have to do the majority of calling you in a relationship. we also would like to know that you women are insterested in us as well. we both should pull our own weight. takin turns at least.
2007-05-10 17:03:28 · 19 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mm cause girls can be dumb. hahah. i agree it should deffinatly be half and half.
2007-05-10 17:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by k123 x 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because women like to be thought of in a special light.
If you want this from a woman, you should bring up the subject...Maybe she doesn't want to appear eager...who knows it could be a myriad of things...however you should
feel comfortable in asking. Giving withought thought to
reciprocity is difficult, but is more than worth the thought of what you are not getting. Learn to give without thinking of
what you will receive in return, and you will receive the gift
of unconditional love.
Blessings
2007-05-11 00:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we just love being chased. The media has always told us that men are scared of commitment and don't want to be smothered... that's the reason that I never called my boyfriend for the first couple of months. I was scared that I would catch him at a bad time and I'd feel rejected if he'd been rude to me during those first couple months. I didn't know how often he wanted to hear from me either before he considered it to be suffocating, so I let him set the boundaries. Once I realized that he wanted to talk to me a couple times every day, I gradually started calling him because I wasn't worried that I would annoy him.
2007-05-11 00:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by monoxide_aura 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, that would be great if guys actually meant that. But in my experience, if a girl starts calling a guy asking him to go out too, it spooks him. He gets to thinking that she is pressuring him and is too interested. Then he backs off with no real explanation, leaving us to wonder what in the hell happened. I know I am not the only woman to have gone through this. That could be why so many of us don't trust men enough to make those moves.
2007-05-11 00:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by soni 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your point is valid, but its an assertive thing. If the women doesn't think that you care enough to call when she doesn't...
Also some women like to be persued vrs. persuing, so until the relationship is at a mature and comfortable point. Sorry but you're out of luck :]
2007-05-11 00:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by ASG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't call, that is taken as a not interest sign. My brother always said, " He knows how to contact you". So I just though, as a man, he would know.
If I like a man, and he knows it, I would undoubtedly show him interest, and I would write an email or two. But that would be all, and I would really have to like him to do that because it isn't my usual style.
2007-05-11 18:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a boyfriend and I almost always have to IM him every night at 8:00 pm. I send him the first e-mail of the day and then he replies to me. So, not all men have to do the calling.
2007-05-11 00:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you it should be a 50/50 so that both people know where the other one stands.
2007-05-11 00:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by melinda d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you both should do 50/50 in a relationship !
2007-05-11 00:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by midnightsmokerchic23 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope. Courtship is one of a woman's pleasures in life. It makes up for all the time we spend waxing and menstruating and plucking and curling and make-upping and cooking and cleaning and putting up with your excuses and lies.
2007-05-11 00:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude...it's usually teh girl that has to do the work on the calling. And we don't want to seem too desperate or persistent.
2007-05-11 00:06:20 · answer #11 · answered by Bri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋