Family & Relationships - 10 May 2007

This is a letter that I just typed. I need to know if I should give it to him or not. So please tell me what you think.If you see any mistakes then let me know.


5/11/07


Taco Bell
John W.
Taco Bell

Dear John,

Hi this is your secret admirer; the reason I won’t tell you who I am is because you will probably just say no anyway. I want you to know that I adorer you and, I think about you all the time. I loss so much sleep trying to figure out a way to convince you to say yes to me. I want to tell you trust me, but not yet.

You’re smart, funny, and you also have a nice smile, I love to lesson to you talk. When I see your name on the hand washing sheet it’s like haven. Because I know you will be at work that day.


I would love to go out on a date with you. We can go out to eat. Maybe go to the movies then go to Balances Point. That is a pear in Tampa. I have always wanted to walk on the pear with a date. We also can go to the beach, and talk. There is so much we can do.


If you say no then I understand. We can be friends. I want to get to know you outside of work. If this sounds like something you would like to pursue let me know. Most likely you will find out who I am. Here’s a hint TALK TO ME! I always say that to you. One more for good measure BE ONE WITH THE STEAM TABLE. You will figure it out. Good luck

2007-05-10 19:25:31 · 10 answers · asked by Mary M 4 in Friends

i have been married before and would like some one's advice before i would like to do it again.

2007-05-10 19:21:06 · 11 answers · asked by peachpie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

all the girls that i have courted rejected me??? is there something wrong?? im already 18 but still no gf eversince?

2007-05-10 19:17:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 19:14:41 · 8 answers · asked by meeow 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 19:13:08 · 14 answers · asked by mabo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So my ex has been calling me up a bit more than often now since she broke up with her ex. Every time she always tells me to have no one over and she's wants to chill and watch a movie or something.

We usually sit on this couch in my room and sometimes were talking and we just look into each others eyes and it always reminds me of the first time we had sex. She look into my eyes for so long and it just drives me crazy for her.

I feel like she still has something for me but I'm unsure and dont wanna screw our great friendship over by her thinking I just want some.

2007-05-10 19:09:50 · 8 answers · asked by bill b 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 19:05:20 · 7 answers · asked by coolspy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex started to come back around last week and we kept it friendly. Then she came over to my house and we were laying on the couch and she got feely, got mad at herself as she has a man she claims to want to marry and left quickly but kept calling me. Two days later she asked to come back over and we ended up in bed and things got really hot and heavy.. My question is should I feel it is my fault for doing these things knowing she has a boyfriend? I am still single but wonder if I should allow her to come over anymore or if she is still going to be calling me what I should do? Opinions and advice welcomed!!!

2007-05-10 19:00:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 18:58:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife is bi and has talked about bringing another woman into our room. she is afraid i am going to leave her for the other woman if she lets this happen. how do i convince her that she is #1 and always will be. and how can i make this happen so that we can share a woman together. I know she will enjoy it.

2007-05-10 18:57:56 · 24 answers · asked by familyman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we have 2 boys and want to work it out due to the love 4 her. but she wont stop seeing him

2007-05-10 18:55:40 · 23 answers · asked by nottoshabby1978 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So im 19, and I had been with the same girl for about 3 years or so. In the end she cheated on me with another guy, so that was the end of that. But a week or so ago she starts talking to me, and im not thrilled about that, but I talk with her for awhile just to be nice. Well she tells me that she wants to have sex with me agian. Now she's actually dating the guy that she cheated on me with, and I haven't exactly gotten over her. So I could have sex, gotten revenge on the guy the screwed me over, and more or less proven she's still a slut to everyone. But in the end I didnt do it. I told myself when she first cheated on me that I could never help someone cheat on their bf. And in the end i just knew it would be wrong. But did I really make the right decision? I mean, there was litterally no draw backs to doing it, but I still couldnt. It's been bugging me, and I want to know what others think.

2007-05-10 18:54:36 · 17 answers · asked by JJ F 2 in Singles & Dating

Watched porn occasionally by herself also owned a vibrator?My hubby has a problem with this? Nothing personal to him sometimes i just prefer to take matters into my own hands and like to have an orgasim guarenteed

2007-05-10 18:52:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i cant have guy phone calls or guy friend,or a cell, boyfriend out of the question my father say the day i start dating is the day i get kicked out, but i have a fiance cannot tell him becuase my step mother is mean and making him hate me for silly stuff i dont botter them im so freaking docile everyone ask me how the hell i coorporate with an evil step mother for 5 years and never curse her a ss out or else,years even grown 50 something adult asked me that about a MILLIONS TIME. they offer for me to move in with them they are all lady's of course well my fiancee want to get married in july i want them there but i know he wont show up, especially since his african american and im caribbean well not a very big difference to me cause i dont give a dam n, hes my men. but i seriously need help im my own women i pay for my school and everything else except i live with them.

2007-05-10 18:52:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 18:46:56 · 12 answers · asked by roxN 1 in Singles & Dating

And discuss her Ex-husbands martial problems?

2007-05-10 18:29:08 · 24 answers · asked by jnnfchar 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 18:21:47 · 21 answers · asked by Jammie_♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

I was with my partner for 6 years, I was very young and believed everything she told me. How much she loved and cared for me etc etc. It was a bad relationship from the beginning, we fought a lot, but she was a manipulator and I was too stupid to see the real her. I loved her, gave her my heart and all she ever did was lie, cheat and treat me badly. Now its over and its been a while, i found somebody new and I cant seem to forget the past and everything that happenned. I want to love again but I cant seem to open my heart up. What should I do?

2007-05-10 18:20:05 · 13 answers · asked by Dreamy-girl123 1 in Singles & Dating

generally how many ppl have you slept with in your life?

2007-05-10 18:19:42 · 18 answers · asked by Cherry R 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is pretty affectionate at times. We’ve been best friends for about 3 year now, and just last year I told her that I was bisexual. She didn’t have a problem with it, which was good. But then I’ve noticed that she’s been getting really…touchy feeling with me whenever she stays the night. She has a different boyfriend about every two weeks, but this doesn’t stop her from always holding my arm when we walk together, hugging me from behind a lot, whenever we’re laying down together, she’ll normally rest her head on my lower stomach. Also, when we were sleeping at another friend’s house together, and we were sleeping on the couch, I woke up the next morning and she was literally spooning me.
And whenever we play truth or dare with our friends, she never, ever has a problem kissing me if we’re dared to. She’ll blush really, really bad, but she does it anyway. (she NEVER blushes.)
Is she just really comfortable around me? Or is she actually thinking about trying anything?

2007-05-10 18:18:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Like needing a good whuppin every once in a while?

2007-05-10 18:18:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a regular guy, i like ladys, but I can't seem to find a girlfriend
in my age group. what am I doing wrong? I don't drink, no drugs, I work full time, I'm in good health, I'm not fat and fairly good looking I've been told. Why can't I find a real girlfriend?

2007-05-10 18:14:14 · 4 answers · asked by treehouse 2 in Singles & Dating

Could you spend 30 Million dollar"s in 30 days, why because if you don't you wont recived 100 ,Million Dollar's this is the way your rich aunt are uncle set their will up could you do it ?

2007-05-10 18:14:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My significant other has three wonderful children (6,8 and 12). I have a good relationship with them all and really enjoy spending time with them. A couple of months ago their mother gave full custody to their dad (my SO) so she could pursue a career as a flight attendant. Originally kids thought she would be gone a few days at a time and then home to see them for a few days. Her schedule is mostly weekends allowing her 3-4 days off and at home during the week. In reality she has only had the kids over night 4-5 times since mid-february and when she does see the kids it is once every couple of weeks for maybe four hours after school and then brings them home. I am with them quite a bit and have seen all of them upset because they miss mommy. Any suggestions on how to help them w/ missing her? How can I be supportive of them w/o making them feel like i'm trying to be their mother? I want my own relatinship w/ them & don't want them to feel that I'm ever trying to take her place

2007-05-10 18:04:07 · 3 answers · asked by springergal 1 in Family

I got in one little fight outside of school in Philadelphia and now she is talking about moving me out to California. How can I make her understand?

2007-05-10 17:56:06 · 15 answers · asked by Sarah H 1 in Family

Ive been talking to this girl for quite a while now. We are still friends and I want more than that. She's giving hints that she needs somebody to teach her to trust AGAIN. He has 4 relationships in the past already, meaning, she does not trust guys anymore. But I wanna be different from them...I really like this girl and Im looking somebody for me to get married. So far our friendship is good, we talk a lot of good times and enjoyment, hobbies and other fun stuff. HOw to talk to her about this specifically so that shell trust me?

2007-05-10 17:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by benison_jerberson 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just came over, we had a great time and we went to the park and he took picturese of us. It is finals week and towards the end of the semester he hasnt been calling as much, but he treats me great. I think that maybe i call him too much sometimes, do some guys just not initiate conversation sometimes. I am scared about being in love for the first time. What happens when a relationship progresses..do you talk less becausee you see eachother more. Do you get more comfortable with eachother. I havent been over his parents house ever, but its really grimy and hes a neat freak. He offered to take me to his brother's though, which is really big to me. He also talks to my little three year old sister on the phone when she is there, and smiles at pictures of her. His eyes smile when he looks at me, and maybe some time not seeing eachother as much during sumer is good? I feel like I get crazy sometimes, is this normal. Is it okay? He loves me. I love him, am i freaking out.

2007-05-10 17:29:11 · 2 answers · asked by sally 2 in Singles & Dating

i see this girl every once in awhile in the halls. we always make eye contact, smile, and say hi to each other.........im so mad we can't get past that i know she likes me but i dont no what to do next.......i need some flirting tips quick

2007-05-10 17:21:54 · 3 answers · asked by hotsauce131 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend says that I am not affectionate and I never initiate kisses or hugs. He's very romantic and I love that about him and when we are together I know he is going to kiss me or hold my hand, yet he is always mad at me. He gets so mad over the littlest things and calls me names and such and thinks that it is the same as me not initiating affection.

PS we don't have sex..I'm waiting.

2007-05-10 17:18:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy 4 a few weeks & I thought everything was going fine, it‘s safe to say all the dates have been perfect. The 1st day we started talking he has this cousin (a boy) who he does everything 4 even at the expense of himself. The cousin is younger (17) & the guy I’m dating is 28. He is the driver, food getter, the errand runner, u name it he does it. He even cut a date short with me because the cousin was in need. He says that him & his cousin r working on a few jobs together which takes up a lot of his time & these jobs are keeping his cousin from a life of crime, that's why he does it. I feel due to the fact he just got out of a 4 year relationship 6 months ago he turned to his cousin to fill that void. My question if for four days now he has touched based with me at work through IM telling me he would call me later on that night and he has not yet. When he IM's me the next day, it was something with his cousin. So my question is what would you make of that?

2007-05-10 17:11:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce