i was basically in love with this guy. so i spent a year getting over him because i know it isnt going to happen. What i just don't get is that he is all over this other girl and i guess im jealous. i mean, she isn't anything special, if anything she's just fake and a b****...so what does she have that i dont? i have been torturing myself with this and i just want to let go of this jealousy issue but have no idea how....please help!?
2007-05-10 16:58:37 · 13 answers · asked by Ellen 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
....and if it helps, we are under the same sign
2007-05-10 17:02:59 · update #1
This jealousy is of your own making. You can't stand someone having more attention than you got. You are living in the past with your thoughts and letting it all bother you now.
Why do you want to even bother tormenting yourself. Maybe he is doing this "all over her" stuff so you will feel jealous. That should make you want to move on with your life, yet you are now minding their business. Get over it and have your own life with someone you can enjoy. Let them go and move on!
Rev. TomCat
2007-05-10 17:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rev. TomCat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. If you still talk to him, take a break. away for a few months. Don't compare yourself to this other girl. It is all about personal preference. there is nothing wrong with you. It's just that you and him didn't work out. It doesn't mean you're any less of a person than she is at all. Someone else will come along and he'll just be a memory. Find something to occupy your time to take your mind off him and her in the meantime.
2007-05-10 17:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Wuz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your comparing, why! If you knew her you would understand why he is attracted to her, but what you do know is he isn't interested in you...and that is really the only thing you need to know to move on..she has very little to do with any reason to be jealous...if it will make you feel better, he probably likes her because she has less morals, is easily fooled, and he can manipulate her ...if he can't do that to you , then there is his reason for being all over her...so be careful what you wish for...if you where still with him you would have had to be as dingy as the one he is after now...is that what you really want...heck no..your so much better off now.
2007-05-10 17:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over someone is really hard. I personally hate seeing my best friend flirting with other girls (I happen lo like him, but it's not going to happen either). I just try to smile and move on. I can't do anything about it unless I try to really get his attention. If you are trying to get over him and never try anything, just continue with what you're doing. If you still want to be with him even though you feel you don't have a chance, try it... you never know what's in your destiny. I'd say GO FOR IT...!!!
2007-05-10 17:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Marzolia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isnt anything that she has that you dont have. for all i know you are probably better, smarter, prettier etc than she is. also remember that she's not the problem, he is. he just isnt into you and that is not her fault. try hard to move on and just think about that special person that is waiting to find you.
2007-05-10 17:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be his type, and he may just want sex and the other girl he might see as easier. Also, does he know how you feel about him? And cussing him out isent going to help at all, you will feel bad later and it would ruin any chance at all you have with him.
2007-05-10 17:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jon C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone!!!! I know it's hard but move on and find someone that is ready,willing and able to give you all they have to give rather then half, you deserve that much. There will be alot more loves in your life I promise best wishes !!!!
2007-05-10 17:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by midnightsmokerchic23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off he is your ex so jealousy is not really the issue --- you are envious of the other lady and the attention he is paying her as he did not do it with you --- he does not want to be with you im sorry so you will need to let him go (easier said than done i know) --- best wishes
2007-05-10 17:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she might be just more compatable with him....so sorry we all get hurt sometimes....check horoscope sect to see who you are compatable with...i can help if i know the birthday
2007-05-10 17:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
look at the bright side.. move on..
2007-05-10 17:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by watdahell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋