Strick parent im 21 years old?

Question

i cant have guy phone calls or guy friend,or a cell, boyfriend out of the question my father say the day i start dating is the day i get kicked out, but i have a fiance cannot tell him becuase my step mother is mean and making him hate me for silly stuff i dont botter them im so freaking docile everyone ask me how the hell i coorporate with an evil step mother for 5 years and never curse her a ss out or else,years even grown 50 something adult asked me that about a MILLIONS TIME. they offer for me to move in with them they are all lady's of course well my fiancee want to get married in july i want them there but i know he wont show up, especially since his african american and im caribbean well not a very big difference to me cause i dont give a dam n, hes my men. but i seriously need help im my own women i pay for my school and everything else except i live with them.

ohh and my step mother is always sayin g mean stuff about my mom l mean she never even meet her not once and shes like that, i cannot stand her talking about my mother i swear before i move out in December im using all those boxing lessons ive been taking on her as s.

Answer 1

Move out

Answer 2

there isn't something morally or ethically incorrect with it, yet be very careful approximately getting actual till you're 18. The regulation would nicely be very unforgiving with the under 18 element, there have been many situations the place one occasion became into one month away 18, and the different became into 18, and nevertheless went to reformatory/have been given categorised as a sexual predator, did not rely in the event that they have been given married the subsequent month or something. so some distance as an ongoing courting, age, and exceedingly in basic terms 3 years is extremely not vulnerable to make lots of a distinction. human beings get forward, fall at the back of, and atone for adulthood each and all of the time. i'm coming up on 31, and doubtless not extra mature than while i became into 25, my spouse who's older, is even worse.

Answer 3

Perhaps it is time to move out, hon, but first, think about a few things... are you moving out to get away?

You have been untruthful with your parents, who, probably are trying to help you.

Some things to think about------

If you are planning to move out, can you support yourself?
If you are planning to move out, is it to marry this guy?


If you and he are not planning to have children right away, do you take birth control precautions? If you get pregnant right away, your have now a big financial problem, and ..... you go from being the sexy babe huss and lover, to mom and housewife, and he goes from being the man, the stud the sex machine to father and provider. Relationships that immediately produce a child are usually quite unhappy, and most do not survive 2 years.... ask any counselor... Few marriages adjust to this easily that are not solid, and have some years and planning behind choosing to become parents. And this is so unfair to the child... every kid deserves two parents who have planned for him/her.

Look at all the questions on here ...."What do I do... I am 24 have 7 kids by 5 different men, they all leave after a few years, I have no money and no education...and no family... what do I do,,, yadhadadhddahdaa" (Yes in deed, what DO they do? They stay, they are miserable, the guy leaves, and they are stuck, as in "baggage"> And few men wish to raise other men's children......) Don't get caught in this trap...

This could be someone like you.

You are certainly now of age, but though I do not wish to be rude, your command of English is poor, even at 21. This would put you in the job area of a server at McDonald's or some other minimum wage job. If you have the smarts, do whatever you need to do to get an education with some salable skill. If that mean you and he move in together, fine. But sweetie, go back to school.... Marriages/relationships don't last forever, children do, and so does an education. Pick education first. (And no, it is not classy to cuss anyone's a(s)(s) out... be that person a friend, or someone who has helped keep a roof over your head... just not nice.)

If you don't like where you are, at 21 leave, and again, if you have the smarts, get an education... Most of us are happy and the dickens to have someone standing at those McDonald's counters to take an order. Do you wish to be one of them???

From what you have added, you possess something of a mean streak, hon. If you were my step child, I think I would have asked you to leave as soon as you turned 18. This is not to say that your step mom is an angel, but you, from these words are a piece of work in your hatred for her.... not nice, not cool, and shows no class.

If you wish your step. mom to say nothing, you ask her kindly, " I understand you feelings, but she is my mother, and please, I do not wish to know your opinion.... thank you" Smile, and walk away. You may have to do this a few times to train her, but when you say this and smile, you win and you win every time you walk away with a smile........... Good luck, sweetie.

Answer 4

My parents are strict too. Just ignore them and defy them in any way possible. They usually let up on you then. If not, it's time to move out and live your own life.

Answer 5

Time to move out.