2007-05-10 16:45:01 · 17 answers · asked by cali*girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes! I certaintly wouldn't want my mother-in-law living with me and I probably would give my husband an ultimatum Me Or His Mother? It will make it worse if his mother is financially dependant on you to. Certainly Not My Cup Of Tea!!! I really don't agree with it because she should be showing how responsible of a parent she is to her children and find a place and pay her bills even if she has to get a job. She's not a child and shouldn't be acting like one.
2007-05-10 17:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I take it that his mom may be creating problems, you didn't really say. But yes you should. It's never a good idea for a parent to be living with married children because it creates huge problems. Ask him in a nice way when mom isn't around and tell him about your concerns, then maybe the both of you could talk to her together about it. And one more thing.........shame on her! She should know better than to move in on married children.
2007-05-10 16:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by Judy W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be your decision and if you do you will be asking for trouble. You will be asking him to kick out the woman that gave birth to him. The woman that raised him and will be there long after your gone. The most unconditional love most people ever have is a mothers love. Saying that, What do you think???? You'd better think hard if you want an unstable marriage or a stable one. Not that he wouldn't understand what you are asking of him. Your husband would probably even be sympathetic, but it is still his mom.....
2007-05-10 16:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by dvdlevns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know what your going through. My x use to have her dad live with us at the time and it use to bother the hell out of me for him to stay there. But every time I would say something about it my words wouldn't count for nothing. You know if you have a good relationship with your "hubby", You and him should be able to work it out between each other. See if he will support what bothers you and see what go's from their.
2007-05-10 16:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by BZCranium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because now that he is married, his wife must come first in his life before his mother.
Unless she's unable to take care of herself, suggesting to your husband that she should move out should be backed by very good reasons. Exercise tact. After all, it's your home too.
2007-05-10 16:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bonna Feeday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his mother lives with you, is interfering in your marriage, and has the money and health to be able to live alone, then you may want to tell him.
If however, his mother is not a problem, and she can't afford to live alone or can't take care of herself, and he promised to care for her, then I don't think it would be a good idea.
2007-05-14 15:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is living with you and your husband and causing problems then yes you should tell him. It is your house too and you have every right to be comfortable in your house and have peace and quit
2007-05-10 16:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by melinda d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Then find her nice living accommodations that she can afford and send her on her way.
2007-05-10 17:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES if not you will you will never hav any privy been their don that
hope this helps
2007-05-10 16:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes in your house yes
2007-05-10 16:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋