I told this guy that I like and that i have been seeing that iam going out with my friends and I invited him.It is not too definite though as I haven't told him what bar or anything.Anyway if he does come I don't want him to stay with me and my girls the whole night.Hopefully he will just come for a drink with his friends and not tag along the whole night.What do you think will happen?How do I tell him only to stay for a bit?It's kinda a girls night out xx
2007-05-10 12:18:54 · 23 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be polite but honest. Offer him a date if he will leave quietly.
2007-05-10 12:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should uninvite him, tell him it's usually just a girls' night out, but that you really like hanging with him so much that you didn't even think how awkward it would be until now. Make it up to him another time.
Seriously, nothing good will come of his hanging out with you while you are in Girls Night Out mode and your drinking pals start to get riled up, telling him and his friends tons of stuff you forgot they even knew about you!! Imagine if one of them got a lttle tipsy and started hanging all over your man, You would never live this night down. DON'T DO IT!
Just go out and have fun. Tell him to do the same. You don't want to get involved in the crazy hookups that happen on these escapades. I would go to another city to drink.
2007-05-10 12:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by momfirst101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you weren't thinking when you invited him to begin with. If you want gilrs night out tell him so. I think he should understand and really what kind of guy would want to hang out with a bunch of loud girls. I would tell him you and him can go out another night just the two of you but tonight is just for the ladies.
Have fun and enjoy your time with your friends. Just remember one thing when you marry, whenever you do. This is not normal behavior you go out with your man as much as possible. Because your single life is over!
2007-05-10 12:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have invited him, you never invite you man to go with you on a “girl’s night out”. I think of courtesy and respect (something everyone deserves) you should either stick to your decision and try to make the best out of him (and that means you will have to hang out with him and not make him feel unwanted), or you should talk to him and let him know that you feel you made a mistake by inviting him. Tell him you really wanted him to go because you wanted to spend time with him (that’s why you invited him in the first place) but you feel you can’t give him and your friends the attention they deserve.
2007-05-10 12:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by Calis_Shygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him to bring some of his friends and let him know its a girls night out but that you'd like to have some private time with him as well some other day
2007-05-10 12:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by mistressjenna86 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple, just let him join you for the odd drink that you plan to have.. and well if you want to meet up again then tell him, if not then tell him politly that you will be in touch.. of course just forget about it and then he will know your not interested.. as for the whole drink think just tell him straight, that you;re off for a night out with the girls now and he'd feel daft tagging along with you lott.. trust me.. us guys know that when a girl want a night with their girls to leave them too it..
2007-05-10 12:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by danny.edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have invited him in the first place. but since you have tell him the truth. just say that he can hang out with you guys while you are at the bar then you are going to a ladies only place. if you want to meet up with him later tell him. he won't mind if he is cool.
2007-05-10 12:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by konawa925 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to come for a couple of drinks and then you may see him later as its a girlie night out with no boys allowed!!!
I bet once you get a the beer goggles you wont want him to leave!!!!!!!!!
Oh to be young again ........Enjoy x
2007-05-10 12:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should not ask boys out for a girls night out. I think that he will come along and that your friends will resent you and you will have a bad time.
2007-05-10 12:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by Julie C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well then if it is a girls night out why did you invite him? !Makes no sense. You are just going to have to deal with what happens because it would be rude to disinvite him. Who knows you may just have a good time...
2007-05-10 12:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can not have your cake and eat it too. fine just don't waste the guys time he has the right to choose to be with others on his terms.Don't play games with him.I am sure others want his company 100% of the time.how do you tell him?Just tell him you are going out with your friends so he can make plans with his friends to go out and check out other babes.
2007-05-10 14:10:44 · answer #11 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋