Ive been talking to this girl for quite a while now. We are still friends and I want more than that. She's giving hints that she needs somebody to teach her to trust AGAIN. He has 4 relationships in the past already, meaning, she does not trust guys anymore. But I wanna be different from them...I really like this girl and Im looking somebody for me to get married. So far our friendship is good, we talk a lot of good times and enjoyment, hobbies and other fun stuff. HOw to talk to her about this specifically so that shell trust me?
2007-05-10 17:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by benison_jerberson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very difficult to answer your question pal....
I think the best answer would be never "fail" her... meaning, if she sent you sms or give you a call or ask you for some small favor, just be there for her "at all times". If you happen to miss some of her sms or call, be sure to reply back.. saying like "hey, sorry m busy with something...." That way she will think that you are a reliable person and eventually will learn to trust you... Doesnt mean to say that you have no right to refuse her request, just reply saying like "sorry i cant make it..." and not like ignore her or something...
Trust come with time pal.... You dont force it out of a person....
After being close or always be there for her say about two months or so.... Try to be away (from her) for a period of time... But inform her about it, say something like "Hey, i wouldnt be around for quite some time bec m busy with blah blah blah" She would miss you for sure.... Hopefully that will encourage her to see you from a different light and give your relationship a change....
2007-05-10 17:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by SushiGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the talk in the world wont make her trust you.if shes giving hints she needs then she wants to.one thing is a fact,if she doesnt forgive her past and leave it in the past there wont be any trust for you or any other man. you cant teach her to trust only give her someone to trust. hang in there and keep it real
2007-05-11 03:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by "uponthesoapboxagain" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way she'll trust you is if you promise her something and you don't break it. Ask her out, tell her you're different from other guys and that you'd NEVER lie. Maybe do something special that'll knock her off her feet.
2007-05-11 00:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way for you to show her that she can trust you. she is dumb for saying that. she has to trust you right away until she has a reason not to trust you. she needs to realize that not everyone will let her down
2007-05-11 00:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself ...be kind ..gentle ..considerate!
and if you make plans with her dont stand her up!
trust is earned and not given!
2007-05-11 00:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by craig m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk is cheap. prove by actions. patience is required and understanding.
2007-05-11 00:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by kaatje 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?
2007-05-11 00:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋