you want to go with him or you don't. If he had someone else ask for him, it's possible that he's too shy to ask you himself. Pull out a sheet of paper and draw a line straight down the middle. On one side, write all the good things about going out with this guy, and on the other write out the reasons why going out with this guy wouldn't be a good idea. Weigh them out in your mind and come to a decision.
Whatever the answer is, I'd tell him personally.
2007-05-10 19:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayb u should talk to him make sure u feelings for each other are the same. and address the issue of him punking out on asking u himself
2007-05-10 19:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by shabobla j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the exact same thing that happend to me today ok this is what happend all of his friends were asking me if i would go out with him and im like why ? so they sed because he wants to go out with you. and yes he's one of my bestest friends uh im so happy i sed yes i felt the pressure but im happy that were going out...so i think you should say yes to :)
o and one more thing tell his friends that you want him to ask you in person...
2007-05-10 19:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by (NO NAME) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait till they ask again
act cute and stuff
then once his friends ask you have your friends ask his friends if he really wants to go out if he says yes then go out with him if he says no still flirt
2007-05-10 19:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by ewwbabybaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should say yes to him and give him a chance
2007-05-10 19:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by kajal c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably just as nervous as you are... try to pull him out of that shell and you will come out of yours...don't talk through the friend and tell him to stop talking through him also, cuz you don't want people in your relationship it can get kinda sticky...
2007-05-10 19:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by new jeroo dime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry! He probably is just to nervous to ask you himself. go up to him and talk to him bring up the topic of going out. you have nothing to lose. he'll look up to you for asking him.
2007-05-10 19:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he already took the first move now its your turn just say yes what are you waiting for
2007-05-10 19:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by Sexychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him dont go around ending messengers, go up to him and tell him!
2007-05-10 19:52:51 · answer #11 · answered by elizacandle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋