how to know if he is the one?should i play the field before settling even though i'm happy, or am i?

Question

all my friends have been in pretty long relationships and throughout college or before have ended them done there partying stage where they dated a lot and found new relationships and seem happy. only i haven't gone crazy and done the partying stage and been in multiple relationships. should i? i love my BF of 4 years i'm happy i can't and don't want to think of my life without him in it but should i will i regret it later?

Answer 1

not everyone is happy and content playing the partying scene and having had multiple relationships....it's not my cup of tea~ If you're happy with your b/friend of 4yrs..and he's happy being with you...That's all that matters. I don't feel you'll regret it later , because right now and up until now you havn't wanted to play that game of partying and having many relationships*...it's not what you want. Don't worry what other ppl are doing in their lives...they obviously havn't found their happiness yet of finding that right person* yet they may seem happy cuz of partying...and yes may have been with many partners...but have you ever thought that They may regret that later in life?*~ Good point right*?.....so just enjoy being with your man and continue doing what your doing.
COMMUNICATION HONESTY AND TRUST are the keys to a long relationship..without those you have nothing*~ BEst WIshes*

Answer 2

I think that you have answered the question for yourself.You can't and don't want to think of your life without him. I think all you have to do is keep your relationship spicy between the two of you. And not just sex. Then if both of you help keep it spicy then you will not regret it later.

Answer 3

I think if you're happy you need to just stick with him. If he makes you happy and you let him go you might not ever get another chance at happiness.

Answer 4

If youre under 25yrs old.................. he aint the one